Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

my ex works at a bar ( thats why he is my ex ) i went there
last sat night halloween party.. got really drunk and told his
boss the owner who i know well. that i think he did drugs
he is really mad at me i found out and so i sent a text msg
saying how sorry i was also sent one to his boss
NO REPLY BACK but he did send a msg to my friend saying
he accepts my apology is that good enough?
i want him to send one to me not to my friend..
did i do the right thing?

2007-11-01 04:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by flyermikey 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont mind the fact that i am 3,000 miles away from CA where we met. I wanted to get out. But now i am looking for work and cant move out of an apt. if i have to. My bf is a sweet and trustworthy guy. and i know i used to love him. but things are different. He doesnt know how to communicate. When something is wrong he just shuts off and acts like I'm not there...even when the problem isnt caused by me...and even worse-when I'm the one who is upset. He doesnt know what to do to make me feel better...he just chooses to ignore it. Even when things ARE going well, we are at the point, where there isnt anything to talk about. Or atleast, he doesnt talk about anything. It is a little depressing and I don't know what to do. Look for work first and then when i do move out? I am currently living in Illinois near chicago.

2007-11-01 04:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 04:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by LeShonda S 1 in Family

why can men be hairy "down there" but women are supposed to be hairless (and like porn stars)??

women: do you feel extreme pressure to be bare and perfect? do you care or not care?

men: what do you expect from a woman? do you expect her to be bare or natural? or do you not even notice or care?

2007-11-01 04:25:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day this was posted on here as NikksAngels qeustion....Little did she know that i had answered her qeustion, she found out and gave me ten points fer best answer. (Ok i have/had a girlfriend and my parents think im straight again. cuz i've dated a couple of boys well my gf moved away to ohio and i live in Pa. she hasnt called or contacted me within like a month and a half. But i still love her with all my heart and i wanna let her know that. She didnt even call or write to tell me happy birthday. so i have no idea wat the hell is going on..) Her qeustion in parenthesis.(My answer: Angel Babi, Heather Love, That Fexi Dark Angel of mine. Hmmm. I said Happy Birthday yesterday in an E-mail. Plus enternet isn't easily accessed at this school. You know I'd neva hurt ya Babi. I'd kill myself first. Your my world, my life. Just remember tho that moving was my fault and I plan on coming home after school. I only have to take 3 semester classes and then I'm out. Home for good.

2007-11-01 04:22:11 · 3 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's husband is coming home from his tour in Iraq in 3 weeks. He asked for a home cooked meal, beer, and lots of sex. She wants to do something else, too. They have a 6 month old so they can't just do anything plus they're roommates of their house are coming back from Iraq to at the same time. Does anyone have any suggestions of what she can do? She already bought lingerie and wants to do a candle light dinner but she wants to do something else and I offered to babysit.

2007-11-01 04:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IE if someone is 30+ and hasn't found mister/Mrs right then there is something wrong with them! or at least that's the presumption most people make!

people don't think "well maybe marriage isn't for them" or " maybe they like there own company", people just expect that everyone should be married, its not a choice, its a thing you do in life!

2007-11-01 04:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is a lot of help and publicity available for abused women but very little for abused men. why is this?

2007-11-01 04:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They were hurtful, controlling and down right mean. Now, I find myself feeling very lonely and unmotivated to do anything. Any suggestions as to how I can recreate the person I use to be and become independent in my activities to enjoy life more on my own. I don't do anything anymore except work, sleep, and answer questions on this site. Need a life!

2007-11-01 04:20:26 · 14 answers · asked by Ally S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Back in the day when I was in school I noticed that almost every single girl we went to middle school and high school with said she'd been raped. When I started college I noticed that the number of girls that had been raped dropped big time. Now that I'm approaching my 30's I've noticed the number of girls that have been raped has gone up again. How can seriously 7 out of 10 girls I've asked today as an experiment have been raped? Is society gotten that bad where if you have a vagina you are going to be raped or am I having my leg pulled?

2007-11-01 04:17:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know im not ugly.. many people told me im not ugly.. but i have problems getting boyfriends!!! and because of that i rlly think im not attractive not pretty and all.. cuz no one likes me =(
i dont really socialize with people.. i need time to warm up to them like after a few more meetings.. is that why i dont have a bf .. or isit because of my looks or personality?

2007-11-01 04:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He really likes me in dark red colors...I've already been married once before, so I guess a white gown wouldn't be necessary...thoughts?

2007-11-01 04:16:35 · 31 answers · asked by Emily D 3 in Weddings

I have a friend whose children I watched for almost two years...she was a single mom and didn't make more than $12/hr so I understood going into it that agreement that she would be a risk. Her children were actually my first kids in the center so I grew rather attached to them. We had an agreement due to the fact that she had a hard time keeping rent/food/etc that she wouldn't have to make her co-payment until the end of the year with her income tax return. The first year, she kept her word and paid the $2500 she owed in co-payments. The second year, she just disappeared. I know this woman is not a scam artist and she's a good person, just in a very difficult situation. She had no support from any family and in alot of ways reminded me of myself. I tried to call her once, just to let her know not to worry about the money, but that I still wanted to see the kids, but she didn't answer and didn't return my call. Do you think she feels guilty and thats why she ran?

2007-11-01 04:16:11 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica B 2 in Family

ok so she is n everything n shes happya bout it., shes 16, no job, will get kicked out, n is dating person her parents hate. i try to be supportive but idk what else i can do. i feel like shes throwing her life away. will she regret having this kid?

2007-11-01 04:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If so, how is your relationship with him now?

My husband is 41. His father was an alcoholic before he was born. He was never home, and when he was home he was mean and hated being a husband and father. He was killed in a bar when my husband was 17. All these years later he still wishes he had him, and thinks things would be different, but his identical twin is 66 and I can say that I don't think anything would be different if he were alive.

Did your father change or do you not see him now, etc.? I always think about Suzanne Somers and how her father was.

2007-11-01 04:12:00 · 10 answers · asked by Teresa 5 in Family

I was a major player 3 years ago... the word commitment would always leave me laughing. Back then I met a guy (Bryce) through work and i was going to play him like the rest. We met up and 5 minutes through our conversation i got a call and i had to leave (it was to see another guy(aaron) which i realllly wanted). Anyway i got heaps and heaps of calls and messages from bryce saying i was so rude etc. etc.
and for the first time i actualy cared. So i pretty much left aaron and scheduled a proper date with bryce.
The things bryce said to me really changed my life... i completely stopped being a player all thanks to him (i owe him for that) Anyway we continued to be friends for a whole 2 and a half years he'd tell me crap about him and his gf and id tell him crap about how boring commitment was lol.
I really looked up to him as if he was my big brother. Then things changed during this year. He always use to talk gentleman like, now he talks trashy and only saw me if i was going to eff him.why did he just change?

2007-11-01 04:11:55 · 26 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 04:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by osho sai 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so down.I just got word that my 82 year old dad is back in the hospital,this time with double pneumonia.I am going to visit him in a little while.

2007-11-01 04:07:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how then hell can i make it up to him ? he has not mentioned anything to me but he's been a bit off.

2007-11-01 04:07:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do when a girl stares at me all day and smiles every eye contact we make...?...we brush hands in the hall way sometimes, and sometimes we flirt by hiting each other ...do u think she likes me?!!

2007-11-01 04:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,so me and my bestfriend were talking about our boyfriends last night, and she ask me does it bother me that my bf didnt finish college?, and i told her no b/c it doesnt matter to me, as long as we are happy and we both have jobs, which we do ,then im fine. im not going to judge him b/c he didnt finish school. He has two jobs and he took a couple of courses here and there. We are fine.
She wants her b/f to have what she has if not more. She has her BA and now she's going for her Masters. I have mines too and I'm going for my Masters also. Am I wierd for thinking like this? Whats your views?

2007-11-01 04:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 in Singles & Dating

I get the idea from my last question that most guys are bad lovers.

2007-11-01 03:59:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its my wedding anniversary today-21 years.Can you beat that?

2007-11-01 03:59:00 · 53 answers · asked by Modbird 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with her, she begged for 2 weeks for me back, I hooked up with another girl and then realize i love my ex. She wont take me back why? I didnt cheat this was after the break and it was a drunken mistake, I know I hurt her by pushing her aside, but I think i deserve a second chance with her?

2007-11-01 03:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone you don't know likes you and tries to subtly force themself onto you and force you into liking them (even though you have no interest in them all and rarely pay attention to this person because you're busy), is it wrong to ignore them?

I mean, if you really like a person why do you expect the other party to come to you and introduce themselves to you, especially if they don't even know you?

And also, isn't it bad enough that this person is trying to subtly force themself onto you even though you don't like this person. Anyone forces themselve onto a person in this manner mostly likely has ulterior motives.

Anyone agree?

2007-11-01 03:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by Earl R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 03:54:02 · 10 answers · asked by non active 2 in Family

some kid yesterday asked me oh your so nice , most of the black guys ai have met are so hood but you seem so white , i cant belive you listen to frank sinatra is this raceist or what wh

you know the funnything is that coments like this allways makes me feel self concious about my identity , i sometimes feel like people view me as less black because of the music i listen to or the things i do it makes feel uncomfortable

2007-11-01 03:53:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what makes a kitty so attractive?

2007-11-01 03:52:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-01 03:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by labo 1 in Singles & Dating

A while a go I told a girl that i really liked her but sadly she said she didn't feel the same way about me. Who could blame her? Now she won't speak to me unless she really needs to, see won't even look at me. I don't care anymore whether she won't go out with me or not cause all i want is for us to be friends. What should i do? Should i tell her that i want to be friends or tell her i never want to speak to her even though i really like her? HELP ME PLEASE!

2007-11-01 03:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating