Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

8 YEARS 3 KIDS BOTH WORK AND TIME WE GET HOME WE ARE EXASTED.

2007-11-01 07:16:25 · 18 answers · asked by jehudnall 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you knew that tomorrow you were going to die, how would you spend the last day of your life? I'm very cuoius to know what some of you awesome peolple wouild do. You know what I'd do....? I'd spend it with the one I love...but it just sooo happens she doesn't want to spend it with me... =''[

2007-11-01 07:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently in a relationship. It's a good relationship.. it's also my longest. I use to just date.. and not get into relationships because I'm so picky. I found someone who is wonderful.. but I miss the part about being able to spend time with anyone I want.. in a sexual way or not.. My bf is a jelous guy and this makes it even harder on me. I guess I'm just having a hard time letting go of me just doing things for me..with no questions asked. Will this go away.. how can I get rid of it.. any help would be wonderful.

2007-11-01 07:15:27 · 6 answers · asked by nugbug456 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can someone please explain this to me.
or have a story to tell about your friend taking drugs..etc.

thanks.!

2007-11-01 07:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We argue all the time and we are just not getting along and then we just end up fight ing about every thing what should I do and how should I make things better with him? He wants to be with me but I am just tired. We decided to stick in there for our 2 month old baby.

2007-11-01 07:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well I got married in 2003 and since then we have split up. I found out a bunch of things about this man that I did not know and now I would like to know if mine and his marriage was ever legal I found out that at one time he had a wife don't now anything more than just that. if he was married and never got a it taken care of then that would mean that his and my marriage was never raffishly right? my Q is this how would I find out about his past marriage (s) ? and would I still have to pay to have a divorce from him??

2007-11-01 07:10:10 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I were invited to a casual enagement party for his best friends cousin. They were all good friends years ago in high school. When we ran into him last week he invited us to the party at his house. Should we give them a gift? And if so what would be appropraite? Mind you I have only met him two or three times.

2007-11-01 07:08:41 · 14 answers · asked by Dane 2 in Weddings

Would you bring a gift too? Or do you think standing up and spending all of your money on this wedding is enough? Or I was thinking of just giving what my plate costs. What would you do?

2007-11-01 07:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 in Weddings

2007-11-01 07:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm conflicted.

2007-11-01 07:00:35 · 30 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Singles & Dating

i wanted to b on top of a boy having sex but i dont know what to do on top like moves and faces ect can u give me some tips please

2007-11-01 07:00:19 · 16 answers · asked by stacey c 1 in Singles & Dating

Wouldn't affect my life with my family.

Would your answer change if I were a man?

2007-11-01 06:59:09 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I never really had a brilliant relationship with my older sisters,where they knew about my friends & stuff & used to mainly sit out on my own or in my room.

My dads first cousins children & I get along very well,they are younger than me. The other day the oldest girl told me that they take me as there older sister. The son & I do have chats & if he ever wants advice he calls me aside & we chat.

Today was chatting to my uncle about a few things & he reminded me of what they had said. The funniest thing the same things my uncle went through before he was studying I am going through. HE tells me to get over it but cant.

Just wanted to know what are my duties as older sister apart from the normal things of helping out with homework & just been there for them & chatting to them.

How do I deal with been the oldests of step siblings & youngest of my siblings. My step siblings do not see it that I am there oldest step sibling but an oldest sister

2007-11-01 06:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family

how do you explain talking to an old friend that is a man when you are a woman? An old classmate that I had no romantic background with talked to me after 30 years. he was a boy, now a man , who walked home from school the same way me and my friend did ( a girl). he did not flirt with us and had a girlfriend of his own. now my husband feels weird that I want to say hi. how do I explain to him that it is ok and nothing will happen?help/

2007-11-01 06:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by Ginnykitty 7 in Friends

Im in a family member's wedding in a few days and I've decided not to take my boyfriend of 2 1/2. I feel obligated to be in the wedding, and both of us really dont get along with the bride and groom. My mom is upset and thinks that my boyfriend should go. Now she's giving me lip about it and says that we dont do anything as a couple and i should be worried. Is she right? or should I blow her opinion off?

2007-11-01 06:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by coconutqtpie 1 in Weddings

I can't put it until words but he's about 10 years younger then her and he tries to buys my brothers affection by taking them to football games and buying them video games. he asked me if I wanted something and I told him to just give me money and my mom took it as me being rude. But I wasn't! I mean he's giving them things! Plus, he's always at our house! He's never slept over that I know of but I know they are doing more then just holding hands, which makes her a hypocrite since she always tells me to say no. One day I caught him listening to my Ipod and I snapped at him to give it back. And my mom said since she bought it anyway it was okay if he listened to it! I'm so sick of him and I want her to dump him. It doesn't help that my grandmother is joking about him being my stepfather since I don't think it's funny at all. And I don't want her to marry him anyway! That would be horrible! What should I do?

2007-11-01 06:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I always close the door to the bedroom and other bathroom when taking a shower in the morning, but my 6 year old daughter was looking for something and walked into the bedroom as I was walking out of the bathroom with my towel on my hands rather than on my waist. She walked out giggling and ran to her brother (8 years old) to let him know that "dad has hair down there" while giggling. I didn't make anything of it, but I was wondering from other parents, what is the best way to approach this later in the day? Should I just pretend it didn't happen, or should I use this as an opportunity to, in simple terms, explain to her that it's normal and that all people have changes later on. Suggestions? advice?

2007-11-01 06:53:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

in the positive stories; would you use the word love. like similar to the way you love your children?

2007-11-01 06:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-01 06:51:32 · 16 answers · asked by lydia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 06:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, so heres the problem....
My Maid of Honor has been my best friend since i was .We've been there for each other through everything and theres no reason why i shouldnt have chose here EXCEPT....

Now that the wedding planning has begun shes totally lost it!

She makes fun of how im excited to be engaged and how im starting to plan the wedding ..(fall of 08)
She plans to have a REDICULOUS bachelorette party, she thinks 5 male strippers and everyone drunk off there a#$ is AWESOME!! (ive told her thats not what i prefer)
Plus , she thinks the idea of her getting drunk and telling stories about when we were drunk and done dumb things in highschool is the BEST speech to make.
also theres tons more reasons why im going crazy cause of her
she tells me im dumb for getting married...wants to pick the colors for my wedding...thinks it would be hillarious if she were HIGH when she walked down the aisle!!


ARE YOU KIDDING ME!! What should i do!! PLEASE HELP!!

2007-11-01 06:51:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

heya..x
i am 13 and already worrind about my future. my worries are about my job my social life ho i am living with where im living and the list goes onn. i get really worried about my job i want to be a mechanic when im older but then i have doubts about it. because i have tol people that i want to be a mechanic and they have told me about the negative things about being a girl and wanting to be a mechanic. i want what any other teenager wants a good job with a reasonable amount of money. i am not like my friends, oh yea i want loads of money i act more mature about things important. but some of the time like in school i let my hair down and have fun well most of the time i do but hen it comes to more serious things like jobs and that i ac serious and mature.
amy xx

2007-11-01 06:50:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm sick of having my needs ignored, even when I'm jumping through hoops for her (because I love her and want to be a good husband). Why not add "not to ingore my partners needs sexual or otherwise" to the "cherish, honor,..."

Your thoughts?

2007-11-01 06:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Beagle_Boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has family in New York (We live in Philadelphia, PA), i can't stand when he calls me out of the blue and tells me he is going to New York that same day, it was either already planned and he didn't tell me or he just decided to go that day. Sometimes he comes home the same night and sometimes he stayss over for the night. I can't stand when he doesn't give me notice in advance, its common courtesy. Like today I CALLED HIM and he was on his way to New York. Would this bother you. I mean aren't u suppossed to tell your other half when your going out of state. He is visiting his brother and grandmother, but thats not the point.

2007-11-01 06:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by Gi952 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 06:47:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My two older sisters and I take turns caring for our 81-year-old mom who is a recovered alcoholic (we took it away from her three years ago.) There were many years of physical and emotional abuse on all four of us-my brother doesn't even come around except once in a while.
My oldest sister's behavior has become a concern to me because now when we go to a family picnic or together at an activity, she's always late and in a panic because she puts off all preparations until the last minute, and when she gets to the gathering she is so angry and verbally abusive to everyone-just if one little thing doesn't go her way and comes off without a hitch. she can't seem to go with the flow, complains about everything, and makes it less enjoyable for everyone else. I see people steering clear of her because of her incessant complaining. She refuses my help with preparations, and then goes ballistic when something goes wrong. Am I justified for not attending this time, and be honest as to why?

2007-11-01 06:47:32 · 10 answers · asked by marty47 4 in Family

long lasting relationship?

2007-11-01 06:46:55 · 18 answers · asked by MOs fishin 6 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and she know that I do. I'm too afraid to talk to her so I just added her on myspace and comments her sometimes. But she doesn't really respond to it... since I'm too scared to talk to her I talk to my friends about her.. Then one of my friend decided to I'M her and then I felt even more embarrassed cause she knows it was my friend. So I decided to send her a msg explaining the whole situation and I kind of confessed that i was interested in her. The problem now is that she didn't respond to that msg and I never talked to her in person. I really don't know how to approach her.. Help?

2007-11-01 06:46:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him to stop the affair because we have two small children together. he refused left the house and has continued to have an affair with this woman. I have told her husband of the affair and he chooses to look the other way. I have no intentions at this point to work things out with my husband but she is influencing my husband to do things that are not appropriate is there anything I can do.

2007-11-01 06:46:45 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind and I have been fighting lately about a week ago he was being disrespectful to me in front of his freinds because I was asking him what he has done w/ my daughter while he watched her i smacked him and he he smacked me back the thru everything every where and my daghters stuff in the front yard i had left ,i forgave him but yesterday he tried to break my car keys in my car and sprained my hand aswell as giving me a blood blister from trying to stop him from throwing my only set of keys into the swamp i hit him 3 times in the head while he was doing this to try to get him to let go later the evening he said i make him happy his father use to beat his mother i had told her and she was upset im 4 1/2 pregnant
-is it wrong to hit a woman ?
-is it wrong to hit her back if she's the first to strike ?pregnant or not pregnant?
-should i just forget about him ?

2007-11-01 06:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family