My partner has an account on a live webcam site where he can tell girls to do whatever he wants while he masturbates. He doesn't have a webcam, only they do. If you were in my situation, would you end the relationship? Would you consider this cheating?
2007-11-10 08:43:03 · 17 answers · asked by weatherizbad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmmm good question...cheating? Thats not my definition of cheating however others think differently. If my hubby was doing it and ignoring me then I'd have a problem w/ it but if I'm not being ignored then I wouldn't care its just like porn.
2007-11-10 08:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-29 02:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think this does cross the line. it is one thing to watch porn which I have come to accept it will happen in most realtionships at some point or another but that is a movie/ video etc. Being able to actually communicate with someone to tell them what to do and have interaction with them then yes I would consider that a form of cheating. I dont know that I would just break up (men are very visual creatures by far) but I would let him know it is not acceptable and if he chooses to continue then he is choosing to end the relationship. Give him the option and maybe explore opening yourself up to watching a video or two with him or offer to hook up a cam of yourself just for his eyes only.to satisfy that little freaky side. I have watched a video or two with my BF and its not all that bad and it has made some improvements to our sex life by giving us new things to try. Good Luck
2007-11-10 08:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't break up, but I would be quite upset if my wife did that. And yes in a way I would consider it cheating, becauase if I did that, I may not be having any physical contact with another woman, but I consider it emotional cheating because I'm thinking of another woman instead of my wife.
2007-11-10 09:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is cheating? Grow up. Leave him a find yourself a puppet who will tie himself to your side 24/7. Or deal with your insecurities.
I would have no problem with my wife masturbating to some video (live or not). In fact that's an idea.
2007-11-10 08:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes totally, this is cheating. Kick him out. You deserve someone better. I would check it if he is been to the websites after he met you. And if that is true then yes I would end the relationship.
2007-11-10 10:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I believe its cheating. However thins is your relationship. You need to decide what you consisted this and what you think you and your partner should do.
2007-11-10 08:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk him to Stop - and if you've already done that, and he's still doing it, then you may want to break it off and find someone else. Visual stimulation is great, but it's better if you are stimulated together !! If he prefers it alone,then you are wasting your time with him anyway. Good Luck!!
2007-11-10 09:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would break it off in a New York second. Unless he gets help. That behavior does not change and will only get worse as long as it is out there for him.
2007-11-10 08:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this the ONLY problem in the relationship? If so, then it's a simple porn addiction and can be dealt with. If not, then it's just symptom of a larger issue.
2007-11-10 08:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋