whats the advantage and disadvantage of getting married early????
2007-11-10 07:54:35 · 15 answers · asked by jason D.C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its up to you and your significant other ....honestly no one can or should answer that for someone else everyone is different...if everyone on here says "OH I think 30 is a good age" but your are ready to get married now and you are say 22 are you going to wait till your 30? probably not your going to do what feels right for you....
by the way I was 20 and my guy was 22....yes we have had some struggles but what marriage doesn't? we have been married for 16yrs we have 3 kids and are still very much in love...marriage is work no matter what age you are when it happens
2007-11-10 08:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
age should not be the determining factor in when you look to get married. With that being said just for sake of answering the questions....
25 seems reasonable....
Getting married early works when the two people are willing to accept the fact that both people will inevitably go through changes that the other person is willing to accept. The disadvantage would be that the two people may not know themselves very well, may not be financially stable, and ultimately may not know what they want from a relationship.
But whenever you feel that you have matured as an individual (spirit, soul, and finances included) and have something to contribute to a person then that is a good indicator.
Hope this provides some insight.....
2007-11-10 16:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by jtuniquepsyche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
24
2007-11-10 16:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by lamuffluver4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 24 and divorced at 25.
I think it ALL depends on how u understand your partner (regardless of age - everyone is different). If you marry too young then you both may grow into different ppl and it may throw u off at one point or another. The important thing to keep in mind though is if you truly understand your partner on a deep level - truly understand them, that much itself will get you far in marriage. Good luck!
2007-11-10 16:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have completed 4 year of college or sat that you can take care of yourself first.
Education
A good paying job
A place to stay for yourself ( first/for about two to three years)
A car
Money in the bank ( for yourself)
If you have all these things going for you in your life, you may get married at the age of 28...........
2007-11-10 16:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you are ready to have kids (if you dont have them already), then get married. being married is pretty mundane, but its nice to have someone else around to help raise kids.
i dont know. if i could go back in time, i'd prlly wait til i was at least 30.
2007-11-10 17:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by HayleyD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say 28 at the youngest, but I like Hilbert's answer.
2007-11-10 16:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Care♥ mommy 2 my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say any age after 25.
2007-11-10 16:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberlee Taylor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thirty is good. I see no advantage to early marriage.
2007-11-10 15:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There really isn't a correct time
2007-11-10 16:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋