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Ok I guess the question marks got you to click..lol..thought it would get more answers but ANYWAY,,,
I'm dating kinda a dork. He's really skinny and I feel..well..chubby sitting next to him. His clothes irritate me. And..he snorts when he laughs which bothers me. BUT,,, he treats me like a QUEEN. I love it.
The problem is, I kind of want to dump him cause like yesterday at the movies he kissed me and I didn't really like it..aren't first kisses supposed to tell about a relationship?
So, should I dump him or learn to like him?

PS...don't call me shallow cause it will be ignored.

Answer 1

I thionk you should dump if you dn't fell the magic when you kiss him! plus if you don't like his appearance so much that it irritates you then the answer should be and obvious dump himimmediately! Snorting is digusting in my opinion and it shows nervousness especislly in a guy. And I think you should go and find a guy who is the total package which compliments you and your style!

Answer 2

If you're not feeling anything from the first kiss, dump him. It's nice that he treats you great, but if the little things are bothering you now, just wait, those little things will turn into big things and then they'll really bother you later on.

You need a guy that treats you good and someone that you're attracted to also, and one thing I've noticed in my past relationships is that you can tell a lot by a first kiss. A lot of people don't believe that, but that's always been the case with me. Try keeping him as a good friend if you can.
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Best of luck to you

Answer 3

I would just dump him now if you don't like him. Your not shallow. There has to be some physical attraction in order to really keep a relationship going. I advise you to dump him soon. The earlier in the relationship that it's done, the less it will hurt. Make sure to be as kind about it as possible so he won't hate your guts. Good Luck.

Answer 4

I don't think your are shallow you just don't feel what he feels, maybe you can talk to him about his clothes and his laugh and tell him that it bothers you, then he might try to change things, but with the first kiss, maybe you did not like it, cause you really don't feel the same as him, if you give it a little more time and see if he changes a little bit, then you might like him a little more.

Answer 5

Quirks aside, if you liked him enough to be with him, you should like him enough to work on him. He seems like a great guy- he treats u like a queen, HELLO!! His quirks arent that big of a deal. We all have quirks. A makeover is a minor thing you can do.

Do not change who he is, change what he looks like-his clothing, teach him how you like to be kissed, etc. Shopping together is fun and helps you bond. My guy loves it n we both love helping to dress eachother. We all need a little help with fashion once in a while and who better but ur sweetie to help u!

Snorting is funny, I snort when I laugh really hard and my bf thinks its hilarious n cute. No one is perfect, we all have quirks but when you find a great guy that you connect with who treats you like the queen you are, Girl, hold on to him. Make it work.

Answer 6

How he treats you is more important than how he looks. Remember, actions speak louder than words.

Clothes are easy to change; offer to take him shopping and pick out some things you think would look good on him.

Everyone has annoying habits, you just have to decide if they outweigh the good.

As for the kissing, show him how YOU like to be kissed. I don't think a guy would mind "practicing" as often as possible!

Answer 7

Dont worry thats not shallow. I think you should stay with him for a while and if it keeps up then break up with kindly, dumping sounds kinda mean. The kiss probably was just the first time nervousness it may get better. So stay with him for a while and see what happends or maybe make him break up with you....?

Answer 8

Kiss him several more times. You can't judge him based on a 1st kiss because 1st kisses are loaded with expectations. If you already like his personality kiss him at least 5 more times to determine whether there is actual chemistry or not.

And it's not shallow to not love what you're boyfriend wears. Most boys have no idea what to wear and they just buy/wear whatever's around - if you're young it's probably just whatever his mom buys him - he's likely not like committed to it as his personal style. You can dress him later, he'll probably like it.

Answer 9

If you have to ask Dump Him . You should be with someone, who you just can't stay away from .. Someone you enjoy being with .. There are allot of nice guys that will treat you well ...
Look for someone who respects you and shows that it's you whom he want to be around. Forget that Queen stuff that's for kids..

Answer 10

i guess it kind of depends on how long you've been dating him...i think you should maybe just stay a bit longer and see if you like him when you know him better. Sometimes when that many things irritate you, you can only see that and not the person they are (im guilty too dont worry) so stick around just a bit longer :)