I'm friends with a senior(i'm a freshman) and lately it seems like she just blows me off for her other friends. And whenever we see each other in the hall she waves at me on the low....like she doesn't want anybody to know that she's waving at me. Whenever she'd talk about hanging out she'd blow me off with some excuse. I want to tell her how i feel about this, but she's never really by herself and I don't want anybody around when we talk. What should I do?
2007-11-09 15:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by spirit22poet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're on the right track, you need to talk to her. Maybe you can call her and ask her to meet you at your house or her house. If she is having some sort of issue with hanging out with you then you need to get her in private to talk to her.
Good luck. Sometimes people have a hard time accepting who they are and being comfortable with themselves because they are too hung up on appearances. Hopefully she outgrows it soon.
2007-11-09 15:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Hallie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people act like that. They seem to wanna be a friend to you in the face, but then turn around and be a totally differant person. there really isn't anything to be done. she blows you off around her other friends because she doesn't want them to know your friends. her other friends probably think that because you're a freshman and she and her other froiends are seniors, that they don't want the lower class like you to hang out woith them and possibly embarrass them. As for blowing you off when she says she wants to hang out with you and then makes up excuses is a hard one. she may just be messing with you and i'd just let it go and find some friends in your grade level.
When i was in high school, the freshmen were always being picked on, but the get their share of the fun the following year.
Hang in there and remember it won't last forever.
2007-11-09 15:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by deb2rule 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to look at the fact that she is a senior and the older she gets, the more she'll probably wanna be with ppl her age...but that doesnt give her the right to keep blowing you off...so tell her "hey can we talk about something in private?" then that will give you the chance to tell her how you feel...but dont yell or say anything mean. if she says "im a senior and its weird for me hanging with a freshmen, say "well then tell me that instead of making me look like some stalker in front of your friends." dont be mean but get your point across. then maybe if she gets your point, she'll understand, but it may not work. u might just have to find some more freshman friends.
2007-11-09 15:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your senior friend seems somewhat embarrassed to let some of her classmates know that she is friends with a FRESHMAN. In my opinion stick with your friends in your class and enjoy the remaining years in school. They pass way to quickly...AND remember this when you are a Senior if a Freshman wants to be your friend.Remember this quote...(cant take credit for it) Most people wont remember what you say or did BUT they will remember how you made them feel. Treat everyone as you would like to be treated....
2007-11-09 15:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by RETIRED 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she has a case of Senioritis.
Find some new friends in your grade, and try to have fun with your new school year. A real friend wouldn't blow you off like that, but it seems a difference in the age has caused a bit of change. Perhaps she's trying to spread her wings because she's in that last year of HS...I've seen that happen myself, way back when. :P
2007-11-09 15:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by stcpcpm1mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol the first answers harsh!
but ur "friend" sounds messed up..........i was a freshman last year and i had a few senior friends who waved at me (and a normal wave, not like, trying to hide it)
she thinks she's too good a senior to hang out wit freshmen.........not really a great friend now, is she?
oh well no sweat she'll be gone next yr!
2007-11-09 15:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm ok, ur a freshman, seniors don't like to be seen with younger people. It's just a senior thing ya know. So i would look for a new friend.
2007-11-09 15:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by arwenbfa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jsut tell her when her firends are by her tell her yeah ur firends with a senior dont make ppl think were not friends or jsut never look at her or wave r smile or talk to her
2007-11-09 15:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. People that are older tend to seem that their to good for you and stuff like that even if they like you. Some of her friends might tease her if she hangs out with you. Discuss it with her and tell her your real thoughts. If shes a true friend... She will listen.
2007-11-09 15:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by adam c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like she is more worried about what others think about her then her friendship with you. I would suggest just to move on and find other friends who will stick by you no matter who is around.
2007-11-09 15:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋