im happy and trying to do well at school
why is it my friends are so concerned about my none existing love life?
they all have boyfriends, and there concerne is slowly starting to bug me...
2007-11-10 08:47:10 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
14 and no boyfriend? WOW! Seriously, tell your friends to lighten up. Boyfriends are no big deal, all they want at your age is to get you out of your clothes to satisfy their own hormonal urges. I am 25 and although I have had several boyfriend since I was 18, I have found non that I want to share that experience with. YET. Just give it time, it's not a badge of honor to have a boyfriend, especially at 14. I hope you are strong enough to hold out and get a really good education. It's the only way for a girl to get ahead in the world, and make a difference. There is nothing wrong with you, please believe that, for it is true. You just seem to have your priorities in the proper order for now. Peace be with you throughout your life.
Donna.
2007-11-11 00:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehhhh... ignore them. You are fourteen years old and absolutly DO NOT need a boyfriend. I don't have one either, I'm the same age as you. I don't intend to get one until well into high school or even college. Never be in a rush to get a relationship, because all you'll end up doing is saying that you love a guy that you really don't have feelings for, and I personally think that that is more of a cause for concern than your 'non-existing love life'.
2007-11-10 08:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - don't worry about not having a boyfriend. The good news is that you're trying to do well in school. Think about it this way - you could either do well at school and go on to get a decent, well paid job and have a proper family...or you could have a boyfriend, fall pregnant by the time you're 16 and have a very limited future. Don't listen to your friends - if they were true friends then they wouldn't criticize you would they?
2007-11-10 08:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by pipi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love doesn't happen at your age. I used to think that I was in love with my boyfriends when I was your age. I think it's cool that you are focused on school and doing well. Right now any boyfriends your friends are just puppy love. It's ok to have guys you hang out with and have fun with. Until you're a 40 year old virgin I think you have nothing to worry about. And ask your friends why your "love life" is any of their concern.
2007-11-10 09:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still much too young to be "locked down" w/ a BF, all that relationship stuff gets in the way, really it can get kinda crazy.. Have fun, date different people! Someday you will be married and stuck w/ the same person for the rest of your life......don't start now. Do your best to make your friends jealous by all the hot guys you date, then they will wish they were single too!
2007-11-10 08:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by hammernsawpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont mind them think straight for your self and work hard to get a good job and after that a man will be by your side and love u too bits the better you do at school the better you meet people and when you are a bit older go out dancing and clubbing and meet a man there.
2007-11-10 08:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that one friend who is determined to get me a boyfriend no matter how much I don't want one right now, she went so far as to ask a kid out for me without me knowing. I felt bad for him because he actually liked me, but I really didn't want a boyfriend. I have a lot of things I need to work out before I get a boyfriend, including several anxiety disorders and my OCD. I'm 15, and just firmly tell her to stop, though not in a mean way because I know she's just trying to help me. Just trying to ignore it and politely asking them to stop. If they don't stop then just keep repeating it, they will eventually get the idea.
2007-11-10 08:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Broken Doll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE ONE. You won't meet the man your going to marry until probably ten years from now. If you have, say, a minimum of 2 boyfriends a year until then, you'll have slept with 20 guys by the time you meet your husband! And don't let anyone fool you, that's the point of pairing up. Better to date casually in groups, never get attatched, and work on getting the best grades you can. The better you do at school the better life you'll have, the better quality of man you'll get. Your friends are in for nothing but heartache and regret, not to mention possible reputations.
2007-11-10 08:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Then again, I'm 15 and never had one. But you just do what you think is best. You don't need to cave in to peer pressure and get a boyfriend and cause yourself trouble just because all you're friends are doing it. If it bothers you that much, try to find other people to hang out with now and then. That way, you'll have someone to kinda vent to about your other friends.
2007-11-10 08:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't panic! Most people don't get boyfriends until 16. Well the sensible people don't. Anyway, if there's noboady you like and your school is full of dickheads (same!) why bother? I'd wait for the right person at the right time.
2015-08-11 12:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by PepeMeDaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋