I like this girl and she know that I do. I'm too afraid to talk to her so I just added her on myspace and comments her sometimes. But she doesn't really respond to it... since I'm too scared to talk to her I talk to my friends about her.. Then one of my friend decided to I'M her and then I felt even more embarrassed cause she knows it was my friend. So I decided to send her a msg explaining the whole situation and I kind of confessed that i was interested in her. The problem now is that she didn't respond to that msg and I never talked to her in person. I really don't know how to approach her.. Help?
2007-11-01 06:46:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just going to have to man up and go get your girl!!! She doesn't want some guy thats scared to talk and have a conversation with her. Chill out boy....face your fear because if you don't you are going to have a lot of lonely nights expecting your boy to be your wing man.
2007-11-01 06:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well basically i'm gonna lay it out on the table without sugar coating it for you, when a girl knows that a guy is interested in her she would either respond or find some way of letting you know that she's interested. So basically this girl is just not that into you. Move on i'm sure there is a girl out there for you somewhere. If you keep pursuing her now after you've already sent that message she's gonna see you as desperate and pathetic and she will avoid you and ignore you for the rest of your life, so dont hurt yourself.....just move on.
2007-11-01 06:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get her to notice u is to go up to her and introduce like the man u r. when u really love someone its takes courage to up to that and if she's that u r telling her how u feel she will know that u a risk taker. why? because even if u know and she's knows that u could get hurt by telling her that, it would be worth it to be with courage so u could feel better. ur problem is not a problem consider it a solutiion and try to convince that u r really interested in her, not whats under her clothes. most of the times letters don't work, it usally takes actions for something to happen. my advice to u is go up to her like u do to ur friends and tell her and what u feel. if she doesn't want to be with u, ask if she would like to be friends. sometimes its best being friends than something more. hence forth ok and learn from this.
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2007-11-01 06:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by josue28002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like confidence. She's probably really turned off to you now because of all these "unconfident" behaviors. I would say walk up to her and explain it, but don't be nervous! Whats the worst that could happen? If it doesn't work out with her, take it as a learning experience and use your new found skills and confidence on a new girl. Who knows, she may even get jealous of your new girl and start wanting you!
2007-11-01 06:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Floffen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.
Don't approach her.
You mentioned several times that she is already aware that you are interested in her. If she was interested back, she would have repsonded to your messages right away.
She is not interested in you, but doesn't know how to break the news to you, so she chickens out and ignores your messages.
If you like her, leave her alone. She is not interested.
You are better off liking someone new, who shows interest back to you.
There are sooo many girls/women out there. She won't be the only one you fall for.
Move on.
2007-11-01 06:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Advice Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls are creeped out by guys who are shy and have strong feelings. Generally speaking girls like that have some kind of destructive psychosis, and shy dudes are very easy to project the "them who's out to get me" thing onto. So like if you were having sex with her it would be really difficult to connect, and even if you did she'd be like sandpaper on the mind for months. So f that, crazy b's are a dime a dozen, save yourself and pop a nut on a picture of her or something and get over her.
2007-11-01 07:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by LP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, you need a new interest and not be so scared to talk to them. What's the worst that could happen? You get rejected? So what! Being confident goes a hell of a lot further than twiddling your thumbs and hoping they're psychic.
2007-11-01 06:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, but honestly move on. I don`t know why she didn`t respond... but she probably isn`t interested. She probably read the note and either didn`t know what to say... or didn`t have anything to say. If you want you can try to confront her, but it will not go well... because it will seem like you are cornering her into responding.
2007-11-01 06:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your ages?
Teen - Take the hint and move on because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying NO.
Adult - Approach her and pose the question. If you can handle being rejected OUT LOUD.
2007-11-01 06:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jalen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully by the time you start shaving, you will grow out of your weirdness. Leave here be and move on. You might find a girl who likes you the way you are.
2007-11-01 06:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋