My mom was with this idiot for 10 years and put me through alot of emotional pain because i had to suffer with her through her relationship. Then she finally decided that she could not "handle me" so she told me to move with my dad. After that, her and her boyfriend split up and she told me she wanted me to be back with her by the end of summer and it is now november and she has not once mentioned me coming back to her. She seriously is so selfish now, she buys herself all these new clothes, an ipod, she goes out with her friends, she has no job.. and everytime i come to visit her if we get in a fight she threatens to take me back to my dads. Recently we got in a huge fight and she didnt talk to me for three weeks except for a text message saying "miss you", then i called her and tried to talk about things, she said she was busy and couldnt argue with me and i said i cant handle her being in my life if she cant change and she said maybe we shouldnt be apart of eachothers lives anymore.
2007-11-09 15:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by tiun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How would you take this? what should i do?
2007-11-09 15:58:07 · update #1
My stepdad doesnt talk to me anymore and my dad lives way far away from any of my friends so when i moved out i lost my mom, my stepdad, and my friends...i lost my life that i grew up with.
2007-11-09 16:24:05 · update #2
so sorry here.....your mom has a lot of issues and I wouldn't get too hurt over her.....she is going to be very sorry some day...you go on without her and make sure you take care of yourself.....someday....and it might be a while...she'll regret the time she has lost and waisted....
I'm sure that your heart hurts....we all want a mom who loves us...protects us....but...thats not always what we get....in some ways she is protecting you...by saying that you two should stay apart.....she seems to argue with you probably out of guilt ....so I would imagine over time....she will have a lot of regrets that will be harder to bury....enjoy your life and your dad ♥.....
2007-11-09 16:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by willowz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your dad treat you?
If he is good to you then BUILD A NEW life there with him!
There is a reason your parents are divorced and I am guessing the reason is your mom.
Sometime sit down and write down all the selfish crap she has done and how it has affected you over the years and then mail it to her.She wont listen to you SAY those things verbally, but chances are she WILL read the letter.Just make sure you are unavailable for her to talk for 3 days after she reads it so it will have time to soak in.
2007-11-09 16:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, this is something that you really are gonna have to ask God to help you in prayer. Sounds like she is having a hard time getting her life together. she goes from one thing to another right? she's in stress. !
The only thing you can do if you want to save the relationship is to be the bigger of the 2 & be there for her. it may turn out that she comes to you for help, when she sees you're not going to turn on her. She's very unstable right now. So you trust God, & pray for her. She'll come around, just be there.
2007-11-09 16:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaMaria 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its sad but i have a little idea your mom was nice to you when you were 2 or 4. If you remember that kind of mom then ask your dad to marry a women just like the one i mentioned th one whos nice and stays like that.
2007-11-09 16:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by ms.fabla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what's wrong with your dad?
So far, he sounds like the person I would want to live with in this type of situation.
2007-11-09 16:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by lemon<33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋