my guy an I have been having a - - -ual relationship for about a year now and i feel that it has come to a point where we need something different and crazy any ideas?
2007-11-01 08:44:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My idea for you an adult shop, a credit card, bottle or two of wine or whatever you drink and a suite at a hotel for along weekend....AND remember anything goes!!!
2007-11-01 08:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things. How about a vibrator? Try some new positions. Watch some dirty movies. Do it in a different place like a hotel or in the laundry room. One time I did it with my wife pressed up against the window in a hotel. Anyone could have walked by and watched the whole thing. Who knows, maybe someone did. Wear some sexy lingerie. The both of you should go to Victoria Secrets or Fredricks of Hollywood. Let him go in the dressing room with you and try on a bunch of stuff. You could even do a quicky in there. Try new things and maybe go outside of your comfort zone a little. Maybe let him tie you up. Try some anal. Try having a 3-way. Maybe some implants would keep him interested. How about shaving or getting everything waxed?
2007-11-01 09:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by One Bad Mama Jama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep attempting the foreplay and communicate which includes her and be truthful do not degrade her or something once you've something you would pick to attempt say hi there I really were questioning would you pick to attempt this and open some doors slowly.sex does get uninteresting with an analogous human being after awhile in spite of the indisputable fact that it will be spiced up alot.Candles,purchase her some new nightie attempt doing it in diverse places like bypass to motel for a weekend that has a warm bathtub.very few thoughts.good success
2016-10-23 05:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by favreau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch him offgaurd like when he's watching tv. wait till a commercial & seduce him. dress sexy for when he gets home from work. use your imagination or ask him for ideas.
his ideas may be simpler than you think.
Foreplay doesnt have to be sexual. It can be something simple like helping around the house. Do little things though out the day/week. This should lead to some spice later taht night.
2007-11-01 09:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by *D* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is normal for you? IF you are already doing 6 or 8 positions we would need to know what ones to be able to suggest more.
BUT if you are just doing missionary then you have to do "reverse cowgirl" (you on top with your back to his face and looking at his feet)
Also try different locations like: shower, bath, kitchen counter, dinning room table, couch, chair, floor, against the wall, etc.......
Go to a hotel, go camping, rent a beach house, rent a ski chalet, etc.....
2007-11-01 08:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good responses on all the above posts.....
However, might I suggest that maybe you need to be a little more "open" to sex? Its pretty telling of your attitude towards it when you can't even bring yourself to spell "sexual" in your post on an internet message board that is 100% anonomous !!
Figure out what your (and maybe your s/o's) hangups are and being to move past them.
Its hard to keep things spicy if you can't even TALK about them in frank and adult terms with the one you are engaging in such activity with.
2007-11-01 09:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by aa889d 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once I surprised my ex by getting us a hotel room. I bought some sexy lingerie and some massage oils in different flavors. We played strip poker ( I won) and had shots of tequilla. It was awesome!! I know he'll never forget me LOL
2007-11-01 10:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kidnap him for the weekend!! Don't pack any clothes, put a blindfold over his eyes, put him in the car and drive to a hotel and do him all weekend!!!
2007-11-01 09:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by coolhd2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find even "doing it" in a different position on the bed changes things up.... Lay on the bed in a different spot than you usually do. Light candles, do massage... touch areas lightly that you usually don't touch... lick things you don't usually lick...
2007-11-01 08:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Kim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's what happens when you have a ---ual relationship with someone you don't truely love.
you get bored.
2007-11-01 08:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋