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2007-11-09 14:45:31 · 26 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-11-09 14:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by iminyourdreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i found out because he was an idiot and kept pictures of her and him together in his school binder that i had to get something out of. But i knew before i saw the pictures because of his change. He would go outside to talk on the phone, he would stay out all night and not answer my phone calls, he came home with a hickey and said he had an allergic reaction to the laundry detergent (idiot i know). Just the little changes in his attitude showed me that he was. Hope I helped. O yeah, and if this is because you think your getting cheated on, Leave him. No matter how much you love him, he'll do it again. Thats what happened to me. and He is obviously not the one for you. You'll find someone better.
2007-11-09 22:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am being cheated on now. I am taking my time though. Not acting as if I am suspecting a thing. ( very important) Watching for 1) my mate over-explaining she where was. 2) who was seen. Look at body language as these explanations are given. Compare them with a known pattern of behavior in the past. If your mate is a female any sexual penetration results in minor torn tissue. Oral exams show all. ANy other physical marks. I came home early and found a man scurrying out of the door trying to hold his pants up on his person. She acted as if she had seen a ghost when she saw me.
2007-11-09 22:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by roger p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, The woman called my house on time, and she was like
" Um yea, I'm just calling to let you know **** has been making me come every night."
And I was like
" Who the hell is this?"
She was like
" **** , And he's been with me, I'm sorry to let you know, but I'm his ex and we've been together for a long time...I can't let him go."
So I sighed, and said
" Well, you can him, and hold him tight... until he does the same to you."
I hung up with her and then I cried. When he got home I had all my stuff packed up and I moved out.
A few months later I got calls from him. He said he wasn't doing so well. He said the girl was pregnant by him and he didn't know if it was his or not. I hung up on him of course.
I ended up running back into my high school sweetheart and we are so in love. For anyone who has been cheated on, don't be held down by trash, for your soul mate may end up waiting in the rain...wondering where you are...
2007-11-09 22:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here is my sad sad story..
After almost three years of marriage my wife and I stoped getting along, I worked a lot and she was entertained by me as much as she would like. I started to see little trends like how she started hanging out more without me to new "grooming looks". I started to catch her in lies and we had a trusted relationship..So I saw her myspace mail, looked at her phone and put pieces together. She never admited but I thought that she was screwing her co-worker..I moved out we seperated and a four months later her own mother was talking to me and said this guys name as my ex's new BF. I was so happy because I was correct and she was in fact a cheater. Since then, I have almost trippled my income, thanks to God for helping me with great job opportunity and now I am greatful that we are no longer together. Trust me, if you do things that are not normal, like me..searching her crap, then something is up. I am a laid back guy and I am not the jealous type..Its just I was married, I was spending money on our future and I was faithfull..If you want to catch someone, do it to prove to you etc, not to say that you got him etc..Its really not worth it// but you can download software to record his emails, chats, myspace, etc. Or pay 900 a hour to have someone trail him..hope you work it out, life is too short to worry about a dude, find another one that looks better and makes more money! I am available..:)
2007-11-09 22:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by sexyguy20175 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, a good freind of mine clued me in and I did a little investigating myself after being told by her that she wasnt and unfortunantly she was. Her big loss, I ended it as soon as I had irrefutable proof and she admited to it. I deserve better than that. Do not for one minute put up with this kind of behavior, it is normaly behavior that will continue and if you suspect or find out, it's probably only the tip of the ice berg. I was going to marry her, thank God I found out before we married. I talked to the person she cheated with and we had a long discussion about the causes as he did not know me and she had never mentioned that I existed. come to find out, we figured out she did not like being intimate as much as I did nor for as long as I did. the other guy said it was alwasy two minutes tops and evidently she like it that way. very strange, never could figure that out and did not really try to. am now married to the woman of my dreams who is twenty years younger than I am and loves being intimate as much and as satisfying as I do. DO NOT SETTLE FOR SECOND BEST OR SETTLE FOR SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU DESERVE MORE.
2007-11-09 22:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While dating yes.
They just start acting different at first. Stop calling or picking up phone if you are around etc. (other person calling)
I would suspect , I'd ask, they would lie, but it all comes out in the end.
One I actually ran into the other woman at a coffe shop she knew me I did not know her and she told me. I said I met so and so she's a great gal don't ever call me again. Busted. He didn't know what to say. He intially hung up and then called back after he conjured up his lie. His lie didn't work I said Don't ever call me again, shes lovely good luck to you.
She never went out with him again and we became friends for a while and went out for girls nights outs.
2007-11-09 22:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing call cheat in the relationship. If you love deeply each other, such thing would never happen. If the thing happens like cheat, that means your relationship has some crack. You need either fix it or leave it. Good luck to your future.
2007-11-09 22:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it was my best friend and my boyfriend. I was suspicious so I confronted her and she finally told me the truth. I got rid of the loser boyfriend and the friendship was irreparably damaged. It really sucks to be cheated on but in the end I realized it wasn't my problem, it was his. I've moved on to have great relationships, last I heard he still couldn't keep from screwing his up.
2007-11-09 22:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Brekka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went to province for a week (w/ some of my college classmates for school activities), while my (X)boyfriend stayed, (he is near our school), then we came home unexpected due to crazy weather so while we were heading home we passed by the gym where he always hangout, then we all saw him with his ex-girlfriend sitting on his lap laughing together. it was devastating for me because the next day everyone in our school knew about it, and whats worst is he even denied it, so i realized he was a cheating-lying bastard. so i broke up with him. its a good thing though because if were still together now i wouldnt be able to meet my guy.
2007-11-09 22:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by ~tulips~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. My (soon to be ex) husband cheated on me with at least 6 other girls. I found out different ways, mostly by finding emails to them on his computer. Once, one of them left me a note by my computer telling me how soft my bed is. They also came by/called when I was home. He also spent some "quality" time with another woman on a vacation we took...and didn't try to hide it!
I hope you're not going through it. If so, my heart goes out to you. :)
Take care!
2007-11-09 22:52:11 · answer #11 · answered by Caffeinated Bliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋