I broke up with her, she begged for 2 weeks for me back, I hooked up with another girl and then realize i love my ex. She wont take me back why? I didnt cheat this was after the break and it was a drunken mistake, I know I hurt her by pushing her aside, but I think i deserve a second chance with her?
2007-11-01 03:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope, nope, you are in the toilet, dude.
2007-11-01 04:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took you that long to realize your true feelings for her? You screwed up big time. I wouldn't take a man back who did that to me either. You had your chance with her the first time and she even gave you two weeks of opportunity after you ditched her. But you still refused. And then to go and hook up with someone else in the mean time, even though you didn't cheat makes it even easier for her to walk away from you because it shows even more that you don't care. Lesson learned, move on and try not to do this to another girl.
2007-11-01 11:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably trying to hang onto whatever shred of dignity she has left. My boyfriend stopped calling me when I confronted him about something I found on his computer. I begged and pleaded with him for 2 months to take me back, but when I had had enough, I stopped and I cannot see me going back now. I look at it that he had his chance and if he was so cold and unfeeling to not even consider my feelings, then he's not worth my time. I wish I had been as quick about it as your ex girlfiend was...I lost all my dignity over this guy.
2007-11-01 11:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "realize" you love her after having sex with someone else? You should have realized that when she was begging (how sad) to have you back. I don't think you deserve a second chance, sorry. You burned her bad.
2007-11-01 11:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter what you think you "deserve." You are dealing with the consequences of your own actions, which is that your girlfriend decided she couldn't accept what you did after she begged you to get back together. Learn from your mistake and move on.
2007-11-01 11:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Charlie - just because you deem yourself worthy of a second chance does not mean she shares your sentiment. And she doesn't have to. That's the beauty of free-willed people and having the right to choose what you want. You blew your chance and she is moving on without you. You'll find someone else.
2007-11-01 11:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Erin B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you were on a break (Ross in friends anyone?), she feels cheapened by how you were intimate (being drunk is not an excuse in her mind, nor is it a good one regardless) with someone so quickly. You need to either wait for her to get over it (which she may very well not) and start over from scratch, or just live and learn from your mistake.
2007-11-01 11:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by yogurt777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jim,
you cannot blame her with her actions, she was hurt, and maybe who knows untill now she is still hurting. you've hurt her jim. you only realized how much you love a person if you loose her. so now, what you should do is proved to her that you regret the time you broke up with her and tel her that you really love her and that you cannot live without her because shes the only reason why you are still breathing. court her
jim, even if it takes time just for you to have her back into your arms.
email me her if you still need advice, thelove_advicer@yahoo.com
2007-11-01 11:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by loveadvicer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you do! well i guess cause it sounds to me, that you got drunk and met the other woman and did what ever god knows what then sobered up and realized you liked the first one more than the other lady, then she begged for you u turned her down and now you want her. Phhh I would say your screwd but thats not it! umm just let wounds heal and see where that takes you!
2007-11-01 11:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by LeeChavez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have thought about your feelings for her before you pushed her away. after all she did as you say BEG for 2 WEEKS!! it is your loss. Now you try to beg her to take you back. see if that will work. although i would doubt it. she is hurt.
2007-11-01 11:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by jpoveda2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want her you want someone to beg and chase you.
Hope you learned something from this. Maybe the next time you won't take woman for granted. Hope the other girl was worth it.
2007-11-01 11:01:38 · answer #11 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋