2007-11-01 09:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by CHEETOS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, I have one myself.. and all I can say is put your foot down. Trust is #1 in any relationship.. if you don't have trust you have nothing. It's a battle.. but don't let him walk all over you.
I love my bf.. so I know it's a lot harder to just leave him like everyone tells you too. But there comes a point, where you have to say enough is enough. If he really loves you he won't want to make you feel like he's keeping you in a glass jar. Being jealous is our 1 problem.. and last time it came up .. I had to be ready to leave..(and we've been talking marriage) I just told him.. point blank. I will not be treated like this. Another man is not going to be the reason we break up.. it's going to be you and your jealously that does it. He's been much better.. but it's still hard. It might not work. it might not.. but I feel i have to give it a shot.. Just please .. don't let him take away "you"
btw.. I'm not saying you can change him.. he has to want to change himself.. if he can't leave.. I know I will.
Good luck..
2007-11-01 10:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by nugbug456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Super jealous boyfriends suck. they have low self esteem which usually means they are terrible boyfriends. DUMP him or get used to someone who is a control freak and will make your life miserable accusing you of things and making you feel like less of a person. This is only the case if your not purposely trying to make them jealous!
Find out why he is so insecure and try to help him feel better about himself.
2007-11-01 09:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by nyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man jealousy is a bad bad BAD thing.
I went out with a guy who was jealous to the point of being violently possessive, and wasted 4 years of my life, and got a trip to jail.. and I urge you to be careful.
Trips to the hospital are so not a part of a good relationship...Cops being called are not going to help matters only make them worse. This is what you have to look forward to when dealing with someone who has jealousy issues.
Speaking as someone who knows.....let him go. If he can not control his emotions, you are asking for trouble.
Cemeteries are full of women young and old who truly believed that "He wouldn't hurt me" and "He didn't mean to" and women who believe they can 'CHANGE' him. Cold hard fact, you can't, so don't try.
Worse is that they are made to feel it is their fault when it is not.
2007-11-01 09:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tira A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous because he's insecure of himself (so you need to boost his confidence and tell him that you really care about him) or because he doesn't trust you.
You didn't give enough info to form a good answer, so just talk to him about why he's jealous and help him get past it. There could be issues that you don't know about. Maybe he was hurt before or thinks you're going to leave him; prove to him that you're not that girl.
2007-11-01 09:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of everyone in the 90's: Lose the zero get with a hero.
2007-11-01 09:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to discuss with him approximately why he does this. If he can no longer believe you it fairly is his problem to tackle and if he won't i desire to propose you go away. you mustn't permit your daughters see that it is appropriate therapy from adult males.
2016-10-03 03:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't he will allways try to manipulate you by acting jealous, get a more secure bf
2007-11-01 09:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your boyfriend jealous of?
2007-11-01 09:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Do you want to put up with that forever?
2007-11-01 09:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to cal down and that he is the only one for you and that he doesn't have to worry. let him know you care about him and that he can trust you
2007-11-01 09:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by morg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋