I dress well, I'm not heavy but I'm not buff/toned, Stay very clean and I don't smell. I am sometimes termed gay because my voice doesn't sound like most guys my age (11th grade) its a bit higher and a bit more feminine but I don't know what to do about it. I really don't want to change who I am but it seems from my experiences that I'm not that attractive to the opposite sex. What should I do about this predicament? I have tons of friends that are girls and guys but girls just don't seem attracted to me and its really discouraging.... help please?
2007-11-10 08:54:59 · 10 answers · asked by Yo Yo Ma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have all those good qualities about you then maybe its the opposite of what you are thinking..trust me the girs feel insecure also and feel like you might not like them either..people can scence that you are insecure or that you feel you are not that attractive..do you smile? walk with your head up high? your positive?! you must maintain all those things..and added to what you said you are..are you respectful? with a good attitude and nice personallity? im sure nothing is wrong if you have all those good qualities about you..just think positive..trust me that there is someone who likes you but maybe shes too shy to show it..it happendss trust me..good luck
2007-11-10 09:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello yo yo ma!
First of all do not feel left out.
If girls do not like you for who you are, then even if you were to get into a relationship, you will soon realise that it would not be as wholesome as you'd like it to be.
Do'nt worry! You're still young! You sound like a decent person, and perhaps one day you will find a girl or person who would like you for who you are.
Changing is not a good idea, because then you become who you're not, you will find it tiring and stressfull! Why be an actor and not get paid for it?
You're still young, have hopes and live your life well!
2007-11-10 09:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid unwanted nuisance at places.Keep the hairstyle hot. Use perfumes(ONLY THE SOOTHING ONES!!) in adorable quantity. Be casual when talking ,specially with female. Keep the self-esteem on ! Be kind and caring(THATS FOR WHEN YOU HAVE GOT A GIRL ATTRACTED 2 U) Rest on your face!
2016-05-29 02:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change coz then how will that girl find you who likes your find of people. Dont feel discouraged and dont try too hard. Im a strong believer in fate and you will find your match when the right time comes. *hugs*
2007-11-10 09:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by spicy cola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls seem to like arrogant, insensitive and you get more attention when you don't care about them. But there is a fine line between Jerk and a guy with an edge.
2007-11-10 09:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by whizinthevalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposed to judging whats on the outside improve whats on the inside.
2007-11-10 09:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. The right girl will come along and recognize that in time.
2007-11-10 08:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about them and what they say cuz someone will come along and love and treat u the rite way. be very comfident in yourself, girls can see that and will be drawn to you.
2007-11-10 09:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Francesca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change who you are for anybody. Just wait til someone can accept you for who you are.
2007-11-10 08:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to act like yourself
don't try to change yourself
2007-11-10 08:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋