i dont understand why do guys always want to fight.....
today boys at my class started some fight and it ended up at our park with 32 other guys who also came to fight with them...they were so violent and agressive,it was very interesting to watch but they were fighting so hard that i couldnt recognize them anymore...they werent the same persons...there were no cute guys who always joke around and walk smiled,they got anger and didnt think of anything else...
what happens with them in those situations?
2007-11-01 11:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by Bella 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
cuz they think its cool and they think it makes them more of a man
2007-11-01 11:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Me! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's like if I asked, Why do girls shop? -lol- I'm serious when girls wanna go shopping, they call each other up and go in a big group when they're looking at clothes or stuff they want you don't even forget your with them sometimes I even sleep in the benches at the mall or start talking on the phone. While shopping they are not the same either. They are not the same that are always in a hurry. I have 4 older sisters so I would know. Anyways back to the guys situation it's just in our genes or what ever.
2007-11-01 18:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tony RC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone. Plus, you said it earlier, BOYS.Too much testosterone will elevate a males aggressiveness. Also, boys are going through puberty so they are going through many physical and mental changes. Some act tough to impress girls or their male friends. That way they don't appear to be a wimp or coward. I don't agree with that type of thinking or of them fighting to impress anyone. I run a Martial Arts Studio in Las Vegas and if I find my students involved in any brawls, especially one that they helped start, they won't be coming back to my class. Life is filled with disciplines and challenges. It's how we handle them that determines when we become men. Much the same for girls, growing into young, productive women. Hopefully the school officials disciplined the boys for their brawl? If not, then I can promise you, it will happen again.
2007-11-01 18:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by David T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and I still haven't figured that out, I was more passive on violence then most guys in high school and middle school and I think that only made me more of a target, seems guys even the smart ones always have that toughman attitude, my best weapon to stay passive was to just get bigger, and boy did I ever, most of th eitme people left me alone and the only time I needed to fight was when it was a good idea (no other way)
2007-11-01 18:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by silencetheevil8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone and adrenaline start pumping, and the anger starts taking over. They want to destroy something. Same thing happens to women, it's just generally dealt with differently.
Listen, people aren't whole beings. It's really a corporate beings, a bunch of different parts coming together to make up what you see. One of these parts is our anger side, which comes out when we're very pissed off. That's my theory on why people seem different in different situations, so different you hardly recognize them.
Sometimes, I don't even recognize myself.
2007-11-01 18:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Butch Cassidy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone is what got to them. lol.
It happens to everyone every once and a while.
I do think its ridiculous for 32 people to fight one man's fight. Its such a punk move to me.
But girls fight a lot too. Their friend is always being mean and nasty when it might be over something small. Guys are the same, we're only human =]
2007-11-01 18:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Devan! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone is one hell of a hormone, especially when we're young. It's a catalyst for rage, aggression, and packlike behavior, but if we live long enough it passes. Until then, the boys will definitely be boys. (It generally peaks around age 18, but it's present far longer in certain circumstances). Charming, isn't it?
2007-11-01 18:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because all guys have is there respect. If another guy does not respect you they will treat you like dirt. So boys fight so that they gain respect, it makes them feel better about them selves. Kinda like when a cute boy smiles at you and it makes your feel hot. Just with them when they fight, it makes them feel dominant.
Guys are idiots, just ignore retarted guys,
let them do their thing.
2007-11-01 18:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HORMONES............... it controls them all da time. i think it makes them feel good to have a fight where ever and whenever. just stay away when tow guys start a fight, if you know one of them pretend that you are about to faint may be that will stop him to keep fighting the other guy!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-01 18:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone. Human nature. Competition. Primitive behavior that we haven't evolved out of yet.
2007-11-01 18:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by ►solo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are too shy to ask you out, and this is there way of getting out there frustrations. They want the girls to notice them. They probably wouldn't act that way if there were no pretty girls around!
2007-11-01 18:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by fernster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋