Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

My husband cheated on me. I can't get over it but, I cn't stop loving him and doing things for him. He saved my life 6 years ago but, now it feels like he is killing my inside. I think I love him because he saved me but, I really need to stop loving him. So, how does that happen because I really need to move on without him in my life.

2007-11-01 07:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And I really don't to let go and have absolutly zero respect for the marriage he is in,at the end of the day im 89% sure he will be mine...Is this wrong? I know I love him

2007-11-01 07:58:00 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm heading to phoenix and my boy friend lives in alabama.. we're both in school getting our bachelors degree.. we've trying to make the best of the long distance but, it's driving me crazy.... i seriously want to be with him .
but the program i'm going to school for...i think in the south doesn't has better a program .then the art insistute of phoenix? help me out!!!

2007-11-01 07:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by tyra 2 in Weddings

2007-11-01 07:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Brown Eyed Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

How can i get my freind to take his shirt off? I m really good freinds with this boy and i dont want to ruin our freind ship by asking him to take it off, so can you think of any ways i can get him to take it off, we are 15. Reasking

2007-11-01 07:56:52 · 21 answers · asked by Matt Macey 1 in Friends

ok my friends brother gave me a doller for lunch but his sister (my friend) got all mad and said that she does not want me or him to talk to her.. but here i live with them and me and her brother are dating and she has beeen getting mad when i get something from him or if we are talking and she is trying to say something and if we dont let her talk on his cell phone to her boy friend she gets all mad and makes me and her go to bed.. and see this she sees her boyfriend all day at school and her brother dose not go to our school anymore.. so i am really mad at her for being a beach to me and him...we are stsrting to fight a little becuse she is being in our way and alwas try to make us brack up but we dont because we love each other..

2007-11-01 07:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok wat does teabaggin me? like if i guy says it to u or someone?

2007-11-01 07:53:33 · 4 answers · asked by candy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

My divorce was final in Feb.2007 I settled with split custody.
He has not paid any child support since 2005 when it was issued. I am scared to press it because of how he is. He was abusive during our marriage in every way even after. I ended up with both children in 2006 because he treid to kill himself in front of our 11 yr old. Right now his own mother is helping me support the kids but we are all scared to make him mad because of what he could do if he gets angry. He was diagnosed with bi-polar disorder and is schizophrenic. He is on medication but has not been taking it. My girls are tired of all of this too but do not want to hurt his feelings. The family is scared to do anything to make him mad. How do we get him to be a real father and support his kids and for me to get full custody without causing a major breakdown.

2007-11-01 07:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by andream034 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been married for four years and have 2 children. He has lost about 5 jobs since we have been married and all for the same reasons. About 2 days to a week into the job he starts singing the same song--"My boss is intimidated by me becuz i know more, or " the way they do things is backwards, my way is better", or " i'm bored"..he never quits, but always gives the employer a reason to fire him. If he doesnt like the job, he wont stay. I have taken care of the family since we have been together and have grown tired. I tried explaining to him that he needs to swallow his pride and work for the sake of me and the kids but he wont listen. Im tired. We have a mortgage and other bills that are way too much for me to do by myself. I wont to just stop and let it all fall apart....how else can i get him to understand that i am sick and tired of this....is there any hope?..

2007-11-01 07:50:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok ladies, we all spend a good chunk of our time on here giving each other advice LOL.

So, what I want to know is:

1) Where are you from?
2) What do you do?
3) What's your favorite color?

I'm Kiki, I'm from California and currently a student. I absolutely adore the color purple :P

2007-11-01 07:49:57 · 43 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

2007-11-01 07:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Daughter is 22 and will graduate from university this spring with Arts degree and has said has no intention of getting a job after has made a wedding budget for 60 guests with a budget of 14K that includes a 4K honeymoon to take place in August of 2008.

Daughter and fiance (who is architect) have already put down 1K on deposits and say that is their contribution. His family said they will contribute 5K. Her mother will be contributing nothing (says can't afford to). She expects Dad, who she has not spoken to in 4 years until she called to announce the engagment and relay the costs, to pay the rest. Wedding will be held 1200 miles return trip from where Dad lives and he will also incur travel and accomodation costs (approximately 1K). Dad can barely afford the travel/accomodation costs. Dad feels if he does pay his daughter will not speak to him again and he will be critized by his family and her mother's family.

What is Dad to do about daughters wedding he can't afford?

2007-11-01 07:47:20 · 43 answers · asked by laurel2006 1 in Weddings

this is regard to my wifes boobs. she looks pretty nd has nice soft boobs. she likes to hav an upliftment for a nice showoff while in office with many male colleagues. even i didnt discourage. so we went to a cosmotologist. before me he (middle aged) measured her breast nd tummy with a tape nd asked her to remove the top. with little shy..having a bra..she opened showing the laced bra nd he started checking up the softness from sides. even the nipples r quite visible. after a while he asked her to come into the checkup room nd i waited outside. after we came home she told that the cosmo asked her to open her bra so that he can massage the boobs. she did it. next visit when i asked abt the issue,,, he then called me into check up room nd leart me how to massage her boobs (he massaging one nd asking me to learn on the other). when i observed her........she was really enjoying the situation. now she wants to visit for a massge every week for a better boobs. what we did is correct?

2007-11-01 07:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by popular 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean like im 5ft 6ish and i am a bit taller than some girls in my school

2007-11-01 07:43:54 · 34 answers · asked by Junior_asd 1 in Singles & Dating

without someone getting jealous

2007-11-01 07:42:25 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have read several questions today that seek to discuss the effects of cheating. The popular response is "who am I to judge?"

Is eliminating that person from your life judging?

2007-11-01 07:41:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding in San Antonio, TX is only 7 months away and I have not yet picked out a reception site. We really would like to have our reception at a restaurant that has a private room, a dance floor, a sound system (for us to play music) AND serves vegetarian food. The sound system part is negotiable, because we can always rent that equipment, but it's extremely difficult for us to plan this wedding while not living in San Antonio (we are both students at UT Austin). What we do need is a list of suitable places so that when we DO go to San Antonio we can just easily visit the places on the list and pick one.

So, basically I have two questions. First, do you have suggestions for a reception place in San Antonio that meets my criteria? Second, how many months in advance should we reserve the reception site? And when should we meet with a cake baker?

2007-11-01 07:40:52 · 2 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Weddings

well we made it a whole year and i suck at buying gifts i need sugestions from someone. i would prefer woman to answer

2007-11-01 07:40:34 · 20 answers · asked by Azz 2 in Singles & Dating

my favorite cousin in the world is married to this guy who drinka alot and god knows what else he does well she is absoultely gorgeous shes dominican but really white with curly blonde hair and the sweetest green eyes and has a huge ***...like guys would kill for her plus shes a sweet heart whos up for anything and loves to have fun. she was 5 months pregnant and her husband beat her so bad she lost the baby.i feel so sad.i havent spoken to her becasue i heard it through thhe grapevine and dont know what to say.......i just want so much better for her but i guess she has to want ot forherself all her life her parents everyone has treated her like crap when will it all end for her. shes a sweet heart who wouldnt hurt a fly i love her so much

2007-11-01 07:39:29 · 36 answers · asked by love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having my wedding outdoor near a large lake in Michigan. The area that I come out of before the ceremony location is in view of the groom but from a large distance away. Has anyone seen or hear of a "shield" of some sort to cover up the bride until she gets closer to the end of the isle?

2007-11-01 07:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by lilfrisco 2 in Weddings

What age gaps are acceptable? Whats the biggest difference in age you have seen among married couples?

2007-11-01 07:34:09 · 12 answers · asked by Peter T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-01 07:33:37 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have 3 or 4 overdraft charges a month and before I was never overdrafted. This angers me but if I say anything to him he gets very defensive and I know longer trust what he says. What should I do??

2007-11-01 07:33:36 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 07:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive had this guy friend for over a year but I moved to another state and we've kept in contact. Recently I visited him and we kissed but never talked about our feelings (as I had to head back home). Then he contacted me and I invited him to visit me. He said he'd love to once he gets some free time (he's a huge study load). Last conversation he asked how long I'm going to be around (as i'm thinking of travelling). Told him at least a few mths so he said maybe at next vacation he will visit but he's thinking of going to his parents instead (who live in another country). I told him ok & then sort of joking said that I wont invite him again! He got the joke & laughed. This is wrecking my head though. I know family is important but I feel I'm wasting my time. What do you think? Also, I'm the one who is now saying 'hi' on chat & we only talk once a wk or so. Maybe its that its so long distance its difficult. we're both single without kids. I'm much older too.

2007-11-01 07:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where r woman's hot spots for being turned on?

2007-11-01 07:27:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 07:22:17 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And you were really attracted to this person.

2007-11-01 07:21:22 · 45 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 07:20:00 · 33 answers · asked by Susan m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So, today I will be moving into an apartment with my long time friend. My roommate is currently at the apartment and I will go there after work.

Anyways, when we first viewed the model we decided that she would get the room with the bathroom inside it and I would take the other room and the hallway bathroom.

Well, our apartment is a little different than the model. The bathroom inside her bedroom is smaller and the closet is also smaller in her room where as my bathroom is bigger and so is my closet.

Now she wants my room. The agreement was that she got the room WITH the bathroom, not that she gets the room with the BIGGER bathroom. And she is also saying that all of her clothes won't fit in her closet while I have tons of books and sewing and knitting supplies that I will need to store in my closet along with my clothes.

Am I wrong to stand my ground and keep my room and bathroom? Or should I let her have my room....? Help please?! I'm leaving in an hour! :x

2007-11-01 07:19:05 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Cuddlefish 2 in Friends