I am only asking this question because there are different attitudes between white and black men. Mostly at least where i come from, black men were more out and out aggressive so it could not be mistaken. but i have been moved to the suburbs that is like 0.5% black and i never know the communication or language between a white man. I am attractive, and classy.There are a lot of them that look at me like they are interested me, and do nothing, and there are some that i found out later that liked me but i couldn't have never guessed. Listen I am attracted to these white men and and I would love to go out, but i am afraid to approach and be wrong cause of a mixed signal. Please tell me what some white men think of black girls? and also please don't give me that stereotype, ghetto, rap music or aurgumentive or whatever. Cause that's is not my personality at all and it's obvious. But I really am interested in going out with these guys.
2007-11-09 16:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by soulchild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i don't mean all black people listen to rap and ghetto...i'm saying because if that is an excuse for stereo type.
2007-11-09 16:20:28 · update #1
We almost use mental telepathy and hope you pick up on it. Look for a hand touch if he hands you a drink, or makes good eye contact. Just relax and keep up the dialog and you will know.
2007-11-09 16:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by .skjceuafrepiuahfpoefhpieuaf 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have a son that just thinks black women are gorgeous! When he was a little boy, he would lay out by our pool thinking he was going to turn black! (He will kill me if he found out I tell this story! LOL) Any hoo now that he's a teen, he tells me that it is so confusing because of the bad looks he gets from black guys and bad looks from white guys yet so many support their relationship. I just tell him and others that no matter who you date, it is confusing.
Any way, he started by talking to the girl and then flirted and then finally got the nerve to ask her out. He said he had to fish around a bit to see if she was interested in him as just a guy and not white this or that. I feel that guys are guys and when it comes to asking a girl out, they are nervous and unsure of many things. Incidently, my husband is white and I am not.
2007-11-09 16:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
White men flirt just like black men I believe. We are more apt to flirt with a white than a black because it just seems like the natural thing to do and not because we are consciously prejudice. In your case where blacks are sure enough in the minority where you live I am not so sure that it would be the natural thing to do to date blacks only. If you are attractive and classy like you say you are then I would think that most all white men who are inclined to womanize would be happy to go out with you especially if you hinted around a little bit that he might get you in the sack. This may sound a little offensive but it would apply to all colors including whites.
2007-11-09 16:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes these guys just need a little push or jump-start. Ha! But it's true...
If he seems interested in you and you like him, it wouldn't hurt to ask him if he'd like to go for coffee and visit with you awhile, or something like that.
Lots of men like it when a woman makes the first move. Then they can take it from there.
After all, the worse that could happen is, he could say "no."
But if he's intertested, he will probably say, "sure!"
Good luck, sweetie.
2007-11-09 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no all-purpose way to tell. We don't all do it the same way. Just flirt, see if you're getting the vibes back, have fun. Rejection isn't fatal.
Oh, and if it's me...please don't make me dance. Ever.
Sincerely,
A white guy who flirts
2007-11-09 16:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me I'm a white guy and yes I LOVE black women; I call my fiance, my ebony Aphrodite. If a white guy acts awkward or bumbles over himself, says a few Freudian slips, than he has it bad for you. If he's sitting on the fence it is harder to tell, but as I said before be blunt and simply ask him.
2007-11-09 22:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by HotSteel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Your stupid if you think only black people listen to rap music.
2.Stupid if you think only black people have abad attitudes.
3.Go for it,There should be a guy that can look pass race.
And racist snobs above me go to ****!ng hell.
2007-11-09 16:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Skate, Skate, Skate! 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
youre an idiot, and youre probably ugly.
2007-11-09 16:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋