im thinking about it but im not sure i think just doing at night would be the best am i wrong?
2007-11-10 06:58:24 · 14 answers · asked by beastly102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time of day has little to do with it. Are you seriously interested in this person? Have you both planned and recieved birth control to prevent a pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease? Are you really prepared to give the gift of yourself to someone who may not feel so similarly to yourself? Most importantly, are you prepared to be responsible for another life if despite all the preparation, something did happen and a pregnancy occured? Talk about weather either of you would want to be tied to this person for the rest of your life if a child did result. Think about and answer all of those questions before you worry about what time of day.
2007-11-10 07:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself some time. Don't think "oh it will only take a half hour." The first time I had sex it was like a 2 hour long ordeal. You aren't gonna get it right away and it might take multiple tries and maybe even multiple condoms. Plus if you start to feel overwhelmed or you need to talk to your partner then that will take time also.
Basically just leave yourself a few hours for it... it doesn't really matter what time of day it is.
2007-11-10 15:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time doesn't matter. Just get it over with. It's going to horribly awkward, likely painful, and otherwise embarassing. It's not going to be the magical, fairytale, mind-blowing event you expect.
Sex is a skill, and you have to learn to do it well. Were you a perfect driver the first time you got behind the wheel? Did you hit a hole-in-one the first time you picked up a golf club? Did you write a Pulitzer-prize-winning novel the first time you picked up a pen?
2007-11-10 15:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cunning Linguist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will if it is your first time then hopefully it's with some one you care about.Remember sex is not something you just jump in too.When the time is right day or night will not mater as long as you are ready.And if it is your first time then be ready for some pain.If you are a virgin then be ready,night would be better if that is what you plan on doing.Then you have the whole night to get over it.good luck and be save use a rubber please.
2007-11-10 15:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to do the physical act of love for love or just for the "heck"
thats first thing you need to sort ..and then ..well night sounds appropiate unless your family or his are away for few days!
good luck ..buy ky jelly and condoms ..!!!
2007-11-10 15:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Racy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you want to have sex? Are you in love with someone and just can't resist?
2007-11-10 15:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing in the morning
2007-11-10 15:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bertha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the biggest turn off ever believe me dont plan out sex
let it happen on its own dont talk to much before it just do it
let one thing lead to another
2007-11-10 15:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by cinnamon apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think the best way is to wait till your married.
2007-11-10 15:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Gaga 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah do it at night.. it's more romantic and I don't know.. but you'll probably be hornier.. ahahha
2007-11-10 15:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋