how to pick up a girl plzzzz help?

Question

im 13 i like this hot girl in my class and i dont know how to tell her but i get scared when i ask herand i dont want everybody to know if she says no

but i just found out she has a bf

Answer 1

ask to talk to her a minute and get her alone...

Answer 2

What are you planning on asking her? Why don't you just try talking to her about something that happened in class or something she does outside of school. Then you can casually ask if she wants to do something... but be specific. If you say, "Do you want to do something sometime?" you leave room for awkwardness when discussing what you could do and when. Ask specifically, would she like to go to the park after school, study together, etc. Something casual like this can lead to further hanging out later, like going to the movies, etc. Plus, studying together will allow you to get to know each others' parents, which is important when dating when you're 13. Also, when you're asking something casual like studying, you leave her an easy out to make a casual excuse if she's not interested that will not embarress you. Good luck! And remember that you don't want to make the poor girl feel like she's being "picked up"! :)

Answer 3

Dont make a big deal out of it . Just casually engage her in a quick conversation every day slowly increase the time you talk to her. And remember girls llke kind, confident guys who are kind of goofy and fun. i know it sounds old fashioned but offering to carry her stuff etc also will get you noticed.
good luck!!

Answer 4

first, you ask her if you can put your arm underneath her armpits.

Then you try and lock your hand together so that you've got her in 'bear hug' position.

Then you bend your knees, making sure you back is straight...then you LIFT her off the ground.

Picking a girl is almost like picking up any other relatively heavy object. It's all about technique.

Answer 5

Ask her flat out to go on a date to the movies...if both of your parents agree. This will really make her take notice that you are bold and not afraid to go for what you want. If you get rejected BIG DEAL...act disinterested in her and focus on someone else. You have to overcome your fears of rejection after awhile it get easy.

Answer 6

well im around that age and im a girl too. i would like a guy to flirt with me and then say a cute pick up line (nott dirtyy eww) and then i would laugh. then if you asked me out and i didnt think you were so bad id sayy yes. soo baby cakess go for it!

Answer 7

If you're only 13 you don't need to be picking up girls. When you're older, like, 20, you can start worrying about it. It'll sae you a lot of drama.

Answer 8

Ok dude. For one thing you dont "pick up" a girl. She comes to you. And if it's meant to be then she will come to you. You'll know if she likes you if she starts to flirt with you. But if she doesn't then i would move on. and dont use the term "pick up" anymore for your own sake

Answer 9

nicely between the two i could say Bow Wow, he's gorgeous and he has been around longer. So he has some form of status. yet my genuine decision would be Ice cube, I constantly pronounced he became my toddler's daddy.

Answer 10

its quite easy to pick up a girl
the fireman lift is the best
with her standing in front of you put your arm around her back and your shoulder about hip lvl *dont forget to bend your knees* pull her over your shoulder and stand up
and you have just picked up a girl

Answer 11

if you want to try to get her to like you then i sugest just talking to her and flirting. it works, trust me. and if you arent sure how to start a conversation then just go up to her and say hi and let her start the conversation. though i must ask why do you like a girl cause she is hot that is not cool.