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Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

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I am only asking this question because there are different attitudes between white and black men. Mostly at least where i come from, black men were more out and out aggressive so it could not be mistaken. but i have been moved to the suburbs that is like 0.5% black and i never know the communication or language between a white man. I am attractive, and classy.There are a lot of them that look at me like they are interested me, and do nothing, and there are some that i found out later that liked me but i couldn't have never guessed. Listen I am attracted to these white men and and I would love to go out, but i am afraid to approach and be wrong cause of a mixed signal. Please tell me what some white men think of black girls? and also please don't give me that stereotype, ghetto, rap music or aurgumentive or whatever. Cause that's is not my personality at all and it's obvious. But I really am interested in going out with these guys.

2007-11-09 16:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by soulchild 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know about the rest of you but I hate weeding through the questions that go something like this:

TITLE: HELP! OMG! My life is OVER! Read PUHLEAZE!?

Ok so der wuz dis guy n he lyked me kinduh n he tuld mah gurl at skool dat he wantz 2 take meh to dah winter dance but I saw him in da hall n he jus walkt pass me! Doz he lyke me r not?

Oh ya n he sat next 2 me in math last year n I lent him mah pen n i saw him n bio and he wuz uzin tha pen I gaves him LAST year! Doez dis mean he wantz 2 ask meh out?

2007-11-09 16:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by joellemoe 4 in Singles & Dating

How did you move on and did you ever get over it. My mom passed away in August and I have been so busy between work and handling her estate that I haven't had time to really heal. It was so unexpected and sometimes I still can't believe that this is reality. Moving on is just so hard.

Some days I can barely function right, especially the times I am alone. It's also made me a little distant and my girlfriend sometimes doesn't understand. She has been there for me through it all and she is my heart. The way I am right now though is just a little tough for her I think. I also have so many family members asking me if I want to join them for Thanksgiving and I don't know what to do. It's only one day and so many people. Nothing feels right anymore.

2007-11-09 15:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by Veritas et Aequitas () 7 in Family

would u have sex with a friend if u werent in a relationship at the time, u were good friends with her/him and she/he wanted to have sex with u..would u? be honest with yourselves here..

2007-11-09 15:57:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom was with this idiot for 10 years and put me through alot of emotional pain because i had to suffer with her through her relationship. Then she finally decided that she could not "handle me" so she told me to move with my dad. After that, her and her boyfriend split up and she told me she wanted me to be back with her by the end of summer and it is now november and she has not once mentioned me coming back to her. She seriously is so selfish now, she buys herself all these new clothes, an ipod, she goes out with her friends, she has no job.. and everytime i come to visit her if we get in a fight she threatens to take me back to my dads. Recently we got in a huge fight and she didnt talk to me for three weeks except for a text message saying "miss you", then i called her and tried to talk about things, she said she was busy and couldnt argue with me and i said i cant handle her being in my life if she cant change and she said maybe we shouldnt be apart of eachothers lives anymore.

2007-11-09 15:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by tiun 2 in Family

I'm a 25 year old american, I'm married and I have 1 17 month old child. My wife and I agreed on having one child and afterwards I had a vasectomy done with her written consent. Ever since she has regretted it saying she wants more kids. 4 in fact. We have talked about this extensively and it looks like we might be getting a divorce. We are going to wait a few years and see how things work out but I'm almost certain I'm not going to change my mind.

Now the problem is I want to live abroad and my wife does not. We talked about it before but now she doesn't want to unless I give her more kids. If we do divorce she will be completely taken care of. She will have a college education and a very good paying job. She will also have a new car!

I want to move overseas if/when we divorce. However, I would be leaving my son with my wife. I don't want to leave my son but I really want to live abroad. I know this sounds selfish but I don't like living here. What would you do?

2007-11-09 15:54:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm NOT divorced......although I've been thinking about it for the past year. My husband & I got married at 19 and we've changed so much over the past 5 years that we've been married. We don't have that much in common anymore. I even have a hard time being intimate with him lately.
The problem is we have a 21month old child together. My baby is my LIFE!!!! I cannot imagine living one day without my child!! I don't think I could share coustody. It sounds terrible I know! I haven't left my husband so far, only because I don't want to have to share custody & disrupt my childs life. But what about my life?? Should I stay with a man I really not in love with for the sake of my child?
Divorced people..how do you deal when you share custody? How does it feel not to have your children 24/7?? Thanks for your stories & advise!

2007-11-09 15:53:27 · 24 answers · asked by QTpie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I'm going to a wedding this Sunday.
I don't have a dress nor am I going to wear one in this cold weather.
I was wondering if there is a way to look dressy and look appropriate for a wedding.
Can someone put together an outfit with clothes maybe from stores like Forever 21 or other stores that sell dressy type clothes that aren't in the high price range?
I'm 16
I'm asian, so I have a golden skin color
I'm 5'1"
I can't wear anything that shows too much skin (of course)

Thanks in advance!

2007-11-09 15:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by ST3FF_92 4 in Weddings

I found out my boyfriend is looking for a fling online, i've known this for about a week, (he's oblivious that i know he's secret) we've also been dating for 5 years. He's the type of person that appears to be faithful. Forgiving him would be a waste of my time (that just means he'll be more cautious next time). I want revenge, I just want to even out the pain. Any suggestions
I do plan on dumping him, i just want a nasty ending to go along with it. I do plan on dumping him soon, I can't look at him the same way i did 5 yrs ago.

2007-11-09 15:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the man doesnt cheat, no drugs, good job but recently called his good old boy cop friends and had me in jail for 2 days on domestic violence. i was trying to get my car keys, i have never been arrested before and felt for paris hilton for the first time! I feel like i could never forgive this. we havent had sex in at least a year, but have a 4 yr old and six year old...any obvious answers out there?

2007-11-09 15:46:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my gurl hve known each other 4 2 years ad just started goin out for 5 months but den she made alot of mistakez wit me yet i took her back time and time again and i realy love her i never wanna lose her but den i got drunk and layed on her friend nd her friend made up lies saying i ate her out

now we are brokin up and i really need her back cuzz i alwayz made her feel lik a wife and feel like a ****** angel...i kno i messed up but y cant she 4 give me after i forgave her??

2007-11-09 15:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by birdman 23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know if my in-laws( that have Parental Custody of my new husbands son-right now) can refuse my husbands wishes that I ( as step-mom) pick my step-son ou and bring him with me to my home. /my husband is a Long Distance Truck Dirver, that is why they have Partenal Custody.. They told my husband that he does'nt have to right to have any say.We have filed the papers to get Custody of the boy.

2007-11-09 15:41:20 · 3 answers · asked by patricia t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men, no matter how unattractive, or how "bad looking", still think they can get a supermodel? And even though theyre not gorgeous themselves, still pass judgment on women and think that they have to measure up to their standards, which are looking like a supermodel. i have never met one man who hasnt been like this.

2007-11-09 15:39:23 · 11 answers · asked by sam 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of eight years has started using drugs (meth) and his attitude has really changed. We hardly talk and he goes and sleeps on the couch. Four years ago we got in a big fight and I left with our 2 year old son to a shelter. I had to talk to a social worker and they opened up a case. I found out while in the shelter that I was pregnant with our son who is now 3. We got back together about 2 months later and things were going good until last night. we got into a fight because I came home from work and our lights were shut off for none payment, which he pays. He hit me and blood was pouring everywhere, I took our 2 boys to the police depart. and they arrested my husband and called social services on me! they have my other incident on file and are now saying they might take my children from me! luckily I had the money and our lights are back on but they said I'm going to have to take parenting classes and the father once out of jail can't come back. any helpful suggestions?

2007-11-09 15:37:13 · 12 answers · asked by TM25 3 in Family

all of her friends are getting fed up with her constant ranting about her boyfriends. how do I help her to realize her problem before everyone gives up on being her friend?

2007-11-09 15:36:49 · 3 answers · asked by NYgirl09 2 in Friends

Be honest ladies, what accent for a guy do you find highly attractive?

Best answer for the person who says the same thing I think ;)

2007-11-09 15:34:28 · 51 answers · asked by Nefi 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and i live with my boyfriend... My dad got my perscription of my inhaler for me and brought it over and refused to give it to me cause i couldnt find my cell phone to give to him isnt it against the law to with hold my medication from me? My boyfriends mom called my mom to try and tell her and my dad picked up the other line and told her to bring his kid home and yada yada yada and he is gunna call the cops if she doesnt (Im 18) and yeah... So she is gunna have a police escourt to my parents house to get my enhaler does he have to give it to them then?

2007-11-09 15:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by brighteyedgrl74191 1 in Family

So... this is a long distance relationship and we're very much young lovers. He's a Christian and I'm an aethiest, so I can't get him a cross and a heart looks gee-ay-why on guys. Any ideas?

2007-11-09 15:28:07 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a class with this girl for about 4 months and all her friends say she likes me,she laughs at everything I say, and she even invited me to a football game and I went and we had a great time!But when her friend asks her out for me she replied,"I want to get to know him better" is she still interested in me?I need some advise!

2007-11-09 15:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by clubclan05 2 in Singles & Dating

Whom ever it is is answering some questions i ask but not all. My name seems like it is pre-formatted in to the correspondence like it is generic. It seems that some questions are about citizenship in America. That the Russian govt sponsors talent exchanges and this girl is awaiting paper work. They send me pictures of a girl. Very beautiful and her friends all pretty posing for the camera. Anyone know what the hidden agenda is. Or could it be real. Pessimist in waiting. Thanks Daz

2007-11-09 15:24:14 · 2 answers · asked by ibdaz1966 1 in Singles & Dating

it started today she would roll her eyes turn around and talk to her FRIEND she says shes not mad at me but some thing tells me shes lying. Is she or am i just over reactting what should i do?????

2007-11-09 15:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What does it mean when a guy says a girl "has no rack"?
Please tell! Really want to know! Thanks!

2007-11-09 15:21:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

inches wise

2007-11-09 15:18:39 · 35 answers · asked by johnsmith 1 in Singles & Dating

thoughts on it?...

2007-11-09 15:13:55 · 121 answers · asked by mady 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever regret your decision?

2007-11-09 15:13:29 · 9 answers · asked by Apple Tart 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a little weird, but here goes:
If there is a gay marriage and one of the spouses dies, is the remaining one a widow or a widower?
I'm just a little confused . This question is NOT meant to be funny, and I have nothing against gay people. I was just wondering. (p.s. I'm only 12)

2007-11-09 15:12:24 · 28 answers · asked by *Jules_is_ _Meshugana!* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 15:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by landa darlene n51 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance told me that his ex-girlfriend started messaging him on MySpace. I was a little curious so... I did some snooping. One of the messages he wrote to her leads me to believe that he may have been sleeping with her still, after he and I started an exclusive relationship four years ago. I don't have any doubts that this is continuing... but I want to know what happened before... and I want the truth... considering we're getting married in May, I think I deserve the truth. Should I confront him? Should I be ashamed of my snooping, considering what I uncovered?!

2007-11-09 15:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lady Tam 4 in Weddings

I'm friends with a senior(i'm a freshman) and lately it seems like she just blows me off for her other friends. And whenever we see each other in the hall she waves at me on the low....like she doesn't want anybody to know that she's waving at me. Whenever she'd talk about hanging out she'd blow me off with some excuse. I want to tell her how i feel about this, but she's never really by herself and I don't want anybody around when we talk. What should I do?

2007-11-09 15:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by spirit22poet 2 in Friends

Even if a man and woman have a platonic relationship, if they are close will it eventually turn into something more?

2007-11-09 15:07:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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