my husband and i had moved to the city approx. 1 year ago
when we moved i got a job and stayed with it, he had jobs but let them go. then he moved himself back where we came from and left me behind for 6 mos. he got a job and work it for one month and came back to me now he can't seem to get a job at all and he stays home in our apt. and is going crazy,he puts alot of stress on me and no matter how i try to make him happy or comfortable he still vents at me. mind you i understand by not working or staying home. now he wants to go back where we came from again after leaving the job there and leave me again. he says when he finds a job he will send for me. i don't mind going back,which i was going to go back before he came back to me after the 6 months but he said to stay and get an apt so i did. now he wants to go back.
2007-11-01 10:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by KAT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he,s going nowhere fast and is dragging you along with him. Has he always been so indecisive? Unless he has a problem with drugs or alcohol, He is depressed and needs help. If you love him and want to be with him, try to get him to go to a doctor, counselor, or religious leader. If he refuse,s. Go to one yourself. Maybe then you will know how to deal with this.
2007-11-01 11:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wondering.... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he has a GF in the other place and he misses her and wants to go back. He never kept a job in the new city because he knew he wasn't going to stay long. I would tell him thaqt he needs to grow up get off his butt and start looking for work or he can start looking for a new wife.
That you have put up with his laziness and BS for far too long and will not do it anymore.
Best Wishes and may God Bless You.
2007-11-01 17:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about him seeing a counselor to help him sort out his thoughts? He seems rather confused to me.
2007-11-01 17:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by bluebell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he doesn't have another woman on the side? i don't mean to sound insensitive, but i would wonder.
2007-11-01 17:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by kei 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋