Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

im 17

2007-09-17 22:17:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somwhow i want to let it out to shame him...
he just got his hair relaxed.
and the rest of the things that he does is really kinda gay..
also...
he gets too defensive when we talk to him about something gay...but its just a joke... then he goes..."I DONT DO THAT!! IM A GUY!!"


hes my friend... i guess...
wer not close...
but humiliation is SWEET!!

so i guess friendship doesnt matter anymore..


weeeeeeeeee!!!

-tayoness

2007-09-17 22:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by mucanada 1 in Friends

Okay, I was raised by a VERY Christian (Mormon) mother. I don't know my dad, but I had two abusive stepdads, neither of which were Christian. When I was 16,I thought for myself: I didn't believe it and have been Agnostic since. She has NEVER gotten over it.
Well, my senior year of high school, I met my husband. We dated for a year before moving out of state. We got married a few years ago, but I didn't tell my family. They aren't fond of him because we live together "unmarried" and more importantly- he's not religious at all. Agnostic, like me.
I am tired of not being able to tell my family, I know I should have told them right away, but I didn't, and can't change that. He has never done anything wrong to them, but I call my mother less and less because every time I do she tries to pressure me into leaving him and moving home. What do I do? Am I a horrible daughter for being more concerned with my future family, than my bitter mother? I don't want to lose her entirely.

2007-09-17 22:08:00 · 7 answers · asked by Puppy Paws 2 in Family

My husband for 15 years has recently realised that he is too good for me and wants to start afresh leaving me and my two kids.

He says that I am not qualified enough and he can not discuss anything with me. Surprisingly this he could not realise for past 13 years. I have done graduation in arts.

I am being harassed by him by some or other way every day sincle last two years. He comes up with a new theory everyday and talks very vague and seems to be fickle minded.

What should i do ? what are the options for me for my and my kids financial security ? Can i take a legal action against him?


Please advice.

2007-09-17 21:55:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my brother left for college last weekend.....its in state a few hours away....and i miss him so much....this is the first time he WON't be living with me and my family! and he'll never live with me ever again! it hurts so bad...i cant seem to get over it. how can i hate someone so much at one time, yet love them so much? i dont know what ill do without him, looking back on all the memories... i cant believe he wont be here to experience the rest of my high school life....
has anyone else gone through this? how'd u get thru it?

2007-09-17 21:53:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

wanna know?

2007-09-17 21:53:03 · 21 answers · asked by IRENE M 1 in Singles & Dating

im one of a kind i will give you the world .it dont take much to make me happy all i want is to be loved and to love . i love going camping fishing and hicking i love to make my woman feel wanted and treat her the way she needs to be . i dont want her to be with out and i will always do my best

2007-09-17 21:50:24 · 6 answers · asked by mike g 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl really likes me and I like her and think shes nice. Shes 16 and Im nearly 18. We talk all the time and Ive gotten to know her quite well. Nothings happened, but I know she likes me.
She is nice, but a party animal, drinks a bit and does other partying stuff. Opposite to me.
She has also had 22 previous boyfriends, I have had nowhere near a number of partners as her. I have way less!
Is this girl BAD NEWS for me? Should I go along with it? Im pretty confused right now..

2007-09-17 21:49:53 · 10 answers · asked by Chris1990nz 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't give me any of the BS like "I still love him, nomatter what" or if you're married "I vowed Til Death Do us part" because obviously the guy has no qualms about breaking either of them.

Honestly, any woman that stays with a guy that has punched her in the face is the stupid one in the relationship. And just like one of my sisters, if there is absolute proof of his repeated unfaithfulness, why do you not even think twice about taking him back? He obviously doesnt give a damn about you if he's bumping pelvises with the chick that lives three doors down from you.

PLEASE explain this to me.

And as a preemptive strike, any chick that answers this with some idiotic "Love conquers all" crap, you are a bag of douche.

-D

2007-09-17 21:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by GoonterTheJellyDog 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you know i want to forgot him coz by the time did not see him,,i feel bad.....i know that we can never be...more than friends..

2007-09-17 21:44:08 · 4 answers · asked by bryle justim 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is very posessive, physically and verbally abusive and suffers inferiority complex because I have been financially stable than him even before marriage 10 years ago. We have been through hell and back as a result of that. He assaulted me 10 months ago and since then I have not had sex with him because I have lost the love and respect I had for him. Could he be having someone somewhere to take care of his emotions. Not that it worries me but I feel curious to know.

2007-09-17 21:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don’t know how to write this . I am gay guy and I am in relationship with a person older to me . he is open to his parents . but my family don’t know about it . last Sunday my mother got snaps of my partner on my cell and condom packet in my bag . from that day all my family members stop talking to me and they want me to get married as early as possible. I don’t want to do that what should I do. I am thinking to commit suicide
Tell me what to do ?

2007-09-17 21:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by siddharth n 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 24yrs old while she is 27yrs old. My friend recommended me this girl and I have not currently called her. Just sending SMSes. It seems we have been SMSes each other for quite some time. We also exchanged pics. Two questions:

1. Is it ok for me to have a relationship with a girl 3 yrs older than me?
2. Any guidelines / webpages on how to talk effectively with a girl?
Thanks all.

2007-09-17 21:38:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What crazy things has your fiance come up with for the wedding? I want to hear the weirdest and wackiest things they wanted.
Mine wanted the men in the bridal party to wear blue wifebeater singlets on the beach. The worst part is I think he was serious!

2007-09-17 21:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by Stiffler 6 in Weddings

Why is losing virginity considered as an adolescent or adulthood initiation rite?

2007-09-17 21:36:37 · 4 answers · asked by afaoutkaster 1 in Singles & Dating

can u help me to tell him what can i tell him?

2007-09-17 21:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by IRENE M 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if a guy who is very comfortable with girls, talks to maybe 3 on the phone most nights, and like to touch most girls? i know it sounds like he's a player but when he does have a gf, he is serious about it. he is my good friend and he calls me and he is told me about how he rly cares about being close to me and he trusts me. he aways watches me, if its in class or just in the hall....and whenever he is walking by, he will tickle me, or hug me, or just touch my back to get my attention when im talking to my friend but when i turn around he doesnt even say anything. its like he just wants me to know he is there. how can u tell if a guy like this is ONLY doing this to you or if he does it to all the girls?

2007-09-17 21:34:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is very posessive and suffers inferiority complex because I have been financially stable than him even before marriage 10 years ago. We have been through hell and back as a result of that. He assaulted me 10 months ago and since then I have not had sex with him because I have lost the love and respect I had for him. Could he be having someone somewhere to take care of his emotions. Not that it worries me but I feel curious to know.

2007-09-17 21:34:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and i feel totally helpless. she is a young, successful business woman. but over the last year, she has gone from being my carefree, loving, strong, independent sister to someone i hardly even recognize.

she seems to live & breathe for his approval. in my opinion, he is extremely judgmental and critical of her every move. & rather than being offended, she accepts it and explains: "he is a really good judge of character, if it wasn't true he wouldn't say it". he has also convienced her that she is the source of all their problems. WTF??

we weren't raised that way. our parents raised us to be strong, independent women. so what happened? how can i tactfully bring this up to her - without alienating her? lately, i feel it has been really difficult to talking to her about him, because she tells him everything.

he also convienced her to back out of her best friends wedding. (she was the maid of honor)

how do i talk to her - without pushing her further into his arms?

2007-09-17 21:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by young, black & gifted 2 in Family

The woman is 30something and the man is 20something.

2007-09-17 21:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand why women are so intentively evil. If all men are dogs and you are going to treat them as such, then why the charade of being in a relationship or longing to be married? Why all the complaining about "no good men" out there if you're just going to ruin each one you get ahold of?

I know everyone has a unique situation, but I can't be the only one who feels this way. Marriage even seems to be a joke as it only gives a woman a divorce to hang over your head.

2007-09-17 21:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by thisguy 3 in Singles & Dating

A guy whos tough on the outside & treats a girl really mean? or a guy whos tough looking on the outside but treats his girl sweet & with respect?(girls opinon)-my opinion is that a guy who wants to be a bad boy & treats his girl like crap usually 98% is ugly as well which it dont make him a badboy more like a gay ***...so as for my choice of a BAD BOY- a guy who looks or is tough on the outside so he can back up his girl & protect her but yet treats her with full on RESPECT & is nothing but sweet 2 her! So 2 all u sweet,good looking guys tough looking/or not dont think that being a mean peice of shyt 2 ur lady will make u abadboy jus cuz maybe they were stuck wit an asshole thats not wut they want jus be ur sweetself-->it will jus make u act like those ugly lookin fools out there...lol oh & for u not so goodlooking guys out there u most definately have 2 treat ur lady extra sweet since u aint got the looks lol...

2007-09-17 21:23:16 · 6 answers · asked by Ch@Zz 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my fiancee dearly and he really turns me on. But when ever we do make love he goes straight to the intercourse and there isn't enough foreplay. I don't know how to tell him that I'd like to take it slow & take our time focusing on each other first before going to that stage.

I'd like to tell him what i want without sounding demanding. I just want to be suttle about it.

I really love this man. And i've never wanted some one in my life so bad before. He means a lot to me and its just not some sex fest. So please honest answers only. Thank you.

2007-09-17 21:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by --- 2 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a man whom I fell in love with in a short time. I started getting close to his kids, who are absolutely wonderful, and it spooked him. We didn't officially break up but after a few weeks of no calls I asked for my things back (that I left at his place) and he totally ignored me for over a month so I decided to run a background check on him. I found out that he has some serious issues that he's done in the past but now he is LIVID with me saying that I overstepped my boundaries, I invaded his privacy and that I'm completely crazy. Is he right? If he would have given me my things back in the first place then I wouldn't have ran the background check. He has controlling issues but why not return my things? Guess he likes to keep mementos of failed relationships.

2007-09-17 21:17:13 · 17 answers · asked by kittenireland 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been wanting to find out my blood type (I've begged all my doctors, but none of them will test me just for my curiosity, they say they have to have a reason to test me, like pregnancy or for transfusions). My dad had type A blood and my mother has type O. Both are definetely my biological parents. Is my blood type definetely one of the two, or can it be another type altogether? And is there a likely reason that one will be dominant over the other?

2007-09-17 21:08:07 · 15 answers · asked by Moon 1 in Family

This questions are intended to guys so if you feel like sharing why you don't feel like showing your feelings about love then hit that keyboard and give us the details why! thanks!

2007-09-17 20:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by Cybil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the most sale-girls in the lingerie department think if a guy buying inner-wears for their wife or girlfriend?

2007-09-17 20:45:55 · 27 answers · asked by coconut 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been told by guys that im a good looking girl. (i dont think im anything special myself)

i always attract guys however, i cannot find myself a boyfriend or a guy to date.

the guys either want to keep things casual or are after one thing!!!

i do not sleep around so its not as if they have had want they want and move on to someone else!!!

am i doing anything wrong???

even guys as old as 30 are like this too!!!

im 25.

i have had a serious boyf before-6 years. i ended the relationship over a year ago for a number of reasons. i am ready to move on. i dont tell guy this when i meet them tho.

2007-09-17 20:42:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 25 and we are dating..but he is married and happy. he is happy with me too. in fact i love him. im confused.

2007-09-17 20:40:20 · 21 answers · asked by miami 1 in Singles & Dating

How come people fight and Lie?

2007-09-17 20:39:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends