i know im not ugly.. many people told me im not ugly.. but i have problems getting boyfriends!!! and because of that i rlly think im not attractive not pretty and all.. cuz no one likes me =(
i dont really socialize with people.. i need time to warm up to them like after a few more meetings.. is that why i dont have a bf .. or isit because of my looks or personality?
2007-11-01 04:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, Amelia. Listen carefully - God made you, right, and if you are good enough for Him you are more than good enough for anyone else!
So let's get rid of those negative thoughts, for starters. The right guy just hasn't come along yet, that's all it is, honestly!
I'm sure you have a lovely warm and sincere personality, and I'm sure you're a good looker too. And always remember, Amelia, that looks are not important: it is the INNER girl who really matters.
Good luck, and God bless!
2007-11-01 04:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by benje111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks only go so far but they do play a role in the opposite sex being attracted to you. Personality says a lot as well. Be confident. Be more sociable. People in general respond better to people who are more open and confident. Not cocky or stuck up. Confidence is what makes the person more than anything. Good luck.
2007-11-01 11:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by coby300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look can be a reason for attracting people but What I could understand is being kind to people and being cheerful and energetic can be more effective than face .
I had an ugly friend but she was so cheerful and kind which could
attract each guy in my class.
You are beautiful enough (As you said.I have not seen you) so try to be more socialize .
Take care
2007-11-01 11:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shinoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not the problem, there are just more guys out there that are looking for women who look like 12 year old boys.
This is becoming a very messed up society.
2007-11-01 11:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dawg Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I have the same problem.
I think we need to gain more of our confidence
and be more active at socializing.
G'luck!
2007-11-01 11:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra S. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? im guessing young. coz finding a bf is not a priority.. the guys will come to you sooner or later.
2007-11-01 11:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by rishi b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so down and out.whether you are pretty or not you will meet your prince charming one day.you are young so don't waste time thinking about bf.it would be better to think about your future on what you wanna do.
2007-11-01 11:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by rootbeer_118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try smiling more when you greet, meet, and talk to people.... a pleasant facial expression is very attractive....when i think about it, those people i know who smile a lot are more attractive than those who don't.
2007-11-01 11:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to a bar and start asking drunk hott guys
2007-11-01 11:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a picture would help ;)
2007-11-01 11:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Wind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋