2007-11-01 07:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Brown Eyed Chica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the right person and delay physical touch til you are married.
That is the best gift.
If he can know that you are a person with a good character.
That you RESPECT your body so he can respect you.
never go with a guy that asks for your body.
Aside from that, a good gift is to be a good friend, save that money and spend it on helping people who are in need.
if the guy cant appreciate you having a good character, he doesnt appreciate you for who you are but rather what he can get from you.. starts with items, goes up to sex.
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I wrote down what I think about relationships.
Frankly I don't support dating, rather be friends as long as you can.
The problem is.
because people don't know love.
Love is patient and kind;
love does not envy or boast;
it is not arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 corinthians 13
Most peoples version of love is completely opposite of what is on that list.
Just write it down for yourself and see how it sounds.
Love is impatient, unkind
--I want a kiss- i dont want to get married lets have sex now
you dont love me if you make me wait
its envious and boastful
--why cant you buy me stuff like that guy, why cant you be like a supermodel, why cant you be more like this or that,
-- look how hot I am, look how cool my car is, it cost me 75 grand, I am smarter than everyone, I can afford expensive gifts and dates blah blah blah.
arrogant and rude---
insists on its own way
irritable and resentful
rejoices in wrongdoing--- i gave him a piece of my mind.- he deserved what was coming. - thats what you get for doing this ==that
does this shoe look good?- no- why you piece of @4%@34^#34
does not bear anything
i cant stand this anymore, im dumping you
does not trust anyone
expects everyone to make a mistake
does not endure anything.
-you said one little thing that I don't like, ITS OVER!
You can't practice long term commitment in a series of short term relationships. If you want to practice what married life is going to be.
WORK WORK WORK, and when you can't work anymore, try to make someone elses day and make them happy.
Thats what you will be doing when you are married.
Work Work Work.
Then get home and love your spouse and children.
if you can't even do that to your parents, you have no business getting married at all.
don't even waste peoples time by trying to get a date if you cant even build good honest friendships.
with that being said.
it is really more of a question if you really love a person.
are you patient, kind etc.... use that as a self test.
as for the person, you need to learn to appreciate people as friends before you can appreciate them as a husband.
try your best more on becoming the right person rather than trying to find the right person.
Soon enough the person who likes you and really loves you will be the only one left.
typically people get impatient and look somewhere else.
If it is truly love then why look somewhere else right?
unless all that person is interested in is entertainment and physical intimacy.. dates kissing and sex. just because they are simply lonely or they don't find themselves capable of being able to stay happy.
truth is, if you can't be happy with yourself, you shouldnt bring in more people into your MISERY.
you are responsible for that person that you bring into your life.
are you bringing them in to make you happy or because you are happy and you want to share that happiness.
and are you helping that person if they can't learn to be happy themselves.. you need to allow them to catch their own fish as Jesus said.
dont give them a fish but teach them how to catch their own fish.
so if they can't be happy with who they are, then you shouldnt be feeding them happiness from your own self but rather guide them on what they need to be happy.
if you dont kow how to do that then you should ask yourself if you are happy and how you can be happy..
love others, there are plenty of people in the world that you can help even with minimum wage here in america...
so from there just think of how many people you can save.
and is that worth more than that Ipod that you are saving up for? or that cellphone? that new shoe and those jeans you wanted? maybe a new car?
think about it. what kind of a person would ignore another dying human being if they could have done something about it.
well that is what most of america is doing.. they just chose to close their eyes to those dying people in other countries.
you can feed a family of about 5 people with around 150 dollars.. FOR A YEAR.
thats usually around 10% of people's average income. depending on your income just try to start with 5% 10% then step up based on your income.
if you can find another person with as much character as that to put strangers before himself, then you are one step closer to finding the right person...
and you can easily trust this person knowing that this person will not put himself before you. by seeing that he puts strangers before his own desires.
Grace and Peace.
In Christ Yeshua.
2007-11-01 08:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by bagsy84 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A funky 'Cushtie,' they're those squishy nylon cushion that come in different shapes and colours. You could get him a heart shaped one.
2007-11-01 15:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty green bud
2007-11-01 15:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by flossymae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe suck on him, he would love that
2007-11-01 15:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋