Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

ok here is the thing my hair is naturaly mousy brown i never ever got a boyfriend until i turned 13 and i dyed my hair bleech blonde and wore make-up, i ammiediatly got boys even men looking at me thinking i was 17 18 , i hated the attention somtimes drove me made then i got called dumb alot!..so i dyed my hair dark brown just after my 15th, all the looking stopped i liked it but boys became less interested saying i like blondes..so after a year of beiing brunette i bleeched it back i got the attention back!

but i just want to know why blondes seem more attractive

my mate is the same she loves being blonde but all the attention is too much...she has big boobs aswell and she's aattractive

2007-11-01 08:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by Liana 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I recently broke up. He's 24, I'm 23. The Dean of our law school got involved because we had a loud fight outdoors. She's made both of sign a promise that we won't speak for a year. I really can't imagine not speaking to the person who was my best friend for an entire year. I feel that what the Dean is making us do is ridiculous and pointless. At any rate, I have to comply. How can I not speak to someone I love, care about, and see in class everyday?

2007-11-01 08:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I recently broke up. He's 24, I'm 23. The Dean of our law school got involved because we had a loud fight outdoors. She's made both of sign a promise that we won't speak for a year. I really can't imagine not speaking to the person who was my best friend for an entire year. I feel that what the Dean is making us do is ridiculous and pointless. At any rate, I have to comply. How can I not speak to someone I love, care about, and see in class everyday?

2007-11-01 08:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

Just about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend left me. Since then I've been feeling lost and empty. I miss her so much and i want her back. And there was a time when i did actually feel like the luckiest guy in world to have her. We've been dating since the middle of summer and just being with her were the best times of my life. There was one problem though, we never really talked. We lacked communication, and i know that communication is the key to a good relationship. One thing lead to another and it seemed like she eventually became uncomfortable and bored with me. She insists that we stay friends and just move on. Her minds on different things now. I really don't know what to do anymore and since then I've been crying every other day. I really love her. I want to approach her and talk to her about this. I want to be that one guy for her. I'm at the end of the road this time, please help.

2007-11-01 08:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...4 years ago I met this guy! He was just someone that hungout with my friends no big deal right.

Well one night I got kinda intoxicated and kissed him and told all these things. After that we didnt really talk much.

Then I went out without with his best friend. We still really didn't talk much...until I cheated on my boyfriend at the time with him. Who was his best friend! So as you can assume I broke up with my b/f...to go hook up with the other guy. When I did this...he already hooked up with one my good friends...

Fast Forward to now.

I was still friends with him thru all this. Until I notice his girlfriend was cheating on him with my ex b/f(his bestfriend). Of course I told him...he broke up with her!

Now this is what I dont get...I started dating him...but everyone thinks I'm like this big time homewrecker! He had like 300 reasons why to break up with her and her cheating was just the icing for the cake!

So am I a homewrecker?

2007-11-01 08:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by MC like WHAT! 2 in Singles & Dating

my guy an I have been having a - - -ual relationship for about a year now and i feel that it has come to a point where we need something different and crazy any ideas?

2007-11-01 08:44:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My baby's father and I had not been together for months when I had the baby and later filed for child support. He was involved in illegal activities and in and out of jail most of my pregnancy and after the baby's birth. After he got out of jail this time, he's straightened up, is employed and is doing what he is suppose to do. We have also reconciled, but we still have the child support issue. Should I cancel the child support and just work out things on our own terms or keep the child support order in place? We have our next hearing soon. He has given some money to help out, but he's not even making as much as I do. He's still trying to rebuild his life and I would like to give him time to get back on his feet. What are my options? In the end I understand our baby's best interests matter most, whether we are together or not. Just need to know my options or other things I should be considering. Thanks in advance for all responses!

2007-11-01 08:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by Under Construction 1 in Family

So I got a new class last week at school and started hitting on the girl in front of me. And today she looks down at her shoes and is like damn I need new ones. Wanna go shoe shopping with me? I was like what the hell? Does she think I'm gay or is that a legit phrase in asking a guy out

2007-11-01 08:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would in a heartbeat. Either that or we don't get married. LOL

2007-11-01 08:41:45 · 27 answers · asked by Allen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is great, but I think it is time to do something about one of her "cute" traits. A lot of times she says she is going to clean, do laundry or some other sort of household duty. She starts it, but midway she "lazes-out" and doesn't finish. I would have to do it at a different time than her, but still, I would be happy to take over. Not to sound mean, it would be rather advantageous for me because it frequently becomes such a clutter. So, what do you think? Will it hurt her feelings; if not how can I ask her if it is alright to do this without causing a scene. Thanks!

2007-11-01 08:41:42 · 11 answers · asked by DaStalkee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 5 months, and agreed to be exclusive. I found out he was setting up a meeting with another girl on the internet so I broke up with him immediately. He said he truely loves me and did want a life with me and he didnt plan to cheat on me, he was concerned our relationship may not last long(several reasons). He wouldnt purse another relationship nor had sex while we were together. He said still what he did was wrong and he was sorry for hurting me. He didnt ask me to take him back but took down his profile and said he was going to be single for a while and do some serious self-evaluation.
today I found out Im pregnant, I havent told him yet.
do you feel think he said is sincere? should I keep this child? Im 26, he is 35

2007-11-01 08:41:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A boy that I DO NOT LIKE likes Me....HELP!!!!!!!?
This boy likes me. I really don't like him! Everyone calls him gay, but he is really not. or atleast I don't think he is. He has been with EVERY girl in my grade. I went out with him once last year for 2 days but then I realized htat it was the worst mistake of my life. Today in class he said," you know that I still like you?" I said,"ok....." I really don't like him and I don't know what to do. I don't have a boyfriend currently. i did think about Telling him that I have a boyfriend and that he would not like him telling me that he liked me. As I was going to get on hte bus today, io was at my locker and he poked me on th e back and when i turned around to see who it was, he waved at me.. I think that he will ask me out by Tuesday of next week and all of my friends do too. Htat is just how he does stuff. What do I do??????????

2007-11-01 08:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am casually seeing this guy that I would really like to see tonight, but I don't like to do the asking for fear of being turned down or appearing desperate.

2007-11-01 08:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by elaine 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been on the on line dating system for a while and I have grown tired of the men who have answered my ad and their attitudes about what they are looking for in a relationship. It appears not what I am looking for. So I have closed my online account and changed my cell number. Closing my account also prevents the "good brothers" to contact me. I know sometimes despair rules but for me temporary. Did I do the right thing by closing my account and changing my cell number?

2007-11-01 08:38:22 · 32 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Singles & Dating

I think my roommate kinda hates me, although we go party and eat and stuff sometimes. I live with four other people, and three of us kinda hang out togeather (we went out last night togeather) but I always feel like I'm not wanted there (i'm 20 and they're 24). How can I find out what he thinks of me without just going up to him and saying it?

2007-11-01 08:37:40 · 2 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Friends

2007-11-01 08:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay, lets say i started dating a guy that im completely opposite of! he's a redneck type of guy but he is very funny and smart and sweet and i like him very much, but here's the problem: im a emo type person, we hang out with totally different crowds, different taste in everything, but we like each other very much. How do we make it work?

ive never dated anyone that was that different from me, so i need advice on how to make our relationship work long term!

2007-11-01 08:36:32 · 8 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I have this co worker that is always doing inappropriate booty dances, and rubbing her bum on my desk. How do I make this stop?

2007-11-01 08:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by hot06tc 2 in Friends

anyhow I have only spoke to her over the internet and once on the phone last night. Never met her or anybody else that will be there tonight. I said I would go and my husband said I should go to make new friends I have lived here for 4 years and have a couple of friends here by our home. I have a lot of other friends we don't see much because they don't like to drive that far to see us. Mind you it's only about a 15 minute drive from their homes to ours but yet they want us to drive to see them all the time. Anyhow I 'm kinda shy and amd affraid to go meet these people. Should I go or should I say I can't make it? Thanks

2007-11-01 08:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by dollbaby2407 3 in Friends

I only have a 5 1/2 long screwdriver and don't know if it is long enough to fix things in the average home... your opinion?

2007-11-01 08:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 of my so called bffl told me b/f s/t that happened over the summer so i tried 2 deny it but i felt bad so i chose 2 tell him the truth and he left me and now im sick

2007-11-01 08:33:55 · 1 answers · asked by kelli h 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been going through many difficulties as you can tell if you read my old posts. We rarely if ever had sex and he showed no attraction to me whatsoever. No kissing, hugging or showing any attention of that kind. When he almost loses me and I start to agree with seperation/divorce he becomes attentive, loving, and kisses me like he hasnt since before we got married. He talks about sex more often and how much he loves and misses me, etc...
Is this normal? I didnt feel loved, desired or cared for at all for a long time. We were like roommates. Its becoming that way again and although I ask him to lay beside me, or hold me, or just hug me or kiss my cheek he makes excuses and finds reasons not too. I love this man, and I crave just some small bit of show of love and appreciation but it never comes. We have been married a year and a half. Will it ever change? Why does it take my leaving for him to want me and then when he has me again he quits wanting me again?

2007-11-01 08:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by aalshafi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a boy in a couple of my classes who I like and everybody thinks he is wierd. He is older than anyone else in 7th grade because he got held back in kindergarten. I really think he likes me too and I think that that is cool. I have a bf right now but he is not talking to me and this other kid flirts with me all the time.

2007-11-01 08:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean love is additive. It can be harmful to your health. Love can make you crazy. what do you think?

2007-11-01 08:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 in Singles & Dating

If so what happened and how did you get over them? It has been almost 4 months and I still think of her a lot. I want to move on but I feel like we are meant to be and that we might get back together one day. She has called me some throughout the break up and she said she hasnt ruled out us getting back together, but she doesnt want to be with me right now. What should I do?

2007-11-01 08:32:18 · 20 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

and my lease is up in May....should I discuss living together or simply acquire a smaller apartment?

2007-11-01 08:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by sunbun 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I will like to know Because thats the song my father sang before he past on.
When he die in Dec.3,2005 I been look for the CD for along time now. An, that will meen a lot tome, to know who sang it.

Because I havent knew who my dad was in tell i was 18yrs old.

That song is what I have left from him and i need to know.......Plz someone

2007-11-01 08:31:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, I am not sure how to list my parents on our wedding program. My parents are divorced, my mom has remarried, and my dad has been dating someone for several years, though they are not married or engaged.

Re: my dad, normally I would write their names as John X and Jane Y. But here's the issue: my dad's girlfriend will also be the bride's personal attendant. It seems silly to list her twice, but it also seems silly to not list her name next to my dad's, because everyone will be wondering who he is sitting with. What do you think?

2007-11-01 08:31:00 · 12 answers · asked by Carl B 1 in Weddings

2007-11-01 08:29:44 · 24 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating

I find the living arrangements that some couples have kind of strange. I don't understand why 2 so called "happily" married people would want to live 2 separate lives...on opposite sides of town. I don't know about you, but I love having my husband around. Yeah he's annoying at times, and I may be to him, but I would never even think about living in separate places. Would you ever consider this arrangement just so you could have your own "space"?

2007-11-01 08:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by Tristan Robert Due March 20 3 in Marriage & Divorce