I've always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?
2007-11-09 14:36:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does it bother you at all? Or do you just think that it should? If it really does not bother you or make you view your husband in a negative light then start bringing the hose to the bed with you! Sounds like he might like to use them in foreplay.
If it does bother you some, then try to lightly joke about how you think it is silly when he asks for them.. and maybe he will get the hint... though you do risk him not feeling comfortable sharing things with you.. unless it makes you feel so weird you just can not look at him the same, I think you should try accept it.
2007-11-09 14:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really awesome that he opened up to you! I don't think there is any harm in continuing to encourage this. Actually you could even make it fun for you too. Why don't you try to incorporate his fetish into a blissful experience for the both of you? Start by telling him how neat you thought it was that he liked the way they felt, and ask him to put them on before you two are intimate, that way he can pleasure you and himself at the same time! By the way pantyhose fetishes are common amongst men (not just gay ones either). They like the way they feel restricting and smooth everything down. Way to go for being supportive, no pun intended! Have fun!!
2007-11-09 15:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by shannanm2783 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband had to wear pantyhose when he was swim training. He didn't mind it nor did I. He does love the feel of it and we can joke about it. You are very, very lucky to have a husband be so honest with you! As long as you get the 'benefits' of it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I know that many of the nay sayers have their own little kinks and who's to say which are right or wrong? As long as they are agreed upon by you both and both are comfy with it, I say go for it!
2007-11-09 15:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never bee in this situation, but I will say this: He must really trust & love you to tell you something like this. Everyone has their own little fetishes and as long he totally devoted to YOU & you only, there is no problem with a little kinky now & then. That being said, if you have ever noticed anything that would make you question his devotion to you or his sexual orientation, maybe you should dig a little deeper and see just what is driving his attraction.
2007-11-09 14:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I wear tights around the house regularly. Of course, she's often in pantyhose and bodystockings as well. We both like the feel and look of them, on ourselves and each other. I think more men like tights than will admit. I'm very grateful to have found a wonderful gal who loves to lounge around in sexy clothing with me. Does that help you at all?
2007-11-10 12:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Chang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any harm in letting him do it again. I think I would rather say yes to him and know when he was trying them on then to walk in the room one day and see him sitting in your room alone with them on. Maybe they just feel nice on his legs? Ask him about it too, then you might be able to understand the fascination.
2007-11-09 14:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe he has a problem? The country man I married would never even think about such he would think that maybe there is a gay thing going on here and he doesn't wont to tell you. Watch him hon he might wont to start wearing your clothes behind closed doors that will lead to other problems.
2007-11-09 14:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by srcall1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your husband is probably a cross dresser or a trannie and probably knew all about the panty hose before he asked your "permission". He probably tucks everything under and imagines himself a girl. Ewwww. Good luck with that one.
2007-11-09 15:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm, i guess as long as you are ok with it, then it shouldnt be a problem.
What harm could be done if you allow this? Well I would be hiding your bras and underwear lol.
In all seriousness if it keeps the excitement in your relationship, then all the power to ya!!
2007-11-09 14:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but he sounds gayer that an army of christmas elves. He may have a lot more things about him that you do not know, maybe not but I would be totally worried about this!
2007-11-09 15:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by lisa kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋