So me and this guy have been talking for sometime and I am kind of not sure what to do I know he likes me and I finally told him that I like him but he never calls me I always have to call him the only time he calls me is if I go 2 or 3 days without calling him I mean we don't go out or anything but if he’s really interested in me why doesn't he call and when ever I get on him for not calling he gets mad. So what should I do should I stick around and wait till he gets his act together or should I just try to move on? I really like him but he drives me crazy!!
2007-11-01 09:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by MDM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he have a good reason for not calling you? I mean, he doesn't have to have a long-drawn-out conversation about your entire day, but he could just call to say "Hi.", check in, let you know he's okay and thinking about you...I wouldn't think that, that would be so difficult to do.
But if his reasons seem more like excuses, or he puts them off or gets mad, he's probably seeing more than one person..and the only reason he comes back around to call you, is to check up on you to make sure you haven't strayed.
I would suggest you tell him that if he really likes you and wants something more than to play phone tag with you, he show more of a commitment. He doesn't have to put a ring on your finger right here and now, but a phone call a day would be a good start.
Otherwise, move on and save yourself any more headache or heartache.
2007-11-01 09:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no no no ma you are right you don't need that. He should be calling you. And it should be you the one playing hard to get not him. He should be the one calling you and asking you to chill if he was interested. No girl I mean talk to him and stuff but DON"T prohibit yourself from doing your own thing and meeting people. He's the one that is stringing you along and it shouldn't be like that. If he wants you then he will get his act together. Til then girl let it go. And he shouldn't be getting mad when you tell him why doesn't he call. That right there not a good sign.. That's why I'm telling you not to stress it. Go do your thing. And if he wants to come around then good. But if he doesn't shape up then forget him.
Sorry for being blunt but i don't like to see girls be naive and get hurt when they have the chance to save them self the headache. But then again even though we get advice we end up doing our own thing. Just be careful and think things through to make the right decision for yourself. And remember everything has a consequence you might decide to do something and at the end you repent but you can't do anything about it at that time.
=)
2007-11-01 16:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see ANY reason to think there's someone else. But you're not even really going out? Guys are like that. We don't call. It's because we just don't talk as much as women do. Women place a lot more value in conversation than men do. Men place more value in Doing things together than women do. It's how we differ. I think you are at a standstill right now, and you can drop it, or go make it happen. Go do stuff with him. That's our version of talking.
2007-11-01 16:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just start doing my own thing and if you have a minute and want to talk then call if not and you can find other things to do people to see bye bye dude. a relationship is 50/50 and how you gonna get one if he isnt even wanting to contribute on a phone call once a day?
2007-11-01 16:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by CantonMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got it right when you said if he really likes you, he'd be pursuing you more aggressively. What is happening right now is working for him, so don't expect a change. It's obviously not working for you so now's the time to get moving!
2007-11-01 16:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has other activities going on and they may include another female. If he was interested, he'd show it. Move on.
2007-11-01 16:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go
Shoe
Hit the bricks
Fly
Scadadle
Pound the pavement
Leave
Hit the road
See Ya
Bye
Shalom
Adios
2007-11-01 16:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MDM,Sweety girls do not wait on guys, I may sound old fashioned but it it guys that should wait for the girls to honer us with their company !
2007-11-01 16:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on till he gets his act togethor then he'l realize what he went wrong in
2007-11-01 16:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes trying to play hard to get...just call him all the time, it doesnt matter who callls who
2007-11-01 16:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by moneymike89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋