I will be flat out honest with you...
I wear glasses (silver square-rimmed)
I am 5' 2"
I am overweight
I act totally insane, scaring most girls
I actually am quite intellectual
I am 12, about to be 13 (7th grade)
all my clothes are black usually with skulls
2007-09-17 11:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you tried contacts?
eat healthier, and go to the gym
use your intelligence to impress her
but everyone is different so you dont have to change everything about yourself just to get a girl. maybe someone will find you more attractive if you just lose a little weight, which you probably will when you grow
2007-09-17 11:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing you need to work on is the acting insane thing. I personally think that the black and skulls thing is totally hot! Especially with dark hair (I have a thing for dark haired guys). But yeah, all you have to do is act calm and and relaxed and be yourself. Girls don't like fakers. Just be yourself and don't act insane. Don't listen to all these people that say you have to lose weight. It's all up to you. Plus, that's awesome that you're 5'2''! I'm only 5'1 and a half" and there are a lot of short girls. And what exactly do you mean by acting totally insane anyway? My biggest suggestion would be to find a girl that you have a lot in common with and get along really well. And trust me, give it time. Sooner or later girls will realize how totally hot you are. Believe me, black and skulls are hot!
2007-09-17 11:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by carmelcat324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have answered your own question.... You spaz out and scare most girls... OK....... You wear black clothes with skulls on them... OK.... Geez I have no idea why girls are not attracted to you. Girls like a clean, well dressed, smart, and the most important two things, politeness and humor, which is the biggest one. You are sabotaging yourself. Get rid of the skulls, quit eating junk food, exercise and stop spazing around anyone, not just girls. Get on a program and change yourself. A makeover of sorts. If you are "quite intellectual" as you claim, you should have no problem understanding this or doing things a little differently. By the way, you will grow, do not even worry about that one. Girls like glasses to, all of my girlfriends do. So now you know. Good Luck!
2007-09-17 11:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Develop your hobbies, swim, play an instrument (guitar electric), learn ballromdance (I'm not kidding) develop an interest to persue. Train for a sport. Wear colors, start with some color teas. Go to the dances, and have fun with your friends. Social skills give help you all your life and the other kids are in the same boat no matter who they are. You realize this later in life. Being a nice guy is a must, and a gentlemen. Avoid drugs, booze. Change the path now and your future will be full of interests and people you can appreciate.
2007-09-17 11:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your doing a pretty good job. If its any consulation, I would date you haha. Its nice that your treating girls nicely, there are so many jerks out there. One way is if a girl who consideres you as a friend goes through a hard breakup, be there for her and she might fall for you. Or if you don't wanna wait that long, consider this: are you being foward enough? are you flirting? or are you a little shy? be direct. Sometimes girls don't want to show their interested because they're scared. Maybe be a little compeitive. Like in gym or something, tease a girl. And personally for me, its not all about looks. You sound nice and appealing. But what about your personality? Be more outgoing, understanding, and fun. Good luck.
2016-05-17 07:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. Okay, first of all, don't act totally insane. Ditch the black clothes, and the skulls. Ummmm, if you don't like glasses, try contacts? Try working out. Acting non-intellectual (not a know-it-all). Stand straight when around girls. Make jokes (not corny ones). Ummmmm, I don't know really.
2007-09-17 12:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by lovelifeandpeace 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get new frames, start exercising, be nice and polite to girls, and GET RID OF THE CLOTHES that you wear trying to make a statement. Black with skulls, you can do a lot better than that. Start dressing with some style.
You will start being noticed by girls.
2007-09-17 11:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lose the glasses get contacts
lose the weight[people only do this is they seriosuly want a girl]
act calm dont b annoying towards people
act cool
invite people to your birthday and have it b the best in the whole town
get some other clothes besides black only a percentage of girls like guys who wear all black
2007-09-17 11:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, people shouldnt be telling you to loose weight just to earn the attraction of some girl. Loose the weight just to be healthy and to make YOU happy. Also--I have met plenty of overweight guys that I was attracted to just because of their personality. Being funny is a big plus.
If you like to dress like that, dont stop. There are plenty of girls out there who like guys who wear lots of black. Rock the glasses (unless you are cool with contacts).
Now, about the whole "acting totally insane" thing--you probably do scare girls away with that. I would say tone it down a bit until they really get to know you and wont judge you by your funny behavior. Trust me, there are plenty of girls out there who will probably dig you, just be patient.
2007-09-17 12:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by amy m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest with you, the only girls who you will be appealing to are the ones who look like you ie--black clothes, act insane. If you want to appeal to all girls, sadly you will have to change your appearance...Most girls do not like the black and the skulls...turn your insane acts into acts of confidence...us girls like that...I know I am a 24 year old girl
2007-09-17 11:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by annonymous 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋