I have been with this guy for over 2 yrs now and we have a 5 month old baby girl. We get along great for the most part and he has been there for me in really hard times. I was hospitalized for 6 months in the begining of our relasionship and again for 2 weeks when I was pregnant, he was right there waiting for me and supporting me. He asks me everyday to marry him and I keep saying just a lil longer, is it time to say yes. I love him and do plan to be with him forever but I am just scared what do I do?
2007-11-10 06:50:46 · 15 answers · asked by Boo Boo Kitty Fuck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marry him or dont, either way he gonna keep asking untill he gets an answer, tell him your fears, he prob shares those feelings.
2007-11-10 07:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him marry him. you have a beautiful baby together. we stood by you when you were in hospital and he cares for you so marry him if you love him. as long as he respects you then marry him. if you keep putting it off he might get sick of asking and end up splitting up. you are not to young. plan the wedding for 2yrs. i hope when you were in hospital before you got pregnant it wasn't anything that he did to you. if it was then get out of the relationship
2007-11-10 07:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so I did the same thing I was to young but I thought I was in love,...31 years later I'm divorcing him. Please wait the two of you can live together for a good year and see how that works out of the two of you.
2007-11-10 07:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him? than that should be all that matters you really are not going to get an answer because everyone is going to be different,,, I do not think 20 is to young, I was and my husband was 22, we are still married 16yrs and we have 3 kids we have lasted and I think beat the odds ....but is this the right thing for you? I cant answer that because I do not know you or him....I think its your maturity level and mentality than age....Good Luck to you
2007-11-10 06:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 21 and we are now arranging our 10th wedding anniversary to Las Vagas to renew our vows (3 kids later)
2007-11-10 07:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Emma-Louise D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally I would say 20 is too young, but I would guess the 2 of you live together with the child and seeing you are already playing house you might as well get married what difference would it make.
2007-11-10 06:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i got married at 18 and never regret it,and have 2 kids young
2007-11-10 07:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really cares for and loves you.
But do not be pressured to do something you do not want to do, or are not ready for.
Everyone is different when it comes to their age and readiness to be married.
Do what is in your heart, and not what you think he or others think you should do. Only you know yourself best.
2007-11-10 06:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep seeing this man until you have little to no doubts about it. Things sound very promising, however you should feel comfortable with your decisions.
2007-11-10 06:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a baby that needs a dad, if you really love him and plan on being with him then i say "why wait"?
2007-11-10 06:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ purrlvr ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋