I invited my guy friend to go to this dance with me and he was really excited about it and called me a bunch to check up on the details right? He told me he wasn't sure if he could and had to check his schedule. Then a few days later he said he couldn't go. I said it was okay and we've been hanging out a bit more lately. A few days ago he called me up to ask how the dance went. (It's not til this weekend...I'm 100% sure he knows this.) This dance allows girls to choose two dates and if they don't invite anyone the person in charge will choose two for her. Anyway I don't know who my dates are yet but my guy friend told me to be careful and that I shouldn't drink. He apologized for not being able to go with me and said it was just really sweet that I had. Then he kept saying he was just calling to see how the dance went and how my weekend was. Repeatedly. I don't get it. Could he like me? What's with him calling me up to ask about a dance that hadn't happened yet?
2007-11-01 11:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by Erato 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We go to college and the dance is my sorority semi-formal.
2007-11-01 11:16:30 · update #1
He's going home this weekend. the weekend of my dance. He'd made tickets weeks ago.
2007-11-01 11:28:20 · update #2
Guy talk translation:
When he had to "check his schedule" it means "I have to see if there are any other girls that I like better than you who I can go out with first".
When he said he couldn't go, that meant there was another girl.
When he called to "ask about the dance" (that didn't happen yet) it meant that the deal with the other girl didn't materialize and he was trying to find a round-about way of getting re-invited to the dance with you.
2007-11-01 11:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does care because of his followup call or calls, but he is mixed up or forgetful. Yes, he could like you, but maybe he couldn't attend the dance for some reason. Maybe he will invite you somewhere else.
Joy to you!!!
2007-11-01 18:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't know or maybe he is shy.
2007-11-01 18:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rae Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's crazy.
2007-11-01 18:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋