Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

2007-09-17 10:06:55 · 14 answers · asked by mevega79 1 in Friends

that he isnt really interested?

2007-09-17 10:05:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, im in the process or organising a wedding, but need to keep it as cheap as possible. does everyone have a wedding breakfast / meal? if not do you still have the speeches? im looking to have a buffet at the reception, but am not sure that we can afford both.

Ideas appreciated.

2007-09-17 10:03:47 · 23 answers · asked by SilverstreaK_1066 3 in Weddings

2007-09-17 09:59:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 09:58:47 · 2 answers · asked by wert 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i was nice to this boy name eric all last year and he really didn't say much 4 most of the time last year but this year he keeps trying me sooooo bad and he every time he get's he picks on me left and right and says he wants to hit me in my face and i never even said a thing to him and i think that's kind of sissy of him to keep agravateing a girl. do you ?what should i do?

2007-09-17 09:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by [[iM .]] K3LViN'S L4DY ~ 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been in a relationship for 7 years and throughout the majority of it my husband and i faught. he was always so angry and said it was because of his childhood,which was a bit disturbing, but i stook by him and tried to help. he was abusive and very condecending, but i always thought that he would get better, which he did a lot, but now i'm wonderig if he's changed enough for me and i'm not sure if i'm willing to wait another seven years for him to improve even more. we have two beautiful children and i am worried about seperating but i don't know if i'm as strong as i once was to deal with this any longer. he's the breadwinner in the family and he always give us what we need and anything that we want. we live in a wonderful neighbourhood and we are pretty well off, but we haven't always been well off like this, that's why i don't think i would miss any of this. i'm not ungrateful i just feel so confused and depressed. any advice would help, but please only serious answers. thx

2007-09-17 09:58:02 · 24 answers · asked by divineangelbullard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 09:57:42 · 12 answers · asked by MistressL 1 in Singles & Dating

Tha last night I caused a dear friend a great deal of pain by a careless remark....It was meant as a joke but she was not amused to put it lightly....I have apologized but I fear this will not be enough.....any suggestion will be appreciated?

2007-09-17 09:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

In relationships, why is it that people think its okay to look but not touch? We've all heard that one right? Looking, thinking, and dreaming about it. Why is it that some guys act as if its okay to check out other girls and think about the possibiltys? Think about how great it would be?.....Okay If your in a relationship shouldnt you be thinking of the one your with?

Is it possible to be committed both body....and "mind"?

2007-09-17 09:54:42 · 2 answers · asked by Bethyboo 3 in Singles & Dating

I believe that finding a person with a compatible personality is the most important thing in a relationship, and also that there are many different people compatible with anyone, I don't buy into the whole soul mate thing. I do find it funny when people choose someone over a foot in height shorter or taller than themselves though, what is the greatest height different you know of.

My friend is 6'2 and his girlfriend is 5'0.

2007-09-17 09:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Jett 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to someone for about a month (i know not long at all) but I like him a lot, I take guitar lessons at his job so him and i were flirting for a while before we just spent time alone. I dont know he makes it seem like he likes me a lot and wants to be with me, but he says he is dealing with a lot of personal stuff and cant commit to anyone..especially because he cant trust in a woman either. Blah blah. i dont know- i am fine with that answer- i just dont know if i want to keep him as a friend (and deal with hiding emotions) or just go my seperate way.

2007-09-17 09:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by Yari 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean if she has a hot body she can do all kinds of crazy things right???? or is this just a bunch of bull crap

2007-09-17 09:52:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is only because we don't have the money for a big wedding and honeymoon but we want to be together forever. Anyways I know you have to go and fill out paperwork but how do you find someone to marry you? If anyone has ever done this or knows how to go about doing PLEASE help me!! THANKS!

2007-09-17 09:52:12 · 22 answers · asked by sureality00 1 in Weddings

2007-09-17 09:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by clesmp 1 in Weddings

My bestfriend who is a guy admited to me that he has been in love with me for the past year. we have been trying to still keep our friendship going even with his feeling for me but its hard when i dont share the same feelings.
he HATES if i even look at another guy and he gets jealous to the point that he has been starting to put me down to make himself feel better. i was engaged to his really good friend for the past 4 years but we just broke up about 6 months ago so i have been going out and meeting a lot of new people and having fun with my girl friends. this bothers my best friend because he feels like id rather hang out with other people rather than him which is not true its just nice to go out with the girls every once in a while.
anyway last thurs. night me and my best friend went to the bars and i was getting free drinks from guys and i would pass the drinks behind my back to him so he didnt have to pay (i was dd so i had to be sober) but one of the guys that bought me a...

2007-09-17 09:51:28 · 2 answers · asked by play hard 4 in Friends

And if I do send out cards what should they say on them? And should I still expect gifts?

2007-09-17 09:51:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am almost 6 months pregnant and i have been with my baby father for 4 years and it seems like everything is goin wrong but he is happy about the baby but it doesn't seem like he is ready to give the streets up. like he doesn't really call me anymore like to see if i am ok but he be with his friends more than he be with me and it wasn't like that before i am 18 and i know the responsibilities of raising a child but i am just tires of feelin like i am alone so over the weekend i went to his house and packed all of my stuff that i had over in his house and took it to my mother's house. i am thinkin of movin to florida before i give birth because i feel like when i have the baby it is all going to be the same. im not the person that likes to be treated one way and then another. he says that he wants to be around when the baby is born. i just need some advice on wat to do. i tried talkin to some many times n it is to the point that im tired of talkin thats y i packed my stuff and left.

2007-09-17 09:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by janet h 1 in Singles & Dating

This girls name is Lindsay. Her and I have been friends for about, I would say a year. Not best friends, but her locker is right next to mine, and we talk some in gym and other places if we want to. The thing is, I am super shy when it comes to talking to pretty girls, and I get shy around her. Another thing is she talks to alot of guys, so I dont know if she is after somebody else, and if she is, I dont want to intrued on it. I know if I want to start dating somebody, I should talk to them alot, but I feel weird talking to her, since she talks to so many guys. After school today, she was sitting next to a pillar and nobody else was there, I was going to walk to there, but she got up and playfully tapped my leg with her foot and said "Hey". I striked up a conversation about what time she got on the suddle run in gym class. Another thing I notice about her, is that she always looks at me at lunch and at gym, I dont know if that would mean anything special. Please help, thanks in advance

2007-09-17 09:47:45 · 1 answers · asked by Spike 2 in Singles & Dating

I've mean struggling with how to deal with my husband and his interaction with his 14yr old son who I believe is causing stress between my husband and I - It's not a direct hit to our relationship it's more of a side swipe to our relationship. I have been step parenting him since he was in the 5th grade - He's now in high school and he seems to not listen to me or take my corrections. He's not rude or disrepectful to me but he's not responsive to my request & devisouse with his actions. He does things on his own time. and when I confront him about why things are not done he stands there with a blank look and he offers no response to my concerns. I then go to my husband when I cant get anywhere with my SS. But my husband doesn't respond as I think he should.....So things pile up and then I start to bark because I feel Im not being heard and what I want does'nt seem to be important enough to get done. I frastrated and I want to get through to my husband that I'm not happy.

2007-09-17 09:46:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sheba 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy in my class but he has a girl friend. and today I saw a picture of them together and he looks so happy with her and thats how I want him to be, happy. So i need to find a way to stop likeing him so we both can be happy, he can stay with her and I wont hurt anymore,last night i only slept from 12am-3am because I was scared to go back to sleep because I had a dream about him and I didn't want to have another...how do I stop likeing him....I need to stop likeing him,I really like him....and I want him to be happy and she makes him happy,... please help me......please......

2007-09-17 09:45:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy i like is always staring at me.

we're both sophomores, im shy and hes extremely shy. im pretty sure he knows i like him cause my friends blabbed it out to his friend, haha soooooo yeahh anyways....

today in class when i was going back to my seat from throwing something away, he was staring at me while i was walking back to my seat. AND he was staring at me when i was going back to my seat after coming back form the bathroom.


ALSO, we had a dance on friday and he was there and so was i and he kept staring at me all night and kept walking past me. idk do you think he likes me or what?

what should i do, i know i should talk to him but its not that easy idk what he thinks, guys are just REALLY hard to read espcially him cause shy.................. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-17 09:45:28 · 27 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and ive been attracted to boys basically my whole life.
well for a few months now, ive been worrying constantly about this answer i saw on here. It said " sometimes you force yourself to like boys when you dont" and thats when it started me thinking "have i been covering up for liking girls?" or " am i hiding the fact i like girls just because i care what others think?" I really do NOT wanna be a lesbian. .and like i dont like see myself looking for guys anymore. I used to be like "wow hes cute" ( and yes i still do but it feels like im lieing to myself ) i do say shes pretty. but not really in a attracted sort of way.i wish i could just go back to when i didnt worry about this or think about it. because i really dont want to be a lesbian.
anything to help me go back to normal? or is this like a phase?and i think like worrying about will actualyl make it worse. and make me like girls.like when i used to talk to guys id be all nervous. and now its like im not so excited anymore

2007-09-17 09:44:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting really upset about this guest list situation. Any advice or words of wisdom would be great. We are having our reception in the church hall after the wedding. It holds 250 people. Well, my mom and my FMIL sat down to do a guest list and this list has gone up to 420 people!!! Thats INSANE!! I have tried to tell the moms that I get 150, and my fiance gets 150....which is ok on my side. But his side is almost 300 people!! And his mom is insisting we have to invite all of them, even though we have been together for 6 years and I have never met most of them and I know its been a good ten years since hes seen 90% of them. FMIL suggested we just rent a bigger venue!!! UM HELLO!! MY parents are paying for this and his parents have offerend NO financial support!!! How do I handle this?? I've tried to be firm but polite...and its not working. I will not put my parents in bankruptcy feeding people that I have never met and whom he hasnt seen since childhood.

2007-09-17 09:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by Let ME be President! 4 in Weddings

I saw this question was already posted once, but my angle is that I hear people saying that it's not a honeymoon if you took your bride to where you grew up. We also visited some family of mine and I saw my cousin get married, and this trip was on our one-year anniversary. If I fell short, tell me and I'll be booking tickets to Cancun!!

2007-09-17 09:41:16 · 17 answers · asked by RickNY 3 in Weddings

I love my friend, and this may come off as rude, or mean-spirited. She loves singing and acting, but isn't really good at all. Her singing is just...really...bad! And she's a total diva.

Whenever you're singing, she comes in three times as loud, obnoxiously. She also tells my group of friends we aren't great singers like she is. Even though my other friend Maria is a beautiful singer.

We recently tried out for a play, and she didn't get in. I did. She acted like a total diva, and said, with a very mean-spirited tone of voice, "Fine. Whatever. Congratulations." I asked her if she was okay, and I said I was sorry, but she blew me off and gave me mean eyes. When she doesn't get a lead, she acts really pissy, too.

How do I tell her to either stop acting like such a diva, or that she isn't great at singing? Telling her flat out is a bad descicon, she'd get INCREDIBLY mad.

2007-09-17 09:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Friends

Ive never seen an asian male and a black female ever date before. Of course Ive seen black males date asian women before. But never have I seen asian male date black women. I wonder why is that. I know other races date but never this race why is that u suppose

2007-09-17 09:38:54 · 22 answers · asked by veg4life 3 in Singles & Dating

My "best" friend grew up, and I mean grew, she developed and everything, and left me sitting where I was all the time. What do I do to get her back?

2007-09-17 09:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sometimes my mom can make me so upset that I just feel worthless. She says I'm not caring, she says I'm selfish, that her day would be better without me in it. I asked her something and when I figured it out on my own she rolled her eyes and said "duh". I know I'm a good person and I get A's and my friends love me. But she's really lowering my self-esteem because I keep on thinking "this is my mom saying this". It's not 24/7 but I've finally had enough that I just start crying over the simplest things. Why does she want the perfect daughter???

2007-09-17 09:35:11 · 6 answers · asked by love 1 in Family

or would you make the sure assumption she's mad and avoid at all costs,do you admire slightly off centre and bizarre women?

2007-09-17 09:33:59 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating