Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

But I can not find similar themed bridesmaids dresses!! Please help

2007-11-01 05:12:53 · 12 answers · asked by honeybabe 1 in Weddings

her mother is not around. her father and mother are not in a relationship with each other. they have other significant others, obvioulsy. the 12 year old often embraces her father for a long period of time. but then she always says NO to her father, and he lets her get away with murder. she is quite developed for her age as well. he allows her to wear revealing clothes as well. i am just so confused. growing up, i did not have a very close relationship with my father, i mean i love him, but we never acted liked this. is this normal?

2007-11-01 05:12:03 · 11 answers · asked by ♥jessica♥♥ 2 in Family

But every time I hit redial on his phone his wifes # is on his phone.We each have our own homes.l feel like he's living a double life.If I am right I want to end the relationship.I am not looking for marriage but need trust.I hate to accuse if I am wrong.Any ideas?

2007-11-01 05:11:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Gotten into a fight with your significant other over something stupid and blew up about it and said some stuff you didnt mean

2007-11-01 05:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

You have 3 kids 2 in schooll till 2:30pm
1 baby 9 months (boy)
you have cleaning women once a week.
you have money to spend.
Does my wife have the right to complain?

2007-11-01 05:05:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i need help writing some roses are red poems....i want them to be cute...anyone plz....

2007-11-01 05:04:00 · 9 answers · asked by Cassie G 1 in Singles & Dating

I need all the advice I can get on a wedding elsewhere. I am thinking more of an island. I would love to hear from someone who has experienced one.

2007-11-01 05:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy H 2 in Weddings

Ok so my Matron trying to plan my shower. She found a resonable price and my mom wanted it there. But my maid said she doesn't want it there because that is where her reception for her wedding was suppose to be there. She got engaged then broke it off. I still don't know why. Also all four girls agreed on a dress and she disagreed. Also bacherlotte she wants to do the winieries that is what I wanted to do then go to dinner and then go out clubbing to the same old bar we always go to. Having a limo from 9 am till midnight. I know some of the girls can not afford this what do I tell her. ALso she wants to invite girls from her work I have never met. Is she re-living her wedding through me. She is making everything really difficult and pissing everyone off??

2007-11-01 05:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

My husband confessed his worst fear to me, he said he has phobia towards certain type of women, after they had baby, they doubled their size and won't be able to keep up with their fashion sense, to sum it up, his worst fear is "housewives"

2007-11-01 05:02:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a bit of a dilema. My wife and I were briefly divorced a couple years ago before getting re-married. While we were apart, she got pregnant, but we were remarried long before he was born. I was there thru most of the pregnancy and actually the one who got to "catch him" in the delivery room when he was born. My name is on the birth certificate as the father, and since i am disabled and am a stay at home dad, I have spent every moment of his life with him and he is a big daddy's boy. He is my son and i would fight anyone who says different. My problem is that I live very clode to my parents and spend alot of time there helping my mother because my dad is dying, and he doesn't have much longer. I don't know if its because my son isn't bioligically mine, or what, but he shows a lot of partiallity to my other two kids.. It has gotten to the point that it really upsets me. My dad sees thati'm upset and doesnt understand why? I don't want to upset him in his condition. How do I deal?

2007-11-01 05:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Shadow 2 in Family

2007-11-01 05:01:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if your wife wanted to go with you to work, or school,
Why would you tell your wife that you wished that you never had a baby with her? And that she screwed your life up?

2007-11-01 04:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by .☆She Wolf☆. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 04:59:33 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 04:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by Tasha 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so horrible. my grandfather is in the hospital after having a mini stroke. now he cant eat anymore. he has to be fed through a tube. he refuses cause hes very stubborn and even tho he is 89 he doesnt want to be a cripple. my mom has been breaking down. we have been taking care of my mentally ill grandmother since my grandfather has been in the hospital. she has been a thorn in my mothers side. my mom is stressing out horribly. she woke up this morning crying and saying that my grandfather had been telling her to let him die. he has been snapping at her when she is not there. and when she is hes asleep. she keeps crying. she snaps at me a lot cause she is stressed. i have been depressed to begin with but this is driving me over the edge. same with my mom but she is probably in worse condition than me. she has no one helping her. she has no siblings and she is divorced. i feel like i am in complete darkness. my body is aching so much. i have no break.

2007-11-01 04:58:30 · 3 answers · asked by self-appointed queen of bs 5 in Family

I met this lovely guy and we had loads in common and even shared a few spooky telephatic moments! He said he felt like he'd found someone special and i felt the same! Then his parents found 'uncensored' photo's of him with his ex and they went ballistic. He said he couldnt carry on till he'd sorted it out. I was gutted! Thought he might've been playing me but then he emailed me couple of days ago and said his made him promise that he wont ever go out with another girl or do anything with her again!! And he said he had no choice but to agree and he cant go behind their backs! He said he'd like to make up for 'abondaning me' and we could go for drink (as were strict muslims we not even allowed to go out with each other) so he has to listen to his dad. I think we couldve really gone far and beyond..should i just leave him or persue it??

2007-11-01 04:54:39 · 1 answers · asked by Bluebell 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you explain your husband of 2 years lose interest in you? I mean intimate, physical interest. We're seeing a therapist who has asked him if he's gay (in front of me), and I've asked him the same. Also believe he's not cheating. He denies anything. He can go months without any sex. He's a touchy person. He told me once that holding hands was just fine for him - I said it wasn't for me. So our lives are like roommates and sharing household expenses. I sleep with a log next to me. I planned a romantic getaway at a B&B, and he was focused on trekking the town, and was tired and fell asleep by the time we got back. He is taking some meds for mild depression and low testosterone - but he put both all off til I asked him to do something. Is this possible or am I in a non-human relationship? Do you think he knows what's going on and doesn't tell me? I'm becoming numb too, and it's not healthy. There's no emotion. It wasn't like this when we were dating.

2007-11-01 04:52:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you think (and how would you feel) if some random person just comes up to you, offers his hand, and introduces himself to you?

2007-11-01 04:50:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

5 years ago I called 911 when my 9 y.o. daughter told me what happened between her and my then husband. He was arrested but we left the country to avoid all the stress. He was released from jail. We divorsed.
I came to an understanding that he just touched her inapropriately. But now I found out that she thinks he actually raped her and feels that I did not defend her enough and she lost her trust in me. I don't know were to find help.

2007-11-01 04:50:22 · 24 answers · asked by NONE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do so many people disagree with the fact that my boyfriend and I want to have a baby but we don't want to get married. We have been together for five years as of 10/23/07 and we both agree on this. We love each other and agree that we will be together just like we were married, we just don't want to be married. Why is it so important to everyone else? I can still give my baby the last name of his father.

2007-11-01 04:50:12 · 21 answers · asked by Grants a tractor luvr! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i loved him and he loved me too

2007-11-01 04:46:45 · 65 answers · asked by isebella m 1 in Singles & Dating

How can we survive? we had to leave our apartment because of a health issue, the landlord will not give us back our security; I just lost my baby and now we are now living out of boxes with my parents in an apartment. We got married in July, have no money, no home and I don't know how we are going to make it through all this. I'm devestated, heart broken, and terrified. I just don't know what to do now without the security money for a new place. We are both beyond miserable. Anyone ever been through anything like this? did your marriage survive it? any advice?

2007-11-01 04:42:17 · 22 answers · asked by This Jersey Girl ♥♥♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems to me all these stay at home moms and part time working moms should be happy they have a man to support them and they should stop complaining.

2007-11-01 04:39:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and find that their mind wonders.....

2007-11-01 04:39:10 · 5 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my bf so much and want no one else but him. I am ready to get married and want it more than anything... i dont want a huge wedding oor anything , just going to a quiet place with parents and a few friends would be great with me and move into our own house and be a happily married couple is exactly what i want. But he says he isnt ready for marriage, he is 23. And he has a great job, a farmer, and he has the money. So why is he not ready? He says he does want to marry me and i am the only girl for him, but yet not ready for marriage? I will wait for him, but how do i handle it ? i am not a patient person, and sometimes my anger gets the best of me with this situation. Help ! Any ideas? And dont say mention moving in with him, cuz i am the kinda person who wants to be married before moving in with him.

2007-11-01 04:38:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my brother inlaw has been living with us for over a year , we own our house , has he got any wright`s to my and my husbands property by law to stay on if i wont him to leave or if any think happend to any one or both of us ,has he got wright`s, were do i stand .

2007-11-01 04:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by star 3 in Family

I think ladies are smarter than men totally! What is your opinion? Although I am a lady!

2007-11-01 04:36:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my cousin has a boyfriend, and there completely in love, (supposedly). But I have a feeling that her boyfriend likes me. Because he is calling me sweety, and grabbing my leg, and when he gets mad at me he ignores me. But I like him to. I just dont want to tell him how I feel for fear of being rejected. Recently I have been ignoring him, and he ignores me to, so isnt weird that he's ignoring me if he doesnt like me? In other words...if you dont feel something for someone, you wouldnt really care if the person isnt talking to you or not, but not with him. He gives my firwnds that I"m hanging around with some very dirty looks, like if he was jealous or something. So I need some help...Isnt it weird?

2007-11-01 04:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some date ideas that don't involve money? My bf is having some issues with his job so he's really tight for money. What are some fun things we can do (besides watch movies), that don't involve alot of money??

And I live in Canada so the beach isn't an option :P

2007-11-01 04:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I took my daughter trick or treating. My husband gets out at about 6-6:30pm. He calls me around 7pm asking where I was. I told him on the westside trick or treating. He asked with whom I was with. I told him my sister. He then immmediately threw a fit and said yeah right your somewhere else. Your probably flirting around. I got mad and said don't start and he hung up. I call him back around 8:30pm to let him know I was going home. His cell phone was off. I called his parents house because he said he would be there for a bit. My father in law answered and said he doesn't know if he's here cuz he just got in and he'll call me back. I didn't bother to call him nor did my husband bother to call me. It's 9pm and I fall asleep. I am awakened at 12something pm by my husband climbing into bed. I ask where he was...he said at his moms. I didn't want to fight so I just fall back to sleep. This morning we talk about it and he said he was at his moms and he fell asleep & came back home.

2007-11-01 04:33:26 · 25 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Family