ok my friends brother gave me a doller for lunch but his sister (my friend) got all mad and said that she does not want me or him to talk to her.. but here i live with them and me and her brother are dating and she has beeen getting mad when i get something from him or if we are talking and she is trying to say something and if we dont let her talk on his cell phone to her boy friend she gets all mad and makes me and her go to bed.. and see this she sees her boyfriend all day at school and her brother dose not go to our school anymore.. so i am really mad at her for being a beach to me and him...we are stsrting to fight a little becuse she is being in our way and alwas try to make us brack up but we dont because we love each other..
2007-11-01 07:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..... what can I say I have been there done that. This happened to me also. Her and I were best friends and I knew her brother before I met her and him and I started getting close and things just happened from there. I live with them and she just kept saying stuff and now we are getting married. This is an immature way of your friend to act. Just try a little harder to include her in things and listen to her also. Sit down and talk to her and tell her how much this is bothering you. Without talking she probably does not realize what she is doing. You have to let her know that you love her but that her brother makes you happy and that you love him. Try to make her understand how that would make her feel if she was in your shoes. It also has to do with a lot of jealousy problems she thinks that you are taking away her brother and that he is taking you away from her. Just let her know that you will never get between their relationship and that you will always be there for her when she needs you. Trust me the best way to do is talk. Also tell her brother to not forget that she around because I am sure that will help. Good luck.
2007-11-01 08:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by bnm0044 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused. How old are you guys? I have a problem with how young you guys sound. How can someone make you go to bed? And what school are we talking about .. high? OK, now that that is out of the way, know this, usually, if you date a friends sibling, there is going to be some jealousy. I just got out of this situation and because she could not handle it, it has caused permanent damage to our relationship and we are good and grown ! But your friend is feeling left out. She wants you to herself and she wants her brother to herself. She is being selfish because i will all but guarantee you she would not even pay him any attention if he was not dating you. Since you guys live together, the only thing i can tell you to do is to try to spend more time with her. Try to include her as much as you can but there is no promise that this will resolve anything between you. Even if you and your boyfriend break up, you may have to realize that things will never be the same OR try to be adults and move past this.
2007-11-01 15:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sweets I'm really sorry for your friend being so uptight about that. what i think you should do is... do you have another place to live? or just tell her that its not fair, she should understand that if your in love there is no Way she can step in. just ignore her when she is being a *****. and when she says something while you and your boyfriend are talking just ignore her and laugh at her lol.
like honestly she just doing it cuz she knows its getting to you. after awhile she will understand you wont care anymore. and when she wants you to go to bed? don't go! shes not your mother! you are your own person. tell her no and that your not tired and walk away!
take charge of yourself. don't let anyone else control your emotions kk :)
<3 michelle
2007-11-01 15:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~Lovin~My~Family~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Siblings are always a hard problem
you should solve it with her first ...
it seems she is a self centerd person, she thinks that the world revolve aroudn her..
we cant relly give real advices unless we know that kid.. but
i think if you take this relationship seriousely and 1 day u might marry the guy .. then you will have to get that girl on your side ...
2007-11-01 14:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a spoilt brat. my dogs has more cooth than that and by the way, why are you living with her ? she tells you when its bed time? babe i have enemy's that are nicer you do need that in your life growing up is hard enough without having a bratty friend , is it possible to exclude her from your life ?she doesn't want you to talk to her DONT.
2007-11-01 15:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by b.johne k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spell check sweetie...please! She's being protective of her brother, she doesn't want him to get hurt, maybe she knows the way you are with guys and feels you're not worthy of being with him.
2007-11-01 14:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pharm tech 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to pay more attention in school because you grammer is horrible. Tellyour friend to back off, you have every right to talk to your boyfriend just like her.
2007-11-01 15:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by JDS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so young that somebody can make you go to bed...you are too young to be living with a boy.
2007-11-01 14:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ THAT GIRL ♠ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if your problems are beyond any realistic solution.
I'd consider becoming a Nun.
2007-11-01 15:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by mark623112 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is suffering from Sisterly jealousy. Trying to protect him. Just continued along as you are. It is your lives.
2007-11-01 14:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋