Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

Because at my school I like a guy name Drew. But im not sure if he likes me back.

2007-11-01 10:01:27 · 11 answers · asked by Dakota V 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i had moved to the city approx. 1 year ago
when we moved i got a job and stayed with it, he had jobs but let them go. then he moved himself back where we came from and left me behind for 6 mos. he got a job and work it for one month and came back to me now he can't seem to get a job at all and he stays home in our apt. and is going crazy,he puts alot of stress on me and no matter how i try to make him happy or comfortable he still vents at me. mind you i understand by not working or staying home. now he wants to go back where we came from again after leaving the job there and leave me again. he says when he finds a job he will send for me. i don't mind going back,which i was going to go back before he came back to me after the 6 months but he said to stay and get an apt so i did. now he wants to go back.

2007-11-01 10:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by KAT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you feel as sexually attracted to your wife as you did when you maried?

2007-11-01 09:56:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who does the majority of work around the house? Does this cause tension? Who works most outside the house?

2007-11-01 09:56:12 · 26 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Married for one year, with a lot of happy days and some not so happy.Started working for my boss, an articulate elegant man double my age. His physical attributes do not excite me at all---short, balding, early signs of a pot belly, etc. Why have I suddenly become attracted to him? At first, any physical contact or him flirting with me didn't impress me, in fact I was almost repelled. I had terrible thoughts of him fantasizing about me and still wish he wouldn't, but all of a sudden I started enjoying his attention. I love it when he looks at me a little too long, or winks at me, or compliments me. His cologne turns me on. I feel the same towards my husband, who's a little rough around the edges, and a very simple loving man. I love him dearly.

What's your take on my sudden shift of interest ?
What would you suggest I do about my feelings?
How do I have sex with my husb. without thinking about my boss?

2007-11-01 09:52:38 · 19 answers · asked by Trouble 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone I'm brand new to yahoo answers! My oldest daughter uses this site and loves it. I'm not sure I know how to post my question so I am in hope that this works.

My youngest daughter is transfering college next semester. She has to move out by December 13.

Now she live in the dorms on campus and she is moving to a new dorm on new campus. .

When should I advise my daughter to begin packing and organizing her things for the transfer.

My husband and I have only moved once in our life and that was from China to United States years ago.

thank-you any help would be great!

2007-11-01 09:51:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

father has visitation on tues 8am through wed 8am and thurs.8am through fri.8am,,,says he is not responsible for getting child to school on wed and fri.

2007-11-01 09:50:18 · 8 answers · asked by tweets_65 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been going strong for quite sometime now, and things have been going pretty good (regular dates, no fights, and plenty of smiles). However recently we both have been pretty stressed about different things in our lives. We are still together, but our attention was focused elsewhere for the moment. Now that things are kind of back to normal in terms of our daily lives, it seems that its a lot less give and take from her end. I am the one that makes the phone calls, and I am the one that schedules the dates. I don't want to confront her about it if I don't have to, but I don't want to break up with her either. We both believe that we are perfect for each other, and we have both decided on a commitment. But it is really irritating to feel like the only one to all the work. ANY ADVICE??

2007-11-01 09:50:14 · 3 answers · asked by Dragon Breath 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 09:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by CHEETOS 3 in Singles & Dating

She has 3kids, 6years old thats not for her husband a 1 and some months almost 2 and a 7month old. Now she having another baby this will make baby #4. She said she was embrassed to tell me she was having another baby so soon but her husband told her dont worry about what people think because they are married. She asked me what i think and i told her i needed to call her back. Im very upset at her because 4months ago she wanted to leave her husband now shes having another baby i dont know what to tell her. What do you think about this? Any advice is good advice and i thank you in advance.

2007-11-01 09:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a freshman in high school and there are 3 juniors that like me... i like 2 of the three. How do i choose which one?

2007-11-01 09:43:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right, A Few Months Ago I Told This Girl I Liked Her & She Was Ok With It, By The Way She Has A Boyfriend, I Know I Should Never Of Said Anything When A Girl Is Taken. Weeks Went By & It Got Harder & Harder Because I Was Falling Deeper & Deeper In Love With Her, I Told Her I Loved Her & She Was All I Thought About. She Stoped Talking To Me, Ignoring Me & Everything, For About A Month. Then I Said I've Moved, I've Found Myself A Girlfriend, She Seemed Happy For Me & Said Sorry We Couldn't Remain Friends After I Told Her How I Felt, She Diddn't Know How To Handle It, She'd Never Had Anyone Feel So Strongly For Her That She Wasn't Going Out With.

But The Other Night, I Said I Still Had Feelings For Her & Shes Ignoring Me Again, I Said I Was Leaving My Job (Because I Work With Her) & She Just Said Good Riddence, I Don't Know What To Do, i Think She Hates Me, She Seems So Happy Without Me Playing Any Part In her Life.

2007-11-01 09:41:38 · 1 answers · asked by Allstar 3 in Singles & Dating

Last year I had a friend she was ok but a bit moody. some times we use to go in the pub and I took her out to a children in need night with my mum and dad and my dads brother and his wife and there son and kids. and at christmas I took her out with my mum and dad and my dads brother and his wife. And then I bought her a present for christmas and invited her for tea a few times and took her to a market. and when we was looking after my uncels farm house when he went away we took her up there for tea. And I bought her a present form my holiday. now shes the typ of person who falls out with people all the time and when shes in a mood she stays in one for a week. she now lives on her own because she then only as her self to fall out with.

2007-11-01 09:40:02 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Friends

okay, i have a friend named jai(boy) and he acted really weird around me cuz like 2day, he hit my forehead cuz he thought i ws cheating 4 a game(whichi wasn't and no teacher caught him!) then 2day i wasn't eavesdroppind but just listening cuz there was nothing better 2 do, and i was like u really did that( he said he kicked a guy in the balls) and he was like quit listening!!! he is usually nice 2 me(so r all the other guys my grade on the bus!!) and the last thing he did was say get ur feet off the seat cuz u have a dress on!!! and dont u think he shuldnt've have cared?! if he wanted me 2 stop, why didn't he ask nicely? (he probably doesn't have a crush on me!!!) so why do u think he was actin a little mean 2 me 2day?( im also the only 5th grade grl on the bus, and all the other 5th grade guys r okay with me sittin' in the back with them...) so do u think that was a little mean, and wat do u think was wrong with him 2day?

2007-11-01 09:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

have u done it? im on quite light but dont want to be embarrased but my partners coming over tonight?

2007-11-01 09:32:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we went out for 3years and he broke up with me a year ago, we cut off all communications. Out of nowhere he comments a picture of a car on myspace. I deleted it, put up another one and he comments it again! All of a sudden, he puts a picture of his gf (which he got with 2months after we broke up) in that same car. I dont believe it's by coincidence he decided to do it. I haven't done anything to him, why is he suddenly trying to get me jealous? if that's the case. thanks in advance

I'm trying to get over him slowly and it just makes it more difficult. But i still love him.

2007-11-01 09:32:12 · 13 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating 2 women since about Jan of this year. They both knew what was going on. After a long time sitting on the fence I was going to choose woman A. But woman B is now pregnant. I dont want to leave her to be a single mother but Im in love with the other woman.

Woman A lives out of state and has a 7 yr old son of her own. She is still willing to come down and be with me. Woman B lives here and has no children. I made the decision to be with woman B for the baby. They both know that. Both know that I'd rather be with woman A. I'm very frustrated and do not want to continue this "relationship" w/ woman B. I dont want to feel a constant animosity towards her and the relationship. But Im not happy.

Anyone have any thoughts....?

2007-11-01 09:30:55 · 11 answers · asked by Moester 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 09:29:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plan my wedding; I know I want white calla lillies as the main flower, but I don't know what the a good second flower would be, or maybe just something as a filler.
My colors are wine and silver, the only ideas I've come up with are small wine colored roses or tulips.
Any good ideas? Thanks!! :)

2007-11-01 09:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So me and this guy have been talking for sometime and I am kind of not sure what to do I know he likes me and I finally told him that I like him but he never calls me I always have to call him the only time he calls me is if I go 2 or 3 days without calling him I mean we don't go out or anything but if he’s really interested in me why doesn't he call and when ever I get on him for not calling he gets mad. So what should I do should I stick around and wait till he gets his act together or should I just try to move on? I really like him but he drives me crazy!!

2007-11-01 09:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by MDM 1 in Singles & Dating

They say things like "I want my baby back"....."I love my Baby"...."My Baby is pretty".....Where's my baby"... They always refer to the wife, girlfriend as "Baby". Why?

2007-11-01 09:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He masterbates in front of the computer every day to very disturbing porn sites. I have told him how upsetting this is to me and that I think it is VERY wrong - especially since he has me - a VERY willing sex partner. I wouldn't mind watching it with him - but he waits until I am out of the house to go online to get off. Some of these sites are horrific - and it really hurts me and scare me a bit - but he just laughs at me. WHAT DO I DO!?!?

2007-11-01 09:25:19 · 21 answers · asked by The Lizard Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's a freshman and im a senior,(high school) and i never ever feel comfortable with older guys. but usually, i never feel comfortable with any guy. Except with him, i put my head on his shoulder (which is something i can never do) and i just felt real comfortable. I've been thinking about him a lot too. And i don't know if i like him or not, i've always had trouble with guys i assume cause i was raped when i was a child, but he just seems different. Only when im around him though, when im not i always think of that bad things about him, but when he's around, i want him to stay with me. So what should i do? is this normal?

2007-11-01 09:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl three years older she flirts with me i like her alot but is it right

2007-11-01 09:24:45 · 6 answers · asked by Tuffy2121 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i met this guy about two months ago, he stopped me while i was leaving the doctors office and asked me for directions. We both exchanged numbers, he's very sweet and well always telling me, how cute i am and how he enjoys my company. We have seem each other only a few times, though we live 20mins from each other. We're both very busy working and well only have time once a week to see each other. I've asked him numerous times to meet my mom and he keeps finding excuses. He said he had a bad experience with his ex mother, so i give him time, then asked him again. Now he's still saying no! I do really care for him, when i am around him i feel like nothing else in the world matters. However it's difficult to be with someone who rarely calls you or texts you. He's always so busy. I really like him, there is so much chemistry between us, it's unbelievable!
Now I’ve met another guy, whose very lovely as well. He treats me like a Queen, introduces me to his boss and all his friends.

2007-11-01 09:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by Playful~Beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

we have a 19 month-old son who we both love a lot but i always seem to be the one that takes care of him all the time and when i ask him to do something it takes him ages to do it... when we argue is always about the same things our son, money, the living situation, and how he doesnt like to do anything...plus he always ends up telling me things that i can put here......but i found someone that he knows and that i would like to be with after we end everything and ofcouse he doesnt know of that someone else, my son doesnt spend much time with him so it wouldnt make a difference wheter hes there or not. so what should i do or how should i do it and how long do i have to wait until i can be with my other guy??? please help i can take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 09:22:54 · 13 answers · asked by shy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking with a few friends of mine, we get along really well because we don't really care what other people think and we have a lot of positive energy and a great sense of humor. So as all four of us are talking about gay people (we have no shame, we talk about EVERYTHING) by BEST FRIEND comes up to my face and says: "Why the hell are you always so weird? OMG You need to STOP!" Then she walked away and left me trying not to cry. She is the most beautiful person I have ever laid eyes on and Ive been her friend ever since first grade. She's popular and bossy and smart and a real bookworm and she teases me about how ugly my spiky hair is I sent her an e-mail about what I thought about that, but I can't post it here, it's too long.
Anyways, I was just an elementary school kid when A.) I was touched inappropriately by a family member and B.) I was abused by my immediate family (Father, Mother, Brother)
I've never told anyone before, and I cut myself occasionally.
What should I do!?

2007-11-01 09:22:03 · 29 answers · asked by Erica 2 in Friends

i'm getting married next year and am trying to come up with ideas for possible honeymoon. any ideas and suggestions would be great. wouldn't mind travelling or even stay in state of michigan.

2007-11-01 09:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by pepsigirl 2 in Weddings

this morning my little cousin passed away. As i have posted in previous questions, she had luekiemia and this morning god decided it was her time to go. How do I cope with this? She did not die peacefully she was very sick when she went caughing up blood and bleeding internally. How do I help my family and myself understand that she is in a better place and not suffering anymore? Any help is greatly appreciated. And please don't be assholes anyone. This isnt the right time. Also, we had been taking her to this healer, he said he was very close with god. and he said she was going to have a wedding and we would all dance there and she would have 2 kids, obviously he was wrong. But my cousin's mother's friend sent another healer to their house before she died a few days ago. And you know what that sick bastard said? For $3000 I can cure her within a month. How sickening is that?

2007-11-01 09:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Ohhemmgee_its_Angie 2 in Family

I know a Matron of Honor is married. A Maid of Honor is not. The person that I always thought would be my Maid of Honor is married now, so she will obviously be my Matron of Honor. None of the other girls are in my bridal party are married. So, do I also choose a Maid of Honor as well or does the Matron of Honor take the Maid of Honor's place? 'Cause I've been thinking about having a Matron of Honor AND a Maid of Honor. I guess it's my wedding and I get to do whatever I want, but I just want to know what's common and what you think about it? Thanks! :)

2007-11-01 09:20:41 · 14 answers · asked by Daisy 4 in Weddings