And you were really attracted to this person.
2007-11-01 07:21:22 · 45 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, that's dirt-bag.
2007-11-01 07:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by trick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as "nobody would ever find out". Someone always finds out. One of you would do or say something that would cause someone to find out.
Besides, why do you want to cheat? Don't tell me that your marraige is fine, because if it was you'd never be tempted to cheat. It doesn't matter how good or how bad your marraige is, there is never an excuse to cheat. If you want to sleep with this person so badly, divorce your spouse. Don't want to divorce your spouse? Then I guess that you aren't as attracted to this person as you thought you were. (And when your spouse found out your marraige would be over anyway.)
2007-11-01 07:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because cheating is what a dog does. I never understand people that cheat and are married. If they can't be faithful then why take vows saying "they'll forsake all others"....and that old excuse. "Oh I had to marry her cause she was pregnant with my child" or " We got married to young" . Just excuses for a married person to cheat. CHEATING IS WRONG no matter how you look at it. There is no excuse....nor is it acceptable. If one is having marital problems then talk to their spouse about it. If it can't be remedied then get a divorce and move on. Cheating is just sleezy and although you might get away with doing it and no one finds out. The person that cheats is still a DOG.
2007-11-01 07:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never, what's the point of getting married if you're just going to cheat on your spouse? Keep them as a friend with benefits if you're going to go out and have sex with whoever happens to catch your eye.
2007-11-01 07:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shadow,
I would NEVER Cheat on my wife at any time for any reason and with any person no matter who she is. I am a man of GOD and I believe that it is sin. I also made a vow to her that she would be my one and only and she is. Have a great week. By the way, I would know and that would be enough!
Thanks,
Eds
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2007-11-01 07:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Eds 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on your relationship you have ith your spouse.
Me personally, am not married.But I would hope that when I am I would not WANT to cheat on my husband. I would not get married if I still had a feeling of wanting to cheat.
So it really depends on your relationship.
2007-11-01 07:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by LNP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They always find out!
But since you are speaking hypothetically! Why not go all out and say if Cindy Crawford, Jennifer Aniston, and 10 other hot celebrities (of you choosing) wanted to sleep with you and NO one would find out would you do it!
HECK YES, but we all know it will not happen!
2007-11-01 07:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because I would know and that's all that matters AND you know that no matter what, sooner or later someone else will find out, and although your spouse/partner may be the last to know, they WILL!
2007-11-01 07:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sirena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it...Everyone eventually meets someone who makes them "think" about it. But we have to realistically look at what would happen and what repercussions there would be to an act like that. I can't answer for men as the reasons that they do what they do are different than most women's reasons. For women cheating is emotional as that is the need that most often is not being met in their lives. I wish men understood how closely tied emotion is to sex for women. We need so much more than the physical act in our lives. Sigh.......as for the answer to your question..No I won't cheat even if he would never know. I would know and I love him too much to do that kind of thing to him. Even if some of my needs aren't being met. I am stronger and mentally larger than the sum of the parts of my physical being. I am the one in control of ME.....
2007-11-01 08:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I would not because I took vows that I honestly believe in. I believe in the sanctity of marriage and believe it is forever. I don't put myself in a position to get attracted to other men.
Good Luck
2007-11-01 07:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thought would cross my mind (only b/c nobody would know) but i know i can not deal with a guilty conscience. So that's a negative captain.
2007-11-01 07:26:21 · answer #11 · answered by stayc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋