Just about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend left me. Since then I've been feeling lost and empty. I miss her so much and i want her back. And there was a time when i did actually feel like the luckiest guy in world to have her. We've been dating since the middle of summer and just being with her were the best times of my life. There was one problem though, we never really talked. We lacked communication, and i know that communication is the key to a good relationship. One thing lead to another and it seemed like she eventually became uncomfortable and bored with me. She insists that we stay friends and just move on. Her minds on different things now. I really don't know what to do anymore and since then I've been crying every other day. I really love her. I want to approach her and talk to her about this. I want to be that one guy for her. I'm at the end of the road this time, please help.
2007-11-01 08:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mentioned lack of communication, which is very important for keeping a relationship going. I am sorry, but it's time you let it go. She has made it clear that there is no going back, so stay busy and hang with friends.
2007-11-01 08:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....we've all been there. I understand how you feel right now. But there's really nothing you can do.
Time is the only way. Give her some time to be apart from you. Give yourself time to get over the pain. maybe in a few months, you could try reaching out to her to see if there's anything left between you two.
Go out there and have fun. Meet other girls. Even if you don't date them...just talking to other girls gets your confidence back. Then you may find that there's other interests in your life and you may not even want this girl back.
Just know it's ok to hurt for awhile. But it won't last forever. I guarantee it!
2007-11-01 15:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad at the fact that your ex-girlfriend has left you! Even thought I've never been in your shoes, I know it hurts like hell! You can't really do anything about it, because she wants to move on with her life without you, so you're going to have to accept it and respect her decision as well. There's nothing wrong with being friends, but its best that you move on with your life without her in it. Good luck to you and I wish you the best! You deserve better!
2007-11-01 15:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her letters.
most likely she has dumped you forever.
learn to communicate better with the next one.
if she responds to your letters you are in luck.
but communicate now and see if that will change her mind - in writing. tell her how you realize the mistakes you made andhow thigns will be different.
2007-11-01 15:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋