i have this crush and he knows now i smile at him every day but i don't know if he likes me back and i want a different look any ideas i have blond hair blue eyes he has blue eyes blond hair and my friends say he is ugly but hes really really cute and now they tease me should i dump them?
2007-11-10 12:16:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you just talk to him and tell him that you might be interested. Why play all these games and maybe let him slip away?pp
2007-11-10 12:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you want a different look for yourself or for him or your friends? if it's to make you happy then go for it! But if you want it just for the attention then drop the idea. That's not a good choice. Don't necessarily "dump" your friends. That would be mean. I would say tell them how you feel. But that's something a shrink would say and i don't want to sound like a shrink. Just dont listen to them (even though that might be very hard to do since they're your friends). Other than that. GO FOR IT!
hope this helps and good luck ;)
2007-11-10 20:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥hugglez♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dump your friends u need them the most but heyy who cares what your friends think u like the guy so go for it i mean that is if your ready for a relationship and of coarse he has to like u which im sure he does so good luck!
Also dont change ur look just for a guy its not worth it cuz if you start to like it then they dump you you'll just get depressed everytime you get dressed and who would want that
2007-11-10 20:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. This is my opininon.
1) Just ask him! It's so much easier once you have your answer because you won't keep wondering baout it and if you don't you are 100% sure to regret it.
2) Who CARES what your friends think? If you like him, thats all that matters. You're the one that likes him, not your friends.
3) Don't change your look for a guy. Be yourself and if he does like you, he should like you for who you are. Not who you're pretending to be. Of course, if you want to change your look for yourself, go right ahead.
4) I don't think you should dump your friends. You said yourself they're only teasing you and if it is really starting to get to you, confront them and ask them to stop. They're not going to stop if they don't know it bugs you. If you think they ARE bugging you on purpose, they weren't great friends to begin with.
2007-11-10 20:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! NEVER dump your friends! NEVER!
the only reason you should dump your friends if.. nothing. never dump your friends!
a guy shouldn't come between your friends.
NEVER change a look just for a guy. just be yourself.
you're trying so hard to be with him. and it's tearing you away from your friends.. and maybe he's cute. but his personality is junk.
yeah. get to know him before you decide to like him.
2007-11-10 20:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO! If you like him, who cares what they think!!!!! If he was a bad boy and nothing but trouble and a player and your friends dont like him, that is when you can consider what they are saying. But if they think he is ugly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. [that means people have different tastes in guys, go with your taste]
2007-11-10 20:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that feels.
Just tell your friends, "Well, I like him, that has nothing to do with you."
and if the problem persists, just have a serious talk with them.
And with the guy, just hang out with him.
Strike up a conversation!
If hes anything like Kurt was,
things will end well :]
2007-11-10 20:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will come and go but friends are forever. Never dump your friends just because they don't like a guy and you do. He's not worth it, however much you might like him. He's also not worth changing for. If he doesn't like you for who you are, he's not for you.
2007-11-10 20:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Stuck [DFTBA] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and talk to hi. It does not matter what you friends think. Show him you care. You are the one who thinks he is cute, so go for it! Just Do what you heart tells you!
2007-11-10 20:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by garden_nut89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u like him u should go tell him and ur friends should support u not tease u. good luck
2007-11-10 20:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋