my friend and i r almost the same person and i think she likes me but if i ask her out and she says no will she still want to be my friend? by the way, we r both 13 and in 8th grade
2007-11-10 13:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by baseball_champ13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well at your age, you're most likely destined for a number of relationships long after this one, and 10 years from now you might barely remember her, much less still be best friends. You never know, but that's how the odds see it.
My point being; what have you got to lose?
Ask her out!
One of exactly 3 things will happen:
1. she will say yes!
2. she will say no, and still be your friend.
3. she will say no, and decide to not be your friend.
I would say the odds strong favor 1 or 2 over #3.
But if you never try, you never will know. The man who risks nothing risks a life of mediocrity.
Worst case scenario you end up going out with someone else and make a new best friend.
2007-11-10 14:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW!! supply it a while first.. if she didnt like the rumor, she ought to unlike you telling her precise off the bat..in basic terms instruct her which you like her by making use of flirting and stuff like that.. and if she flirts backs and treats you an identical then, deliver her an e mail or text fabric message, ask her to the movies, and while yur on the movies, supply her somewhat some hugs and kisses and tell her, while the action picture is over(it could actually be a romantic action picture, ) in basic terms tell her, dat u like her slowly and if she doesnt look satisfied after that, then supply it time and he or she'll come around,, if yall are fairly as close as u say, she shouldnt destroy yur friendship over that.. stable success
2016-11-11 02:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that's a tough one...if you think she likes you, she probably does...try flirting with her and see if she does it back...the best relationships come out of friendships like that...so just start getting a little more on the romantic side instead of the friend side, and see where it takes you...it may ruin your friendship if she doesn't want to go out with you so try not to go overboard...
2007-11-10 14:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by puffer fish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u ask her out b4 she says yes or no say something like: "Before u say yes or no ,I like you but if your going to say no i really do not want things to be weird between us so if u say no i still want to b good friends" or something like that :)
hope i helped :)
2007-11-10 14:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go out and it doesn't work out, the friendship will be ruined. So either take the chance or keep your mouth shut. There are no guarantees in life.
2007-11-10 14:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 13 too! and this how it was for me! You should sit down with her and say
"please don't get mad at me for saying this. but i like you as more than a friend, can i take you on a date" or something like that.
2007-11-10 14:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by !amber! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing she could say is no.
Look no girl will stop being your friends just because you asked them out.
2007-11-10 14:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kathleen Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear You,
This can always be a hard situation, but if your gut tells you to go for it and ask her, then do it. Nothing is holding you back except for your fears. :)
good luck,
PS- go for it.
2007-11-10 14:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋