Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

I invited my guy friend to go to this dance with me and he was really excited about it and called me a bunch to check up on the details right? He told me he wasn't sure if he could and had to check his schedule. Then a few days later he said he couldn't go. I said it was okay and we've been hanging out a bit more lately. A few days ago he called me up to ask how the dance went. (It's not til this weekend...I'm 100% sure he knows this.) This dance allows girls to choose two dates and if they don't invite anyone the person in charge will choose two for her. Anyway I don't know who my dates are yet but my guy friend told me to be careful and that I shouldn't drink. He apologized for not being able to go with me and said it was just really sweet that I had. Then he kept saying he was just calling to see how the dance went and how my weekend was. Repeatedly. I don't get it. Could he like me? What's with him calling me up to ask about a dance that hadn't happened yet?

2007-11-01 11:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by Erato 3 in Singles & Dating

What makes a man not want to get engaged or married even though he says he loves you and wants to stay with you forever?

And we've been together for almost 3 years...

2007-11-01 11:14:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is that true or are you guys just making it up ?

2007-11-01 11:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on the phone with my friend last night, and then my dad calls....I didn't answer and then he called the house and he was like "Why is "myname" on the phone right now and he was calling from work. It was late so I couldn't be on the phone, so I denied it. He was like " My phone system lets me know if you're on the phone" Is he lying or is that actually possible?

2007-11-01 11:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by Confusedgirl 1 in Family

2007-11-01 11:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by *Mяz.ωαу* 5 in Family

Im curious how everybody else feels about my situation ? I have found this absolutely wonderfull woman who likes me very much and I feel is into me a lot ! We both try to spend as much time together as possible . We both are also single parents with boys . I have told her that I would like this to become something very special which it already is but would like more if possible ! When the two of us talk about our relationship she always wants to refer to us as best friends , even though we have a great sex life and get along great together . We both have been hurt in past relationships and are rather gaurded but still except each other openly ! My question to everyone is this does this sound like she wants her cake and eat it two or do you think there will be a prosperous future in the horizon for the two of us ? I know we both love each other but she is affraid to say it because of her past !
HELP ME OUT !!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 11:11:45 · 4 answers · asked by todd3671 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 11:11:38 · 1 answers · asked by :-) smiler 1 in Singles & Dating

I love the sistas and think they are the sexiest women in the world (and yes, I'm a non-black guy).

Why is it so easy for people to go around talking about how hot white, asian, latina women are but not blacks? Whassup with that?

2007-11-01 11:11:26 · 36 answers · asked by lavishme 2 in Singles & Dating

Do people really enjoy cookie cutter weddings? Why is it so bad if someone wants to make their wedding stand out amongst the rest.

I am all for doing your own thing but I don't get so many of the replies here that say "that is so tacky! etc" when someone wants to do something personal or unique like wear a colored dress instead of white, as just one example of many. If it's not hurting anyone and not jeopardizing .your guests' comfort, what is the problem and why do some people have to be so snarky and mean about it? They're choosing their thing for their event, you get to choose your thing when it's your turn. Seriously, what is wrong with being different?

2007-11-01 11:10:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Some people have said you find love when you aren't looking for it. That people who are always looking for love need to let things just take their course.

What do you think? Do people find love when not looking?

2007-11-01 11:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Singles & Dating

i started seeing this guy a few weeks ago and i totally like him. my friends dating his friend so we always hang out w/ them so i haven't really hung out w/ him alone. we always end up making out whever we hang out and my freind tells me he likes me alot and is always talking about me. so yeah heres my question she was telling me the other day that he thinks its gonna take 2 months for us 2 start going out and hes not gonna wait around forever so yeah i'm really confused cuz he hasn't asked me out or anything yet whats that supposed mean....???

2007-11-01 11:04:50 · 13 answers · asked by cheshire cat 1 in Singles & Dating

ONe of my close friends is getting married. Her fiance is trying to get with me and apprantly she is aware of this. I have a boyfriend and I wouldn't do anything anyway...should i tell her? should i still be her bridesmaid? HELP pleeeeease!!!!

2007-11-01 11:04:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a full time college student in Texas and my boyfriend is in the army and is stationed in Kentucky, our 2 year anniversary is coming up and i don't know what to get him. I can't go down there and i will not send pictures(you know the ones i am talking about). So does any one have any suggestion?

2007-11-01 11:04:12 · 1 answers · asked by quileter 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont understand why do guys always want to fight.....
today boys at my class started some fight and it ended up at our park with 32 other guys who also came to fight with them...they were so violent and agressive,it was very interesting to watch but they were fighting so hard that i couldnt recognize them anymore...they werent the same persons...there were no cute guys who always joke around and walk smiled,they got anger and didnt think of anything else...

what happens with them in those situations?

2007-11-01 11:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by Bella 4 in Friends

r u a butt guy or a boobs guy?

2007-11-01 11:01:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While out over the weekend this guy was flirting with me all night. He made several compliments over the evening, thankfully without being crude. He made one somewhat borderline comment, something about the way I was walking across the room in my heels looked sexy. At this point I was right next to him and he looked at me and said "AND you have a tongue ring, you know you're killing me right?" He expanded that he liked the conversations we had earlier, thought I had a cute laugh, thought i looked very nice that night, etc etc. He slid his arm around my waist and asked in my ear if i was enjoying myself, so close I cld feel his lips on my ear. But I was cool and just said, im having a great time & grabbed his arm from around my waist.

When he returned to his group of friends he was cheesing hard & I saw him pop his collar. What does that even mean? He had not gotten my number. In fact I avoided giving him to him. I thought it was some sort of "he got me" move so I was turned off.

2007-11-01 11:01:04 · 5 answers · asked by blackcheri32 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night I texted this girl, I also texted 20 other people, to see if there was a party going on at all. She didnt answer. No one anwsered. so later around 7 I asked her if she wanted to go get some food. about 30 minutes later i get a text from her friend saying "what did i just tell you are you completely ignorant?" Back story she told me that she just got out of a relationship and was not dating right now, but we can hang out. So is it wrong to ask someone ask someone to go get some food? or is this girl crazy?

2007-11-01 10:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are 13 and i dont want to ask her but do u think she would maybe play with herself or do anything like that or look up naked guys on the internet? like i said i definately dont want to ask her but i want to know. your answer wont ruin our relationship i just want to know if most 13 year olds do that kind of stuff.

2007-11-01 10:58:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to hear my ex girlfriend's name from your mouth? i know she dumped him n married another guy. n he still writes poems about her. i dont get the meaning. when i ask him about her he hates it.

2007-11-01 10:53:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met randomly a bit over a week ago on campus and became friends very quickly. We do have a lot in common and have the same tweaked sense of humor. She does not object when i kiss her both on the cheek and on the lips. I have tried to take her out to dinner but due to our class schedules and distance we have yet to. She has said she is naturally a flirt but I cannot tell if it is just that or if she does feel the same the same toward me. Ive never been good at reading signs so any advice, no matter how blunt, is welcome.

2007-11-01 10:52:36 · 1 answers · asked by Alex Bro Dude 2 in Singles & Dating

i've seen people on tv have orgasms but i have never experienced that. sure i have faked 1000's just 2 get him 2 stop but i dont think i have ever had 1.

2007-11-01 10:52:07 · 16 answers · asked by moneak29 1 in Singles & Dating

..all my friends are in relationships, are having children, have got/or are getting married. I'm happy for them but I feel so lonely. They ask me a lot 'have I met anyone?'and I laugh it off but inside it hurts. I was in a relationship for 6 years, 3 years ago (it was amazing, and he was one of the most beautiful people I've ever met but I ended our relationship because he couldn't make any commitment which broke my heart and I still feel regret over it.Now I hear he is engaged to a woman he has only known a year). The truth is I would like to have relationship but I don't feel in the right place to be with anyone and don't feel worthy of anyone. I know this sounds pathetic, but I feel I can't move on as no-one compares to this man. I'm 31 (sorry I sound13!!) and know I'm not getting any younger. Please help, I want to enjoy being single!!!! x

2007-11-01 10:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I both work 9-5 jobs but I do all the housework except laundry. He only does the laundry because I hate it. How can I get him to do more of the household chores without being drastic? I'll take any advice because I've tried many things but to no avail.

2007-11-01 10:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 i like this hot girl in my class and i dont know how to tell her but i get scared when i ask herand i dont want everybody to know if she says no

2007-11-01 10:46:07 · 28 answers · asked by Ryan C 2 in Friends

how do you approuch a girl (around 16-19yrs). what do you say to a girl you have never seen before in your life but your lookin at now and your interested.

2007-11-01 10:46:06 · 8 answers · asked by T V 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard of a new site called face book theres some radio djs on it can I not chat to them useing it like a dating site and asking them out or is that rong. and is it not a dating site as I have never seen the site before only herd about it benig called face book. any advice?

2007-11-01 10:44:29 · 10 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 10:44:24 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about myself for the record. I know someone who got another girl pregnant on a randomn hook up. Girl is keeping baby. The girl is staying with the boyfriend because they've been together for 3 years and she loves him and she knows he loves her and was just one night.

2007-11-01 10:43:43 · 3 answers · asked by Betsy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a reception facility in Houston that will allow us to use our own people to facilitate everything from food down to flowers. We already know who we will use for these things, so we don't want an all inclusive type place. We would prefer somewhere that we can handle it ourselves and just rent the facility. Any Ideas?

Also if it is out doors or with a view of water that is a major plus.

2007-11-01 10:43:36 · 2 answers · asked by sleek 2 in Weddings

always the best policy? even if it hurts? or is going to hurt someone

2007-11-01 10:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating