im in highschool im 16 i believe shes 15 both sophomores and i have 1 class with her but dont talk because we sit away from each othere in assinged seats and do work she knows me we only talked a couple of times i dont have lunch with her on her myspace it says she is single and hopes to have a boyfriend she is white european but americanized she seems shy (very shy) her last boyfriend was biracial black and white like me so that mite be a plus for me ..since we dont get to talk much how should i get to know her? also give me a list of info a highschool girl would want to know before dating a guy?
2007-09-17 13:09:18 · 16 answers · asked by cow man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your going to have to just start talking to her, and be a good listener, girls love when guys listen
2007-09-17 13:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by cubsfan5289 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should try talking to her more and more. In high school sometimes you worry about other people seeing that youre talking to her b/c chances are you hang out with different crowds and its always odd to talk to someone new. But since you have a class with her you can start talking to her about something irrelevant about the class. "what did you think of today's lecture?" "professor is pretty crazy!" etc. Anything to break the ice. Once the ice is broken you can try just talking to her about you and her. Ask questions about her....maybe college plans, a recent movie, music, other classes, comment on food, etc. The key is to look and appear confident with your questions and answers. Most of the time what you talk about isnt the main concern, its more body language than anything.
As for the stuff that a highschool girl will want to know before dating a guy. It really depends. From my experience, most girls have this idea of what they want and expect. But dont rely on that, because the truth is, even they dont know what they want. The main thing is just talking to her and gettin to know her, and have her get to know you. Girls like you, you just have to show them the type of person you are. So yea, just randomly go up to her and ask a question followed by some conversation. If she's busy at least you said "hi" and next time you see her after school/after class/or during break you can go up to her, say "hi" again and attempt at another conversation. Try to spend time with her where its just you two so you can both get to know each other better.
Hope everything goes well :)
2007-09-17 21:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by kingofblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to grow the gonads and just ask her... ive always asked girls out without even knowing them... i of course know their name and observe for a while but ill just ask them to homecomming or prom without even knowing their personality... if they find u attractive or nice they will say yes if not just move on and find someone else... fact is get some gutz and do it... just ask her basicly... i cant make it any clearer ... but if u wanna make it harder then go ahead and add her an myspace start talking to her their then say hi at school and ask her whats new or something its simple girls dont bite they are basicly like guys just like different things usually. So just dive in :)
2007-09-17 20:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by loonar_cheese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her before and after class. and talk to her more online. U shuld wait a little bit to get to know her, but not too long or else u might lose your chance. Or u can just go up to her and say listen i really like u and was wondering if u wanted to go out with me (to a movie or something), and make your moves there.
2007-09-17 20:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with her and keep it at that. don't tie yourself down to one girl in high school~~you're at one of the best times in your whole life and will look back to spending it with one girl and then break up with her in the end....not a great way to remember high school. Be her friend, study buddy, friendships make for good long term relationships. If you don't end up in a relationship, she will cherish your friendship and every time she gets hurt by some 'clown' she'll come to you for a shoulder to lean on....a great place to be in the future as you really begin to date seriously AFTER HIGH SCHOOL.
2007-09-17 20:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about her family, her friends, and her hobbies. Then once you get to know her a little better, invite her to a group outing with friends. You should try and be her friend first before you jump into "hooking up"
2007-09-17 20:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by tallglassofwater91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll start the list.
1) Punctuation.
2007-09-17 20:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... you han gout with her a lot first then u ask her on a coupple dates and u dont really ask u go for it if u feel its the right time. ohh... and also, she might make the 1st move
2007-09-17 20:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you must ask her out like right away, because the more you know eachother the more chances she has of putting you in her "good friend" list and not "boyfrriend" list.
2007-09-17 21:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude talk to her for a idk a 2 months at the mOST!!!!! or else she will give up but talk for a lil while and you will know when she likes you you will get this lil butter fly feelin in yo tummy if ya want more detail email me josiah_h41@hotmail.com
2007-09-17 20:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by josiah_h41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋