Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

im in highschool im 16 i believe shes 15 both sophomores and i have 1 class with her but dont talk because we sit away from each othere in assinged seats and do work she knows me we only talked a couple of times i dont have lunch with her on her myspace it says she is single and hopes to have a boyfriend she is white european but americanized she seems shy (very shy) her last boyfriend was biracial black and white like me so that mite be a plus for me ..since we dont get to talk much how should i get to know her? also give me a list of info a highschool girl would want to know before dating a guy?

2007-09-17 13:09:18 · 16 answers · asked by cow man 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever tried to talk to them about it
have they ever toled you to deal with it or move out

2007-09-17 13:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm over forty, a little over weight but independent, cute, loving and fun to be with! where do i find my soul mate

2007-09-17 13:05:51 · 3 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 13:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by Brittony C 1 in Friends

ok there's this guy.
and i like him.
and we flirt.
and finally my friend asked him if he "liked" me.
and he said yes.
and no.
no because he didn't know if i liked him.
and because there's a girl who he dates off and on and the girl is still in LOVE with him.
well he got really excited when my friend told him i liked him and before that the first thing he said was to ask where i was.
but i dunno what's going to happen.
do you think he will stay away from me just because of the other girl?
or not?

Additional Details
3 minutes ago
well awhile back he was making out with this girl...this is before we really got close so i don't think he was being a jerk...and i made some kind of funny comment about it as a joke and he got all defensive about it and said he didn't really want to and he regretted it.
that's when i 1st got the notion he might like me

2007-09-17 13:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and him were really good friends last year, and all through summer. Even at the beginning of this school year we still talked w/e we seen eachother. I really like him but he didnt know, but our friends told me he liked me. Then one day he just stopped talking to me. I dont why. When we see eachother in the halls he just looks straight ahead and doesnt even aknowledge me. I say hi and he'll just look at me w/ out replying. I didnt do anything to upset him. I cant just ask him why b/c he will deny it and probally become more irrated with me. What should I do to at least get our friendship back?! Please help!!

2007-09-17 12:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

ok there's this guy.
and i like him.
and we flirt.
and finally my friend asked him if he "liked" me.
and he said yes.
and no.
no because he didn't know if i liked him.
and because there's a girl who he dates off and on and the girl is still in LOVE with him.
well he got really excited when my friend told him i liked him and before that the first thing he said was to ask where i was.
but i dunno what's going to happen.
do you think he will stay away from me just because of the other girl?
or not?

Additional Details
3 minutes ago
well awhile back he was making out with this girl...this is before we really got close so i don't think he was being a jerk...and i made some kind of funny comment about it as a joke and he got all defensive about it and said he didn't really want to and he regretted it.
that's when i 1st got the notion he might like me

2007-09-17 12:53:27 · 1 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

you've been with this person for months, fell in love, have so many things in common, ect.; but come to find out that this person youve been seeing is with someone else.and you just come to realize he never cared about you at all, never even loved you.how do u lose the love u never had.how can i let go?

2007-09-17 12:50:16 · 1 answers · asked by Herline 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this seems really childish, but I have no clue whether he likes me or not, so I wanted to get a nuetral opinion.
I'm 17 and the best of friends with this guy I like. (Great situation to be in right?) I don't want to risk my friendship with him by coming out and telling him that I like him. I'm not exactly an love novice, so I'd like everyone's opinion. ...He flirts a lot, but sometimes I wonder whether he realizes he's doing it.

- We laugh constantly when we're together
-We're not shy around each other at all.
- During conversation we always keep eye contact
- He teases me a lot.
- He will randomly reach over and touch my arm or knee or something.
- He sits by me in every class (his choice)
- Today in marching band he just randomly walked up to me grabbed my hand and placed it on his chest so I could feel his heart beat...

There are more things, but I guess I just think that maybe I only notice these things becaus

2007-09-17 12:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP ME!:)))

2007-09-17 12:49:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The simple way to put this would be that me and my boyfriend *Frank never ever argue we have an excellent sex life and no complaints...
I'm freaked out because everything is too perfect...
I'm only 18 (as is he)
When we talk he gives what I call commercially based answers ...which means that its exactly what I would wanna hear...
we've been together almost 7 months but I rebounded quickly from the 3 yr relationship before (2days)(we had big reasons why we broke up)
So am I just scared of commitment or is the idea of a perfect relationship simply unrealistic?
&& my bf now has never had an actual relationship...
He's only "associated"(he doesn't claim them) with other girls (sex was 90% of the time involved)...
So... Um...
What do you think??

2007-09-17 12:45:15 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend has a female friend who always phones him when she's drunk and gets a little stroppy with him sometimes and generally texts him a lot and gets annoyed if he doesn't go out for a drink with her when she's in town, does this mean she's after him?
And if so, what can you do to feel okay about it without coming across like an annoying jealous girlfriend? Are there any good methods to subtly get her to back off without telling your boyfriend you don't want her acting like that?

2007-09-17 12:42:09 · 2 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 12:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met a gut at church today. he really seems to like me. i like him to. the only thing is. only see him at church. it is against my religion to hit on some one at church. what should i do

2007-09-17 12:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by Raven H 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you want them all the time, and they want you about once a month? Talking openly has not worked. Neither has porn.

2007-09-17 12:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Dave S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 12:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by dreamwhip 4 in Weddings

also am hearing about Mandaly bay, the belagio, the venitiain. any vegas brides out there who an can help. oh yeah our kids will be included (staying with grandparents, nannies etc) so have to keep that in mind

2007-09-17 12:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by dreamwhip 4 in Weddings

My husband told me he's planning on filing for divorce after I decked him the other day and he found out I'm in love with someone else, which I don't understand why he's so angry about we have been seperated for a month because of his constant going out with his friends to bars and strip clubs until all hours of the night. But anyway he said he's going to try for full custody of Ava! I don't think that's right and plus don't the courts prefer the mother anyway? Plus it will be better off since he works 12 hours a day and I just work part time, so I'll have more time with her. I want full custody and I only want him to have supervised visitation because my new guy really likes her and i don't want my daughter to be confused.

2007-09-17 12:09:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

second. He is Jewish I am not (well sort of ) my dad is Jewish and my mom never convereted but I grew up going to Hebrew schoool and Sunday school. His first wife converted and they have 5 grown kids and two grandkids. his religion and culture was not as important for the secon as THEY AGREED TO NOT HAVE KIDS, but as he filed for divorce she was OOPs preg. He dearly loves his adorable 11 year old. I have twin girls age 9 and 6 year old son and a five year old daughter. we wanted a beach wedding but "destination wwedding has become so the norm, but i don't want to marry in our hometown. we plan to have our kids family and about 20 close friends. anyone have a romntic place in mind that is child friendly. nothing like Italy, as we could not ask our family and friends to pay that, but more along the lines of Florida (pan handle) dallas texas, New Orleans, the Bahanas, el dorado royale cancun, big sur. please as mamy of youas possible giv eme your best romantic locatation. i love the beach

2007-09-17 12:05:38 · 4 answers · asked by dreamwhip 4 in Weddings

2007-09-17 12:05:12 · 1 answers · asked by t3T3 1 in Singles & Dating

my question is this and i know im gonna get put on blast for this i recently was contacted by an old flame from 10yrs ago and she is still crazy for me but she is married now she states she loves her husband but she also still wants to see me again i agreed if she brought her husband along so i may meet him too she wants closure in why we broke up i already explained tha to her she has accepted that but still wants to see me problem is she wants to meet me alone and has asked me to meet her (she lives in another city) alone ,and like ive said before i agreed if she brought her husband so i can meet him also but she says for her to meet me first before we all meet together what do i do i already agreed to meet her....

2007-09-17 12:05:08 · 15 answers · asked by rashaan_lewis_patterson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so i juss got this new boyfriend and i dont want him to break up with me cuz im not fun to talk its jus that im kinda shy.like when we were friends we could talk about everything but now that we go out its like i have nothing to say to him you know?i juss need to know how i could do better and keep him intrested

2007-09-17 12:03:37 · 26 answers · asked by darrell b 1 in Singles & Dating

She won't go to rehab, and i've been trying to help her but i dont know what to do anymore. I feel like i have been watching her die for so long, and i feel like a horrible friend for not being able to help her get over this addiction. i am always there for her when she needs me. Is it just making things worse by letting her know someones always gonna have her back when she's too drunk?

2007-09-17 12:01:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it typical for your ex to talk to you sit bye you and act as if he wants you back or is that jus weird???

2007-09-17 11:50:30 · 1 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He has 4 kids, I have none. He has full custody of them (their mother left them). They love me and I love them, but lately my boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and I just don't feel happy anymore. I don't want to walk out on the kids like their mom did...but I want to be happy too. I have family in another state and we have talked about me going, but he says it is up to me. What should I do?

Serious answers only please.

2007-09-17 11:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie 4 in Family

I've been in college for 2 weeks and I haven't made that many friends. It seems like everyone in my dorm already knows each other but they just go out to drink and party and I really don't think that makes them friends. Would you rather just know alot of people to go out and party with or would you rather have a couple of really close friends?

2007-09-17 11:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I will be flat out honest with you...

I wear glasses (silver square-rimmed)
I am 5' 2"
I am overweight
I act totally insane, scaring most girls
I actually am quite intellectual
I am 12, about to be 13 (7th grade)
all my clothes are black usually with skulls

2007-09-17 11:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't like the print your own kind, I tried them for my save the date cards and they came out horrible. Please do not suggest this as an option. I am looking for a reputable place someone has ordered cheap but nice invitations from and were satisfied. I have tried GOOGLE and such to no avail. I can't find anything affordable yet decent looking. Please help, we are on a terribly tight buget, yet I don't want to go without traditional invitations and response cards. Thank you

2007-09-17 11:45:08 · 19 answers · asked by lunitari601 3 in Weddings

I just want to find out if your contacts tried to delete their question, send a email and never reply back or something. One of my contacts(luckygirl831) got 2 points deducted and got removed from their contacts. what about you, guys and girls!?

2007-09-17 11:43:54 · 8 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Friends

i would like to know if you married your high school sweethearts. how long did you guys date? Where did you meet? When did you decide you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them? Did you have anyone discourage you? Did anyone say you wouldn' make it?

2007-09-17 11:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce