Please know that I have brought sexy clothes, danced for him, stripped for him etc. He does take the bait, and the whole thing is over in 2mins. I have talked to him for 2 years. I have been begging him to go on a vacation. He refused. I had a heart to heart with him two weeks ago. It didn't help, back at square one. Thank you guys for your comments. but, I have reached a decision, I'm leaving him today. I've been planning for awhile. My husband won't be home until 12mid. I have packed, emptied my account (we have separated accounts), I have brought two airline tickets. Me and my son will leave at 8pm. tonight. I took a leave of absence from my job just in case I want to return. Going to leave with a relative until I get settle. I feel that my mind will snap if I don't leave. Guys pray for me. If this is wrong, why do I feel so good. Comments?
2007-11-10 09:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you! Seriously! It takes a lot to be strong enough to leave and move on with your LIFE. It makes you a better woman for it. And there is someone out there who will appreciate the wonderul woman that you are. And actually want to have a relationship and everything it entails with you. I am sorry to say but you did not have a marriage with this man. The romance should not go once you have signed that one peice of paper. If anything, it should get more romantic. There is far more to LIFE then being miserable and unhappy. What kind of LIFE is that? Just because you got married? I don't think so. You are expected to work something out, stay in a bad marriage, waste the best years of your LIFE, for what? A marriage only works when both people are working on it and working to make it better. Not worse. Marriage is a wonderful, exciting, loving, romantic, passionate, joyful, desirable thing when it is all of those things, but if its not, then what do you have? A bad marriage. I think a lot of people fool themselves into thinking, okay I got married, now I am expected to stay and live this. For who? Who are you living it for? Someone once told me and I truly believe this: Marriage can either be heaven or hell. Is it too much to expect your marriage to be heaven? Is it too much to want the romance, the love, the passion, the affection,the joy, the laughter, the desire to want to be there, needing your spouse, wanting your spouse? No, its not too much to want this. That is what it should be. You didn't get married to live in a stale relationship, where there is no intimacy, no romance, no love, no heart, no soul, and you can only kick a dead horse for so long. 2 years of talking to him. It should have only taken one conversation.
I think that you are doing a tremondous thing. And if momma ain't happy, no one is. Good luck.
2007-11-10 09:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this what you decided to do, that's fine. It does sound like the marriage is not going anywhere and your husband is done trying. However, I don't recommend taking your son away. That's not fair. Your husband will always be your son's Dad and deserves to see his son. Your husband can call the cops on you if you take your son away. Why don't you just take your son to a relatives place to stay and find yourself an apartment?
2007-11-10 09:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the romance should not stop after the marriage. My parents were married 69 years, and they still cuddled and kissed each other. My father always called Mom "my darling wife" and meant it. Marriage counseling might be a solution, but you have found another. Good luck to you and your son.
2007-11-10 09:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dee Gee J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An assumption that everything is his fault. I bet it's not. A change in one person is generally due to a change in the other and vice versa.
You're right. It's probably over. BUT it's never 100% one persons fault. At the very least. You married him.
2007-11-10 09:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will definitely pray for you and you are the only one who can make this decision. Sounds as if you tried your best to make a go of it and he is unwilling to really listen to what you are saying, or, doesn't even care. If you are feeling good about your choice, then it is the one to make. Good luck!
2007-11-10 09:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is observed as fan provider, many video games are directed in the direction of a male objective audience so as that they do what pleases them etc. i do no longer think of gender mattered in DOA 2 on the grounds which you may desire to romance many human beings in spite of your character gender. akin to skyrim like that.
2016-10-02 01:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has committed adultery you are wrong. You are breaking your wedding vows. Remember them? For better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer until DEATH do us part.
2007-11-10 09:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good for you, it takes lots of strength to move on.
2007-11-10 09:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋