I have this guy and we've recently become really close. He's liked me before, and i've liked him before, but its never worked out. Now we are like BEST friends.
And i like him again.
Should i tell him or not??
I dont want to ruin our friendship..but i REALLLLYYY really really really like him!
2007-11-10 08:52:06 · 35 answers · asked by Secrertt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would follow your heart. For all successful relationships you should like someone to love someone. I am sure a lot of people would agree that have been married for several years, that they are best friends. I think you have achieved the first mile stone and If you are really best friends, just discuss it and then move forward. If relationship doesn't work out, friendship shall still prevail
2007-11-10 08:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by whizinthevalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so from what you've told us so far, you tried to be more than just friends with this guy in the past but it didn't work out... What makes you think that if you try, things will be different this time ?
You see, if you wouldn't have tried in the past, now I would have told you to go for it and try and see what happens, but considering that it didn't work out in the past, I don't know how different this time will be if you go on and tell him you really like him.
Try to think about it... you have a beautiful friendship relationship, you are BEST FRIENDS, and that's something... would you give this friendship for a love relation that never worked in the past ?
2007-11-10 08:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the wisest thing to do would be to just be patient and let nature take it's course. Sometimes a good friendship can be ruined by trying to be romantic. On the other hand if you are patient and it is meant to be a love relationship could developer. I wish for you all the best.
2007-11-10 09:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by ethology 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard, but try to conceal your feelings.
Not many people have a guy for a BFF and it's one of the greatest things ever.
In fact, many close friendships between a guy and a girl can go onto become romantic relationships!
But i'd personally be afraid of ruining our friendship.
I'd say wait it out.
2007-11-10 08:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Demi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt work out last time what makes you think its going to work out this time? the best relationship with someone is a friendship because relationships come and go and friendships are there forever..you're better off being his friend..but if u dont want to take that advice and risk your friendship try it out again with him, see what he thinks and feels about giving things another shot. but just think about whrn you two break up again? will you still be best friends? friends forever? maybe you should leave it as it is..is it really worth the risk? and you do everything a couple does anyways...go out to the movies, mall, etc..good luck
2007-11-10 08:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not often a girl can have a friend of the opposite sex. Don't ruin it by trying to cross the line. There are too many other fish in the sea.
2007-11-10 08:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought i was the only one with this problem, i would really would like to help but im in that pickle too, and im having problems myself, what i do is just kinda ignore that i like her and be best friends, ive asked people and they say that it wont work, because if u stay friends you will have that hope of still being together, and when he finds someone u will get realy hurt, and dont know what to do, thewy even compared it with the movie 13 gonig on 30, but im still confused, i really like her, i dont think she likes me but tell him, and if he says no, im really sorry, but dont stop talking to him, im not stopping to talk to her... thinkgs happen for a reason..
2007-11-10 08:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by sexy paco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to do anything, you have tried it before and its never worked? so this time just go with it, be best friends and do little things that might show him you care more, and see if in time it works into something more....if it does so be it, if not...well you cant say that you did not try.
2007-11-10 09:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off ask a friend thats a guy and see if he likes you too. If he does try asking him and a couple of your friends to watch a movie. And when you know he has had a good time and your friends are gone you can ask him to be your boyfriend.
2007-11-10 08:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or you really really want him, i dont think you would like him if you had a man!!
BUT ya'll might just b bestfriends coz hes into u and cant let u go so you ask him out on something that lovers and friends can both do together but just dont act like a friend more like a lover
2007-11-10 08:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by cherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋