She has 3kids, 6years old thats not for her husband a 1 and some months almost 2 and a 7month old. Now she having another baby this will make baby #4. She said she was embrassed to tell me she was having another baby so soon but her husband told her dont worry about what people think because they are married. She asked me what i think and i told her i needed to call her back. Im very upset at her because 4months ago she wanted to leave her husband now shes having another baby i dont know what to tell her. What do you think about this? Any advice is good advice and i thank you in advance.
2007-11-01 09:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After this baby is born, march her A** down to Planned Parenthood to get some education on how to prevent getting pregnant again. Four kids under 6 years old, especially when you're not in a happy relationship, is just plan crazy.
As for what to tell her now, just tell her you're speechless and don't have any advice or opinions to share. Try not to give an opinion, if you can. Or you can tell her that it's her life and your opinion doesn't count, so why does she need it. If she presses, just say you are sad and afraid for her future and suggest she get some marriage counseling if she plans to stay with her husband.
2007-11-01 09:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can say. Sounds like she's living her life the way she sees fit. I would just say something non-committal, like "congratulations". I mean, what can you tell her? That she's being totally stupid and irresponsible? That she needs to get her tubes tied? There isn't much to say in this situation.
2007-11-01 16:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi just tell her congratulations and dont leave her give many advices if u can i know she learned from her bad experiences... she needed u most now.. she's pregnant im afrain she'll get depressed and can affect the baby.. just stay beside her whenever she needs u :)
2007-11-01 18:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything to her, just let her be. Whether she chose to have another baby on purpose or by accident is her problem and you shouldnt be involved. When she comes around and needs your help then act on it however you please.
2007-11-01 16:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, they should USE PROTECTION to prevent so many kids in so short a time.
Jobwise, she could do SURVEYS on line at home. I do plenty of them and am constantly getting checks and gift cards in the mail.
2007-11-01 18:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will no longer give her advise...that it is her life to live any way she sees fit
2007-11-01 16:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋