Wanting to start a relationship, but...?

Question

This girls name is Lindsay. Her and I have been friends for about, I would say a year. Not best friends, but her locker is right next to mine, and we talk some in gym and other places if we want to. The thing is, I am super shy when it comes to talking to pretty girls, and I get shy around her. Another thing is she talks to alot of guys, so I dont know if she is after somebody else, and if she is, I dont want to intrued on it. I know if I want to start dating somebody, I should talk to them alot, but I feel weird talking to her, since she talks to so many guys. After school today, she was sitting next to a pillar and nobody else was there, I was going to walk to there, but she got up and playfully tapped my leg with her foot and said "Hey". I striked up a conversation about what time she got on the suddle run in gym class. Another thing I notice about her, is that she always looks at me at lunch and at gym, I dont know if that would mean anything special. Please help, thanks in advance

Answer 1

Theres a big reason why highschool is so depression. Its becasue its the easiest time to get into a relationship, but the hardest time to upon up to one. So I'll give you some facts and you connect the dots.


1. EVERYONE is insecure, remember that, no one knows enough of the truth to be super secure with who they are, espacially in highschool.

2. Friendships can actually survive highschool, love affairs rarly.

3. Highschool is nothing like the real world.

4. Doesn't matter if she is with anyone, you need to get use to the simple act of talking and relating with the ladies, heres a little hint, THERE A LOT LIKE YOU!!!! Only differences is physical not mental, don't believe the pop-bs

5. You can gain more attention from people getting interested in them, then you ever can getting them interesting in you. Which is why you did good asking HER about the time she got on the suddle run in gym class, but feel free to dig a little deeper.

6. If you can't realize that highschool is a good place to learn about people, not so much experience them, you'll kick your butt when you go to college and realize how much easier this is, in there, so be patient and relax!