this morning my little cousin passed away. As i have posted in previous questions, she had luekiemia and this morning god decided it was her time to go. How do I cope with this? She did not die peacefully she was very sick when she went caughing up blood and bleeding internally. How do I help my family and myself understand that she is in a better place and not suffering anymore? Any help is greatly appreciated. And please don't be assholes anyone. This isnt the right time. Also, we had been taking her to this healer, he said he was very close with god. and he said she was going to have a wedding and we would all dance there and she would have 2 kids, obviously he was wrong. But my cousin's mother's friend sent another healer to their house before she died a few days ago. And you know what that sick bastard said? For $3000 I can cure her within a month. How sickening is that?
2007-11-01 09:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Ohhemmgee_its_Angie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel so foolish for believing the healer. He was a nice man and everything he said came true, when he said she would get sick she did when he said she would get better she did, it was very convincing. I don't think he did it on purpose or as a scam, but the other one was a sicko
2007-11-01 09:48:46 · update #1
As a Christian, it was wrong to have taken her to those places. No one can work miracles except for the Lord.
Jeremiah 14:14
Then the LORD said to me, "The prophets are prophesying lies in my name. I have not sent them or appointed them or spoken to them. They are prophesying to you false visions, divinations, idolatries and the delusions of their own minds.
Jeremiah 23:16
This is what the LORD Almighty says: "Do not listen to what the prophets are prophesying to you; they fill you with false hopes. They speak visions from their own minds, not from the mouth of the LORD.
All you can do is pray for her and her family. Know that she is with the Lord and no longer suffering. You may not see it now, but God didn't want her to suffer anymore and he did not want her family to see her suffer so HE took her to be with HIM.
Matthew 19:14
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
You will see her again. -Sorry for your loss. Keep the faith.
† -God Bless.
2007-11-01 09:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i am very sorry for ur loss. i truly am. but did u know that from the time we all were born, everybody has already a date that our life will end. its very sad that it had to be so soon for her and so painfull. but every thing happened for a reason. if u believe in eternal life then u kno that u will see her again one day. and everything will be just fine..but until then u need to stay strong and keep God on ur side no matter what u do. I personally dont believe in any healers, the only healers i believe in is God and his son jesus. but anyways, there's really not much u & ur family can do now, but stay strong. i know its hard,and its totally normal for u guys to be sad because ur missing the little girl, but u also need to know, that ur life is still going on, not with her but the memories that u all shared with her. think of the good memories with her, not when she was sick & in pain. once again i am very sorry for ur loss. Look up to God in every thing that u do
2007-11-01 09:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that I say wil make the hurt any better, I wish it could but somehow it doesn't. I am glad she's not living with the pain anymore. We will never know why some people has to die when so small and why some things happen to people very close to us. If you're down on the floor there's no better position than on your knees. Luckily we were created in a special way so that we manage to handle the heartache. I wish I could give you a very big hug. May God give you strengh. Amen
2007-11-01 09:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry for your loss!
Please don't blame yourselves for leaving no stone unturned by asking a spiritual healer for help.
Thankfully you saw through the con of the latest "healer" and didn't fall for it, and yes it was truly sick. That person will have a place waiting in hell for him/her no doubt about it.
I think you have already said it yourself when you said the little one's suffering has ended. Her quality of life was spent. All that was left for her was to suffer the pain of her illness.
In this case death was mercifull.
2007-11-01 09:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Miss....I am so sorry to hear this news. I hope too that your cousin is in a better place now. Being with God at his side means an end to the pain of this earth. At times like this, my Grandmother Dovie would have had her little pink handkerchief and say "Darling, God makes up his mind when he is ready and not when we are."
It sounds to me like your family has a strong faith. Please take advantage of that as a strength in your life. Talk with the minister / priest / pastor at your church if possible. If your church has seminar classes on grieving the loss of a family member, please go if you can.
My mother did after losing my father. She found strengths she never knew she had. If you have close friends, talk to them when you feel you are ready. Spend time with your family and, if you are so inclined, read God's words. Sometimes, they can touch us in ways we cannot understand.
With kind regards....Finn.
2007-11-01 09:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss and that of your familys . I would report that faith healer to the state attorneys office he is a fraud !!! Just keep telling yourself and your family that she is no longer sick where she is and she is at the right hand of god . all children that pass are . I hope in time your family finds the peace they are seeking . god bless you in your time of grief .
2007-11-01 09:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so so sorry for you and your family. It is hard to know what you are all going through. I hope your little cousin had some happy times in her short life that you can all remember when the pain of losing her lessens. The pain will never go away but through time it will ease. I send you love and thoughts of strength.
2007-11-01 09:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Calamity Jayney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very sorry for your loss. All i can say is it will take time and that she is in a better place.
The "healer" who wanted to take a desperate family for 3000 dollars should be sued!
2007-11-01 09:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry about your little cousin...
there is but "one Healer" and that is God.
He decided to take your lil cousin home and give her peace and a pain-free place..
the little children don't belong to us...only lent for a season....they already belong to God and only He makes the decision to end life here on earth to begin a new life with Him in heaven.
just pray for your family and your self and one day you will join her........God bless
2007-11-01 10:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by cecstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. Just keep positive, love with your whole heart and live life to the full because you never know when it can be taken away from you.
2016-05-26 22:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by dona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋