Sometimes I feel so lonely, it's weird because I do have friends but I'm 15 yo and I work everyday and my close friend tells me all about her life and stuff and I just feel like I don't have anything to say because nothing interesting happens in my life, I mean I'm not invited to parties, I have like only two "guy "friends I mean I know them but they wouldn't come up and talk to me, I'm far from ugly even though not super-attractive but , I just want to know that someone really cares about me , you know because sometimes I really need to feel like I matter to someone...
2007-11-09 14:32:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cucumber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I find myself feeling the same way you do sometimes. Try to make the most of each day. Talk to customers and co-workers at work, try to make someone elses day better and you will feel a whole lot better. Don't worry about the party stuff. Hey if they don't want to hang around you or invite you places then those probably are not the right friends to have (its their loss) And some guys are just dumb and imature at 15 so don't let it bother you.
2007-11-09 14:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will feel cared about when you start caring about other people. Enough with the self loathing! Join the red cross or volunteer at a homeless shelter. Get out there and make a difference! You and you alone are responsible for the way you feel. Once you stop centering on yourself, you will realize there is a life out there for you. Good Luck!
2007-11-09 22:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my life. Maybe you should not be working at your age. You should enjoy school like the rest of your friends. You'll have plenty of time for work after college. You don't have a life just b/c you are not dong anything. Take some time off and hang out with your friends and meet some new people.
2007-11-09 23:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by AFK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of ppl r u like that
join a club do stuff
invite ur friend to the beach
sry i live by three.....
just do fun stuff and plus
i know how boring a fifteen ur old
lifez can be
HAVE FUN daNcE
!!
lol
2007-11-09 22:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Audrey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You matter a lot to your parents! if something happens to you , you know what will happen to them,
You matter a lot to yourself! Once you discovered that fact, you need no parties to make you feel important or no dates to keep you happy.
2007-11-09 22:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by param_mech 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel the same way and i agree wit Whiskers, join the club...=(
2007-11-09 22:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a life
2007-11-09 22:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
...join the club
2007-11-09 22:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by SoundofSettling 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
stop sniveling
when you get older,,it really becomes true
Your young ,dont even worry about it !!!!
2007-11-09 22:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
PERSONALITY
Personality, this is the quality of the person by virtue of which he can differentiate himself, from others. We want to put least effort, in building it and that’s the reason, we find ourselves in the mass. You have to define yourself to you, to make yourself presentable, in front of others and make them feel that you are different from others.
It counts everything your voice clarity, confidence, trait, dress, body, attitude, attention, punctuality and your approach and many more; you will find that you are glowing. To put yourself in a good personality mould, to make yourself complete and presentable you have to understand what you are lagging in. What makes you common among others?
It’s good to copy a good personality to make yourself complete because, you have found something incomplete in you and you have your full right to make yourself complete. Living in the present day it is the need of the system that you try for the best for yourself. Adopting the way, the others do, won’t give you a good personality but shows obscenity from your clothes, thought and your approach. Sometimes knowingly or unknowingly we are responsible for our mishappening, because we adopt the trend without realizing its outcome. It’s good to move with the present but simultaneously take care of your future.
Everybody wants to become famous in this world, for name and fame, and they can go to any extent. A film actress can drop her last cloth, to get the fame, in the media, mass, with the movie, irrespective of thinking, that her approach could lead to a bad example in the society, and destroy the dignity of the women. But they want popularity and money, and for the two, they can drop anything.
Setting a bad example with your profile in the media could crumble the system and we find rise in the number of rape, sexual assault and molestation. Understanding the meaning of these words is different but feeling the pain of these acts on the victim is entirely different. Nobody can feel the pain of the victims, except the victim herself. For them, it might be the joy for a few minutes but for the victim, it was the pain, for her entire life.
She cannot face herself in front of the mirror and you are responsible for that, to provoke them by your bare act. For you, it was an act but for someone, it was a horrific experience. The general mass assumes you to be his or her inspiration, so, try to give them the real story, the fact and make them aware that getting a good entertainment from a bad movie, would lead you in a problem, in the real world.
You don’t have any right to kill them, by your bare act and thoughts. So, make yourself clean and give them healthy relations and thoughts. You are more or less also responsible for your result because, you live in the illusion and want to be in illusion until something does wrong with you.
Crying on your mishappening is feeling ashamed on yourself that, why you had not thought with complete meaning. Partial knowledge of anything is always dangerous and all that glitters is not gold. We all know the meaning of it, but still we behave or think like a fool.
We always like those things to see, which we cannot see easily and that are the reason, we want to get entertainment, something different from the routine. Don’t you think we are responsible for it because, it was our interest which was the reason, we find, that they want to show. You have to admit that, if you would not accept it, they won’t make it, your interest makes them to do so and you are more or less responsible for your thinking.
You have to save yourself with your clear thoughts and likings so that you won’t believe in cheap stuff and you want to breathe fresh air, to make yourself happy, till your end. An incomplete entertainment with no values is a poison for your life and you won’t survive for long if you continue it. Do understand the meaning of all and make yourself clear with everything.
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LOVE
Love is the most beautiful and sweet word of this world. Life has a meaning, if you know the meaning of love. You won’t be alone; neither will you be sad, if you are sure about the depth of love. It’s hard to measure the depth from the top, to know, you have to fall in it and the beauty of this word is that you will never want to come out of it.
To love a person in your life is the necessity of your life, to get love of a person is the requirement of your life. On finding someone, as your love, you will find, you were incomplete before and now you know the meaning of life.
To have a healthy relation with someone, you have to be transparent. If you hide your identity, personality and nature, you won’t develop a healthy relation. Love is a matter of chemistry and you will feel the reactions with the actions of your care, caress and hug.
You won’t find the person in problem, if he knows the meaning of love, because it makes him sensitive and caring to understand the state of mind. Those who are unaware of its sweet touch or does not understand the meaning of love; they just fight for nothing, to end their identity.
You could live in the heart of others, if you know its meaning. This small word has a depth of an ocean, vast as sky and the meaning of life. You will find a good discussion; with a good spirit having fragrances of love has resolved your disputes with your enemy. Its takes years for you to stand on your feet, but it takes a second to kill someone, after that he will never wake up or stand up.
You too, also running for your life might get yourself killed by anyone, anytime. So, why don’t you believe in this principle that you will love to resolve your disputes than to be killed by them?
If you believe in a good heart, a stable and wise mind, you will never compromise with the ethics of life. Make them feel that, it is not only your problem but you are here to resolve it, with them. If they are not clear then define so that they can understand, what the basic problem is and what is the status of the problem? Does this problem really have any sense? If not, then what for, are you fighting?
Let’s be in love and feel the difference, you will realize that, you have lost a precious time in fighting and that won’t come again. Believe in the theory of love, that, more you spread its fragrance, more you beautify your life. Then you will find that your life has a meaning to live and you will love to be loved by all. Do come forward in finding yourself and making yourself clear that, you won’t let your life go, just like that. You want to make it specific for yourself and for all. “If I love myself then I won’t kill the meaning of love. I will define for you, till my end."
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2007-11-09 23:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by pravin13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋