we have been together for 5 months, and agreed to be exclusive. I found out he was setting up a meeting with another girl on the internet so I broke up with him immediately. He said he truely loves me and did want a life with me and he didnt plan to cheat on me, he was concerned our relationship may not last long(several reasons). He wouldnt purse another relationship nor had sex while we were together. He said still what he did was wrong and he was sorry for hurting me. He didnt ask me to take him back but took down his profile and said he was going to be single for a while and do some serious self-evaluation.
today I found out Im pregnant, I havent told him yet.
do you feel think he said is sincere? should I keep this child? Im 26, he is 35
2007-11-01 08:41:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats what you get for having sex out of marriage, women should learn to keep their legs closed,
if you have an abortion that would be the cruelest thing a woman could ever do, its not this baby's fault that he/she is forming inside you. dont blame the baby for mistakes you and this pig made.
if youre mother was in the same situation would you want her to just throw your life away by abortion?
2007-11-01 08:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would make the decision about keeping the baby assuming he won't be in your life. If you want the baby, you better be prepared to raise it on your own because this guy does not sound trustworthy.
He has a right to know about the baby IF you decide to keep it.
2007-11-01 08:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by DeeGee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want the baby and can take care of it without his help then keep the baby. But I would not think he is going to be there for you and the baby or just for the baby. If you do keep the baby tell him. Just let him know that you will be doing this own your own.
2007-11-01 08:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to grow up and stop acting like he's in High School but you should tell him that your pregnant and if he does not want to comply with your needs than you two should rally sit down and REALLY TALK.
2007-11-01 08:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by angelinheavan85 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should tell him that your pregnate and what you feel for him but you should also tell him that it hurted you to know that he was seting up those meting, i have experienced this before with my boyfriend. im not pregnate and wasnt then but i found out that after 5 months into our relationship he was setting up meeting with this named brenda and well i didnt break up with him because he never really saw her you know but it hurted me. so i feel you. but you should keep the baby because the baby has nothing to do with how his/her dad acts.
2007-11-01 08:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor little baby.
I feel so sorry for the innocent life at the mercy of all this.
2007-11-01 08:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance... please dont do any stupid that may hurt ur baby... adoption and abortion isnt the choices for this.. have mercy to ur baby... raise the baby with or w/o a father
2007-11-01 11:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the baby. and talk it out with the guy.
2007-11-03 21:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by msweetangelsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up for adoption.
2007-11-01 08:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't keep the child, and I would forget about the guy. He's only "sorry" because he got caught.
2007-11-01 08:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋