Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

what other songs are out there to walk down tha aile too

2007-11-09 15:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine s 2 in Weddings

please answer

2007-11-09 15:01:56 · 22 answers · asked by cannon_aquilla 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff gave her bf her email and he nvr emailed her wat does this mean

2007-11-09 14:59:59 · 1 answers · asked by ashleyemalak 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 14:59:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 14:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by cplott1012 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Husband went out for a smoke 4 hours ago. He is actually drinking with his brother beside our house. I asked him for five weeks to stop this behavior-it makes me sad. I told him last week it was the last time I was going to say anything. Still alone...I can't help but be mad. Should I let this behavior go even though it makes me feel like I am crap? He certainly doesn't care.

2007-11-09 14:53:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband makes me feel like I want to be 10 ft. under. When I try to talk about it, he shrugs me off and tells me to go away. That makes it so much worse, how do I cope, without being pathetic?

2007-11-09 14:53:31 · 28 answers · asked by unsureofme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is very happy and full of life. Get's all A's in school and is emotionally stable. He tells me daily how much he loves me and thinks of my partner of 21 years as his daddy. Yet, we can't adopt him because we are gay. Is that fair?

2007-11-09 14:52:06 · 24 answers · asked by Slender V 1 in Family

he has a 48 hour limit on the time he wants to spend with me. Also, he is adamently against residing with anyone in the future as well as marriage (he is 42 and has never been married). I feel as though any future with him is out of the question. Am I overracting?

2007-11-09 14:51:06 · 37 answers · asked by yvetta2203 4 in Singles & Dating

I hate Bertha, Gertruda, Girdie, Helga, William and Max.. Sorry if your name happens to be one that i mentioned, but its just the facts these name are ugly

2007-11-09 14:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by MedEros 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does this even mean? any other kissing tips that could help a beginner??

2007-11-09 14:49:40 · 1 answers · asked by ashley k 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing that makes you think I wish that I have never done that?

2007-11-09 14:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we had a baby beofre we were really together,we live together and sleep together ,but an old friend of ours ahs divorced her husband 2 days after going to a bar with my boyfriend (they both came home late).Then he delivered a tv. to her house and was supposed to be home for dinner but came home arround 8 for breakfast then he says hes going out with the boys for his birthday and wont be home that night the next day I find that there were no boys just him and her and he still got a DUI!!!He has alway been a big flirt and we dont really Know were we are going so when she sat on his lap for a hour and wrestled with him at my baby shower i was'nt to upset.I know I can't expect him to love me just because we have a kid but I am not flirting and trying to give our relationship a good try! I don't know my place or how much respect I should get!at my baby shower it was emberassing to have people ask me y she was on his lap and be ignored by him and her most of the night!! what can I do!

2007-11-09 14:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 33 yrs old and one day I was hanging out w/ my Aunt and we went over to a friend of her's home where my dad does odd jobs.
I happened to tell my mom we went and saw him at the friends house and she got angry. My parents have been divorced since I was 5 yrs old, as he was abusive.
Well when I told my mom I had seen him she got angry and called him names and said I could no longer see my Aunt.
I know she has a right to probably still be angry w/ him about the abuse but when she said I couldn't see my Aunt anymore that really hurt my feelings,as my Aunt is the only person I can speak w/ about personal issues because when I speak w/ my mom she raises her voice and when I ask why she raises her voice she accuses me of starting a fight w/ her and to just drop it.
I am just wondering how I should handle this and why does she raise her voice when I try to speak w/ her calmly?
I would appreciate any healthy/good advice...thank you.

2007-11-09 14:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 in Family

Okay I do not hate my husbands exgirlfriend/mother of his other 2 kids (we have one together). I just dont care about her at all. LIke her house is not in the best shape. I am concerned for the kids but I dont feel sorry for her not even a little bit. I never feel sorry for her tha she is a single mom of my husbands 2 kids plus trhe baby she has now with another man. (they are not together). She always seems sad that on holidays my husband is with me and our (his and our son) kids not her and i dont ever feel the least bit sympathy. I didnt even feel sorry for her when she found out she has a hernia in her stomach. Usually I am a very loving person. I know its his ex but why do i feel so cold hearted toward her? its like if someone says "Pam isnt feeling good today because of whatever" I'm like who gives a f***. whats wrong with me and why am I like this toward this woman even though i have no actual animosity toward her? Its like I want to care and like her but I just cant why?

2007-11-09 14:46:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really appreciate it. Thanks!

2007-11-09 14:45:31 · 26 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do u think that if u r good lookin u an only do certain things at not others if ur ugly

2007-11-09 14:45:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you purposely act indifferent to hot girls because you know it will confuse them and make them more interested, if you pay attention towards every minor advance they try and make towards you?

2007-11-09 14:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by jm 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't feel the same way at all!! I don't even like him anymore. Help me anyone!!!

2007-11-09 14:42:15 · 3 answers · asked by marissa130 1 in Friends

Now shes pissed & wont talk to me..

2007-11-09 14:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated this guy in high school and have been together off and on since July *7 years * we have a beautiful 4 year old son .
This man has put me in so much pain and heart ache . He was in a totally different life style then I was he did drugs drank hung out with people who didn't have families etc . He * I believe cheated on me* He Hit me he always left me with our son home alone all the time *everyday* he would wake up and leave and go for the day to where ever he could get high and just be away from me . I got enough courage to go back to school and do something with my life and I told him he either starts working and helping with our son or he needed to go .He chose to leave a month later he got in a horrible car accident that left him in a coma and now with brain injuries which killed me to the unimaginable I tried everything I could to get to him *his family hates me cause I am white and I had a child out of wedlock * which is another reason I left cause I wanted to be loved not

2007-11-09 14:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?

2007-11-09 14:36:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the past 6 years ( 2 boys later) my wife and i have had sex maybe 10 times in 6 yrs. she is just never in the mood. we do both work like other families and kids in school and stuff but find that is no excusses for our lack of sex.
if i really bug her about it then i get the "lets just do it" sex and stop bothering me. no emotion or nothing, no kissing just me on top, put it in and finish. before kids, (3 yrs) we had get and wild sex3 or 4 times a week. but now i am going on 10 months with no sex and the last time was "would you hurry and ***".
she tells me she still thiniks i am sexy and loves me but just doesn not feel the need for sex anymore. she has been checked out by a DR and they said everything is ok with her, so tell me, what am i suppose to do. i will not leave and be a weekend dad. i could not bear to not see my kids everyday and choose to suffer but feel the need to talk. 6 yrs of bottle this up isnt working.
so much more to say, but who should i talk to, MC or ST?

2007-11-09 14:36:19 · 21 answers · asked by Paul M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 14:35:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They never put me down or anything. They don't act stuck-up towards me, either. My friend invited me over today, and I went, and Kristen and Rachel were really sweet to me and I was included. But for some reason I felt like Rachel didn't like me. She joked around with me, and didn't say anything mean to me. And Kristen and Rachel were talking about this girl that we don't like, and Kristen was like "She's so ugly!". I said "Hey, I am too!" And Rachel was the first to say "No you're not." And she even acted the same way towards me as she did towards Kristen. And Kristen said that Rachel and me were at the top of the list if she were to invite anyone to her birthday party. But for some reason I think that Rachel finds me annoying. WHY? I know the way she acts around Cassandra, this girl no one likes, and that's not the way she acts around me, but why do I get the impression that she doesn't like me?

2007-11-09 14:35:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I got married and moved 8 hours from my hometown a year ago. I miss my family at home soooo terribly much. We just opened a business here (in our new location), and on top of doing all of that, I teach dance at night and am going to school. I am miserable with my husband, away from my family, and I'm so stressed out. Should I drop everything and just leave? I don't know what to do, but I know I don't want to spend the rest of my life unhappy.

2007-11-09 14:32:59 · 33 answers · asked by Jenny L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help. I am a full time college student and I work part time. I am not an unfit Mother. I don't drink or smoke and I am always here with my kids. My goal is to open up my own Beauty and Barber Salon one day soon. Serious answers only.

2007-11-09 14:32:34 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I feel so lonely, it's weird because I do have friends but I'm 15 yo and I work everyday and my close friend tells me all about her life and stuff and I just feel like I don't have anything to say because nothing interesting happens in my life, I mean I'm not invited to parties, I have like only two "guy "friends I mean I know them but they wouldn't come up and talk to me, I'm far from ugly even though not super-attractive but , I just want to know that someone really cares about me , you know because sometimes I really need to feel like I matter to someone...

2007-11-09 14:32:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cucumber 2 in Friends

I am a grown man, and I get reamed out for buying my 10 year old daughter a trac-phone. My ex sits there and tells me my daughter will be busy with projects this weekend and that weekend, and I will hardly get to see her. I am already having a hard time connecting with my daughter as it is becuase her mom has slandered me so much she doesn't respect me. Mom has control of everything. So I buy a trac phone to help me keep connected with my daughter, and her mom get's all self-rightous on me as if they are "Amish" and don't beleive in material possesions or luxerious items, and that I should have bought clothes with and new shoes with the money... what the???? I plan I buying all of that too!... what the frick? This custodial parent playing the trump card of shame and the court system on the non-custodial parent is bull crap. I am getting sick and tired of having my "intelligence" and "maturity" level being challenged all the time. To all u smart alecks who reply: bite me!

2007-11-09 14:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by What the heck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy wants me to do thing sexually that I do not want to do. He tells me if I want to marry him (knowing he is a good man) I should submit to him. What does that have to do with us getting married?

2007-11-09 14:30:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce