I found out my boyfriend is looking for a fling online, i've known this for about a week, (he's oblivious that i know he's secret) we've also been dating for 5 years. He's the type of person that appears to be faithful. Forgiving him would be a waste of my time (that just means he'll be more cautious next time). I want revenge, I just want to even out the pain. Any suggestions
I do plan on dumping him, i just want a nasty ending to go along with it. I do plan on dumping him soon, I can't look at him the same way i did 5 yrs ago.
2007-11-09 15:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as I would like to plan some disgusting, amoral, perversion, just walk away. You will only make things worst by lowering yourself to his level.
Not to mention, It might bite you in the ***. For example, This girl sent a picture to he ex of her and her new boyfriend having sex. Funny, yes. Devastating, yes. Until he sent the picture to her parents with the inscription " I am getting desperate, send money."
Not to mention, you will lose the moral high ground and look like a tramp in the process. No one feels pity for the whore.
2007-11-09 16:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby Nevada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become the girl he dreams of, only online! Let him think he is hooking up with a really hot chick, if you have to , find a pix online or in a mag and post that. Suggest meeting at some place nearby, and have a camera along to catch his look of fear when he finds you there. Just one idea. Another one is to hook up with his best buddy, and take a few pictures. Drop them in his lap when you leave him. Or, make it real. Get a friend that he doesn't know to hook up with him. Then at a crucial moment,have her laugh hysterically at his, um anatomy. He'll never heal from that one!!!
2007-11-09 23:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way of getting even is making youself better than you were when you are with him. Plus moving on and finding someone who is also better than him. Act like you dont care anymore what he does, because he is out of your life.
Hope it all works out for you.
2007-11-09 23:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Fearful Soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advertise all his possessions in the local paper at really cheep prices, giving his mobile or home number as the contact.....
2007-11-09 23:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Brendan T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print off a bunch of photos of him with the heading WANTED FOR CHEATING!!! and then post his name and phone number. Then plant them all over the neighborhood.
2007-11-10 00:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kick him to the curb. . . forget about getting back at him.
2007-11-09 23:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋